do u want to start some relationship with them?
any thoughts?
2007-12-20 17:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by Kasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl needs to realize that just because she has sex does not mean the guy will want a relationship.
Personally, I just go with the mood. I've had sex on the first date and had it turn into a long term relationship...I've also had sex on the first date that ended up being the only date...
I would recommend a woman wait though...
2007-12-20 17:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by ®PsychologyGuy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl. but ordinarily no. thats not relationship material. theres just something about it thats a turnoff. if she had sex with me on the first date, how many other people has she done that with? get what im saying? its not an ideal thing. if you're asking about yourself, i say make the guy wait. then you'll see if the relationship has a chance.
2007-12-20 17:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, personally. Some guys will just for the sex to be honest. But I can't really find it attractive or respectable to put out early. It's better to wait, as a guy who actually cares for you would take the time to wait and court you.
Plus, I paid attention in health class and they scared me with the risk of disease, and girls who put out early tend to have higher chances of having disease (no offense intended).
2007-12-20 17:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Skippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's right it's right. But if you need to hold him off for a few dates to help you feel good about making him wait, then make him wait. It's probably a good test (in a way) to see how he acts when he does not get what he wants.
2007-12-20 17:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dozer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wont keep her for long. If she'll lay down for you, she'll lay down for any guy.
The guys who say they would love it or would pursue a relationship, haven't had many girlfriends, maybe never.
The average joe with average life experience will let her hang out for a while. He might get jealous because he doesn't trust her. Then she'll be gone.
2007-12-20 17:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by bb5seven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just love girls that put out on the first date. Guys stand in line for them. I might even keep dating them if they were good. Or just move on.
2007-12-20 17:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by GasLight 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would love that! No i wouldn't think they are skanky. Of course I'd wear a condom and I would definitely want to pursue a healthy relationship afterwards.
2007-12-20 17:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chick flick you've ever watched does NOT end well for the girl who puts out on the first date. Shallow, but true. For us girls it's use it AND lose it.
2007-12-20 17:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes cheap no offence even tho guys would like it but i doubt they would start some relationship
2007-12-20 17:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Meow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats too fast and sounds easy.its lust i wouldnt! sex can come at a later stage.....
2007-12-20 17:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by sajad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋