my sister inlaw is 6 years younger then myself.
2007-12-20 17:26:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay away from her as much as possible. Just because you are in laws does not mean that you have to act like friends. Just stay away and be polite when you are around her. Don't initiate conversation because you know that it will only cause problems.
2007-12-20 17:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can be a real pain in the a** that's for sure. I have one myself that I can't stand to be around. I still go to be a part of the family, but it is hard. I have pretty much ignored her and had a good time. Last year at Christmas, we all drank and had a good time. It upset her and she left. If she sees that it doesn't bother you (whatever she does) it will make her even madder.
2007-12-20 17:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by wif_a_tude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kept quiet and took her crap until I finally blew up and told her off. She was so ignorant the hubby actually disowned her for a while. She's since learned her lesson and leaves us out of her gossip, drama, and craziness. We are polite if we happen to bump into each other but we don't call or get together. Avoidance seems to work best when people can't respect you or your boundaries.
2007-12-20 19:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by MISS H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in that same situation as you except she is 6 years older then me... *shes my brothers wife* and what i do is i avoid her as much as possible.. i dont call her and talk to her like friends but what i do is if i see her i say hi and after i say hi thats all... i just go on
2007-12-21 05:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't have much to do with her. I mean what else can you do? Be polite when with the family and keep distance when you don't have to be with her.
2007-12-21 01:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by oh_my_its_linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of the rest of the family you just have to make the best of it....... you knew your husband had a sister lol it could be worse :)
2007-12-20 17:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by shari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friendly, not overly... you don't have to like her... you're not married to her.
families sometimes have personality conflicts, and sometimes the reasons are unknown... just gather your dignity and act like a lady around her... and move on.
take care too!
2007-12-20 18:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing.if possible remove yourself from being around her.
2007-12-20 17:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by A.F.1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called life. inlaws suck.
2007-12-20 17:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋