This friend that I am referring to is my officemate. I love to be with him because he is so simple, kind, always makes me laugh even in a very small thing. He always go with me wherever I go specially when I am alone, he's always by my side talking about anything that we can think of. I love to be with him and to be his friend.
How can I control this feelings not to fall into a deeper one and love him not only as his friend? We're both married, and both have our own happy family. I don't want to lose him because I want him as my friend.
Please help.
2007-12-20 18:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by dainasana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would just keep him as a friend and just ignore these feelings. sorry hun, but don't ruin your marriage!
2007-12-20 18:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember of your own happy family. Think of your lovely husband and how you had first fell in love with him. remember of all the good things of your family and think why you have married your husband in the first place. I am sure those characteristics of your husband that made you fell in love with him are very wonderful. Think of how much you love your family. You will be fine. Just dont think of any sort of unrealistic events that you wish to happen between your officemate and yourself.
2007-12-21 02:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at the ring on your finger
maybe get both ur familys together for a BBQ
you can meet his wife he can meet ur hubby
it may be a little alquid but the best thing to do is not to ignor him or even confess the feeleings unless you are ready 4 the consiquences
do u want to have an affair?
do you want to leave ur husband?
2007-12-21 02:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by boris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reason to stop. you both are happily married. There is nothing wrong about having some feeling about someone who cares about you but you guys are in danger zone. This happy life can turned into miserable life. Just go with wind....some time sex in dreams is better then actual because its safe....there are 90% chances that mistake can happen...lol
2007-12-21 02:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kaaran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Oh dearie me.
2. Have sex with your husband, might relieve your agony.
3. Remind yourself that he is taken, married, and has a family. You are just friends, really good friends.
4. Think about Julia Roberts and her guy friend (I'm afraid I forgot his name). He is her best friend. And they both have families of their own.
5. All the best.
2007-12-21 03:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the feelings. Do not ruin your marriage either.
2007-12-21 02:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should buy a gift for him on chrismast day
and take time to take photo with him
2007-12-22 05:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by bengvoung v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the filling for your children sake but for nothing!!!!!!!!1
if no little bombionos go for it!!!!!!
2007-12-21 02:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by kreedream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋