Were In my room tonight just laying down watching movies on my bed. We weren't doing anything just cuddling and kissing We had the door wide opened and it was only early. And My mom walks in and starts freaking Like screaming at me. I'm 15 grade 9. My boyfriend is the same age. We dated for 2 years and 3 months. Did I do anything wrong? I just don't get it? Can anyone explain. I just cant belive she doesnt trust me.
2007-12-20 18:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Think of this from mom's point of view; her little girl, the one who she changed diapers for, the one she help take her first steps, the one she has watched grow up, was sitting on her bed watching movies while snuggling with a boy. You're growing up. That's a little hard on mom. She remembers when you thought boys were icky.
Go back and talk to your mom. Don't go on the defensive, just say to her, "I'm sorry if you thought we were being untrustworthy, I didn't mean it like that. Can we talk so that I understand what the rules are concerning me and my boyfriend? I don't want to think that I'm breaking any trust or rules." I'll bet you two will have a good long talk from there.
2007-12-20 18:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by dstluke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even with the door open, your mom must have some rules against boys in the bedroom or boys on the bed. Maybe she did overreact, but if you broke an established rule, that's why she freaked out. If it wasn't an established rule---well, it is now--so find out exactly what she expects, and abide by it.
2007-12-21 11:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by P. C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why on earth does your mother allow you to lay in the bed watching tv with some guy? you are fifteen, not 31.
it's your mother's own fault for letting you have guy friend guests in your bedroom. it's not appropriate in my world.... or most parents' worlds who i know.
you mustn't have a living area or family room.
2007-12-21 03:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she gets paranoid after hearing about jl spears' pregnancy. just tell your mom if you intend to do anything freaky, you would have close the door.
2007-12-21 02:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your door was wide open....maybe she forgot that the DOOR was wide OPEN? I don't know why'd she think you were doing anything.
2007-12-21 02:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stay the hell off the bed with any boy until you're married!!!
2007-12-21 03:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by vinnie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your mom is not wrong
2007-12-21 03:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋