and its been 8yrs since you had a passionate kiss and dont even kiss during sex i love my wife but dont know what to do
2007-12-20 21:46:48 · 23 answers · asked by ooswordfishoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i used to be a good kisser many girls enjoyed it or so they said
2007-12-20 22:00:03 · update #1
its means sex isnt much of a turn on anymore as kissing turns me on i have a fmily i cant just upsticks
2007-12-20 22:02:05 · update #2
She just don't like it, many people don't like many things and it's normal, don't be upset because of it, it don't mean that she don't love you.
2007-12-20 21:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Vagabond 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Have you talked to your wife about this? If so did you explain to her that you really enjoy kissing and that its a big turn on for you? I think you need to find out what the problem is, maybe she doesn't realize that kissing is a big thing for you. I think some good communication would be key in this situation. Good luck.
2007-12-21 06:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey pal, I am with you. I have also same problem. (9 Year married)
I want to kiss my wife like Hollywood film, but she just doesn't open her mouth. A kiss of lip is also difficult.
But I don't go after it, there are things that we can do.
Don't worry.
Even if it is abnormal, we have to face it.
2007-12-21 07:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by ssd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be something to do with you.... Although I doubt it, she might have had a bad experience in her past and kissing brings back memories. Have you tried talking to her? This could have something to do with the way your relationship has been going also. Are you two fighting more often? Think everything over before making decisions.
Talk to her.
2007-12-21 05:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mallory 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you have poor oral hygiene. No one wants to kiss someone with a dirty mouth & bad breath. That's a huge turn off. See a dentist, get your teeth cleaned, floss...
2007-12-21 17:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by MoonPie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its doen't only depend on the fresh mentolum mouth but it depend also on how your wife like you to kiss her (for this you must ask her)and when making love most of women don't like to be kiss ...i'm not saying that you don't kiss wll its only that maybe your wife wants you to kiss her in different ways sometime.when making love i don't think you would like to hear your wife complaining about her bad day ( its a bit like that ...feeling the one with whom she makes love form part of women)
2007-12-21 06:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by emma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of puts the kibash to it, doesn't it? I would find out wahy, are your teeth clean, bad breath, your throat, Gums, do you use mouth wash.
sister got it in he rhead she's going to get T.B. thei was but wouldn;'t say anything and ruined her marraige.
Find out the reason. Go from there.
2007-12-21 06:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have nice healthy mouth and clean teeth.....If you have an odor to your breath, or she thinks your mouth is unattractive she may not want to kiss you. Once that mad passion is gone, considering all that goes on in the human mouth, its hard to get excited about kissing. If that is her prefrence, and she has explained it to you, then do not make a big issue out of it....its just kissing. I don't like to kiss that much either!
2007-12-21 05:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
as long as she hasnt admitted loving sum1 else
it shud be ok
people can behave in that manner
after all what is in a kiss , when only she shud matter
time mite *** when u may go off sex all together
2007-12-21 05:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by earliriser 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I guess so. My husband doesn't like kissing either. He hasn't kissed me passionately since we were dating. I guess it's just something you have to live with or find someone else if you decide you can't live with it.
2007-12-21 05:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hmm.. Is she Clastrophobic? I used to love kissing. I really don't anymore either. I find it alright, but I don't find it as embracing or meaningful as a hug. It may sound weird, but that's how I feel.
2007-12-21 05:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by Megan 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋