and i don't want to get myself involved in drugs, and i don't want to be known as someone that went out with someone that did drugs and have people think that i do drugs too, i really don't know what to do, can anyone please help me?
2007-12-20 18:09:32 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not worried about me getting myself involved in drugs, just more afraid of what people will think, and if it'll hurt me to know that she's doing drugs. i know that i won't end up doing drugs because all the problems it caused in my life, never knew my parents- moved 10-12 times- 6 foster homes- car crash, dad died... all that because of drugs... that y i kno i wont get involved
2007-12-20 18:19:17 · update #1
Find another girl. The temptation is far too great to fit in with someone and drugs affect people differently.
You need someone who is responsible and fun. A person on drugs is self centered and self absorbed.
Ask yourself why you want to be with someone who can't even take care of their own mental and physical health? What is your payoff?
When you answer that try to find something much less challenging and more relaxing. Good Luck and God Bless. Pray for your friend's healing but be willing to accept that she must make the decision to accept the healing.
2007-12-20 18:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Creole38 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stay away from her! It might seam that its just the drugs and that you'd be able to look beyond her drug use but trust me you are just seeing the tip of the ice burg. I guarantee you that their is a whole mess of problems going underneath that. Some advice don't ever get involved with a girl that does drugs, drinks too much, only hangs out with her Friends from high school or has slept with a lot of guys in the past. Take my word for it these are symptoms of a lot of psychological problems that you would be better off avoiding. If you decide to persue her it will not be a good experiance for you it will only lead to pain.
2007-12-21 02:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you know what to do. The question should be, will you do it? You want to ask out a girl that does drugs. But you also don't want to ask out a girl that does drugs because of the consequences you foresee. You must decide that either you will ask her out anyway, or that you will not. Ask yourself what kind of a life you really want to live and make decisions based on that.
2007-12-21 02:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Scott S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had the same problem. what i did was not get involved in the first place because i know that there will be an occasion where im offered some and it may be to hard to refuse. you'll find someone else with the same qualities, but with out the drugs, and it will be so much more worth dating her.
2007-12-21 02:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by bunnie <3 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't ask her out. She's trouble and will only ruin your reputation even more. Go and find someone that is clean from drugs and alcohol.
2007-12-21 02:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer2000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOOOooo many other fish in the sea. If that's something that's a turn off to you now, it'd only get more complicated if you got into something serious.
2007-12-21 02:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by noturaveragegirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go out with her?
Try to get her to change her druggie habits?
Do drugs?
Stop giving a **** about what people say about you?
Go out with her but still maintain your anti-drug stance?
Up to you.
2007-12-21 02:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by ryuko l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't need drugs. Life is tough enough as it is.
2007-12-21 02:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is doing hard core drugs, then stay the hell away. she is a lost cause and she needs to find herself.
If it is just weed, acid, and booze, then that really don't matter.
2007-12-21 02:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Then, why put yourself in that situation just go get a good girl man those girls are usually the hoeish types n-eways
2007-12-21 02:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by NEVER EXISTED.... 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋