I met this girl last night who is taller than I am (I'm 5'7" she's probably 5'9" or 5'10"), and older as well (I'm 22, she's 30) We hit it of great, and I've been talking to her all day today. She wants to hang out again, but I'm intimidated...A mutual friend told me that she "wants me." I'm just intimidated at what she will think if we do have sex...what if she thinks my penis is too small or something...she is probably also more experienced than I am, what if she think's I'm not "good" enough?
2007-12-20 17:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*smile* That's me. (not literally) I am 5'8- 5'9. I date younger guys. However, I met a guy who was two years younger than me and so much more experienced. I never judged him or any of the guys that followed. I was just happy that they were brave enough to step out there and go out with me. Don't get too ahead of yourself. Good luck.
2007-12-20 17:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you're worrying about nothing. Trust me. It's pretty normal to be nervous, but you just have to get together with her and go with the flow. You'll probably have the time of your life. But if you think about it too much, you won't be able to enjoy yourself. Just chill out, hang out with her and keep up the good conversation. Play it smooth and give her a kiss towards the end of the day/evening or whatever. And if she likes you and has the hots for you, she isn't gonna care about the size of your penis unless it's only like 3 inches or something.
2007-12-21 01:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should find another girl. It seems to me that this lady just wants to have sex with a younger guy. And you don't seem to want that sort of relationship. (well I mean you "want" it, but it might just not be your style) Not every guy is cut out to be a man-whore. LOL And you know what? That's a good thing!
(by the way you described this whole scenerio I am picturing like this gigantic woman with a fork and knife, and like a teenie little man on a plate...lol)
(why y'all givin me thumbs down?? this happens to be a very good answer! I don't see what else a 22yr old guy has to offer a 30 yr old woman besides sex...I'm right damnit! LOL)
2007-12-21 01:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by monicat79 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she likes you..then she wouldn't care if you're small..or not good enough..LoL..It would be a great test for a relationship..if you want to have a relationship with her..I'd say go for..If she dumps you, or stops talking to you, or w/e..then forget about her..She was to shallow, conceited, or full of herself, to accept you for what you have, and who you are..But then again..she could fall head-over-heels in love with you..and you with her..So it's a risk..? is..are you risky enough to do it? Good Luck though!!!!
2007-12-21 01:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by LiL Miss Lady Bear #15! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any thirty year-old girls. I think it's best that you date someone closer to your age if you're this easily intimidated.
2007-12-21 01:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a girl use you for sex. If she cares about you, it doesn't matter what you look like. Find a girl who really cares about you.
2007-12-21 01:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many times do I have to say it to you Yahoo Answer people, just get that nut off and ditch.
2007-12-21 01:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
Don't worry , be happy .
2007-12-21 01:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
just be confident...be positive...and be open to her...
2007-12-21 01:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by luna 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋