OK..so, as the title says, i'm having a dinner in a few hours with 4 girls! OMG! just me and 4 girls..im 15..they are all good friends.but i feel very nervous and intimidated! please help! what do i do??
2007-12-20 21:01:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanx everyone! you are all great :D I will try to relax, by the way, I like on of them, I'm not sure if they like me. That's what makes it intimidating! because im with the girl i like...well..ill try to relax and take it easy..what do i do if i cant start any conversation?
2007-12-20 21:11:36 · update #1
Relax. They won't bite. much.
2007-12-20 21:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Spartacus! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off all, you need to R E L A X!!! Then do whatever it is you do or have done in the past before a very stressful/nervous event. Hey, sounds like you're in for some fun, but you need to remain relaxed to be focused. Just have confidence in yourself & the rest will take care of itself.
GOOD LUCK & HAVE FUN!!!:-)
2007-12-20 21:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cheripie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take deep breaths. Sense of humor will carry you through it. Pretend like you do this all the time.
Teenage girl dynamics, they always behave as a group.
Why are you having dinner with 4 girls? Does one of them like you? it seems like some kind of teen girl crush ambush.
good luck!
2007-12-20 21:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Grief! If they are really just good friends then why on earth are you scared??? If you are still nervous then invite a best friend that's a guy. Just look neat and clean, Girls generally don't like to have dinner with smelly, scruffy guys. Eww!
2007-12-20 21:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~*gymnast*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that they are just friends and out to have a fun time. If you feel uncomfortable, let them lead the conversation and jump in when you think of something to contribute. Try your best not to act different.
I think once you're at dinner with all your friends, you will feel natural and not nervous anymore. Have fun!
2007-12-20 21:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha.. let me give u 2 solutions..
1st.. go for a jog round the park.. then bathe n go for dinner.. the way ur body move and the way u behave would b suitable for the dinner.. (behaviour: calm and cool)
2nd.. tel urself: "come on, it's jus girls.."
assume that these 4 girls are 4kids.. u r bring 4 kids to dinner.. n u have to take care of them all night long..
remeber stay cool posture.. and always remember to HAVE FUN!!
1) ask all not to sit 1st.. push each of them chairs in for them..
2) take all their spoons when ur meal is served, then use each to scoop some of ur food n feed them b4 givin bac their spoon..
3) walk all of them bac home if possible.. or send them off to bus-stop or sub-way..
4) hug and tank each for havin dinner with ya...
2007-12-20 21:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by CarterBeck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Remember they are just humans just like you. Smile and enjoy. Don't get to nervous that is when it usually gets bad. Just look at them as another human and once you are over the nerves then you will find that it wasn't as bad as you thought it was going to be. Take care.
2007-12-20 21:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by txdollaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont get nervous... talk politely and put some music on so when you wont have anything to talk you can listenn to the music or put on the tv... and listen to music right now it will make you feel relaxes and less nervous... and do you like those girls??
2007-12-20 21:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by SU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous, be relaxed the girls r not gonna kill u
just do what i say first of all dont show ur nervousness be confident ,secondly dont act silly in front of them.talk to them in a normal way & enjoy urself
2007-12-20 21:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~$~world queen~$~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go with cold cheese samiches on white sandwich bread or else go to Boston Market and load up.
2007-12-20 21:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by De Deuce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress appropriately and be casual. Make sure to not use any crappy cologne or anything, that stuffs cheesy to begin with.
2007-12-20 21:05:27 · answer #11 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋