Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

2007-12-21 12:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by answers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've tried hundreds of times to sit and talk to her about this and other stuff, but when I start talking to her about sex and love, it's like I'm talking to a 10foot thick concrete wall with steel reinforced beams, she ignores me, makes believe she hasn't heard me, makes me repeat what I asked, then ignores it again and/or changes subject. I get pissed and go to our room and tell her I'll be waiting upstairs for her to come to bed, but she won't come up. Worst of all, even if I get mad and slam the door (don't do it much though, doors are expensive!) she won't even come up, and the next morning, she'll be all like everything is honky dory happy! Like nothing ever happened! I hate it.
If I start talking about her games or horses, then she's all ears and won't stop talking! And then If I change subject and go back to our relationship or ask her to make love, she's deaf again or suddenly extremely tired and exausted! Funny how that works! Are all women like that?

2007-12-21 12:56:47 · 5 answers · asked by Camelot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend asked me to marry him. He is really rich and sweet. I love him. And the thing is he dosent care about money he cares about me. Oh did 15 and he is 19. What should I do?

2007-12-21 12:54:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's ok to get married, when you are pregnant and showing? Or would getting married before you start showing be your preference?
Alot of stars are doing it now... what do you think about that?

2007-12-21 12:52:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

but she always comes to bed in lingerie and its like she knows it turns me on but if i ask for sex she says no. it drives me crazy. what should i do?

2007-12-21 12:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf dumped me 4 my mate
bt while his been with her his been telin me 2 wait 4 him cuz he loves me
-i rote him a letter sayin - can u come on msn 2day i need 2 talk 2 u.
his gf must of saw it. and now shes saying when she sees me shes gona bater me, im kinda scared cuz shes tuff
what should i do? should i just not see him or talk 2 him cuz i really dont wana get in2 a fight with her

2007-12-21 12:51:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If not, why do men ask women.."how much money do you make?"..I always say to them.."my that is personal"...then they back off....

2007-12-21 12:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

We e-mail each other constantly and he always asks me to e-mail him. We joke around a lot by:

Me:I know where you live

Him:I watch you at night,or do i,i think i do...

I think he has a crush on me because he is always talking to me and smiling around me but i may be wrong and i want to know your opinion. How do i tell him that i like him?I want to but i need to know if he seems to like me and how i tell him without completely embarasing myself infront of him. HELP!

2007-12-21 12:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i used to be really ugly when i was younger and guys would be mean to me and ignore me because of it. now my looks have improved a LOT and guys are always asking me out. some of the guys who are trying to get my attention are the same jerks who made fun of me back in the day. it's ironic b/c i'm the same person inside, except i'm a lot more attractive on the outside. if they took the chance to get to know me they would have seen that.

how should i react to them? i'm still hurt from how they treated me. should i ignore them or give them a chance?

2007-12-21 12:48:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today i'm having my first sex with my boyfriend but i don't know who should make the first move in bed,what to wear,how long do we do "it" and should i be excited,proud or nervous?

2007-12-21 12:47:01 · 41 answers · asked by Isadora 1 in Singles & Dating

that rule is so gosh darn stupid and i hate it! what is the point!? they broke up, they don't want each other, so why does it tick them off!? I mean I want to go out with my friends ex but i can't because of this stupid rule and i know she thinks i'd be betraying her! i mean come'on you got your chance, you didn't work out, so what!? i mean things happen! I'm still best friends with my ex and he went out with one of my friends and it didn't bother me! (they did end up breakin up but who cares?) why does it bother so many other people? If you weren't able to work it out and get attached why should it matter!? who else thinks this rule is freakin stupid!?

2007-12-21 12:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please only give me serious and helpful answers. dont try to change my mind as i have made the decision to stay with my husband and try to forgive him. heres what happened - he had a 4 month long affair with a coworker who thought we were divorced. he acted like all was fine with the two of us. he would tell me he was working late some nights. and then he would say he was out of town for work and actually live with her in her apartment! he did not come clean to me, nor did he break things off with her. what happened was, her roommate's friend used to work with me a while ago. when the friend (my ex-coworker) called my boss to chit chat she mentioned, "how is danielle doing since her divorce?" and my boss answered "danielle did not get divorced." when i found out i confronted my husband in front of his girlfriend and forced him to choose. that's how it happened. all i want to know is how can i stop picturing them together? how can i forgive him? how can i regain my confidence in myself?

2007-12-21 12:45:46 · 26 answers · asked by Danielle R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who allways dose that ''scoop'' thing to me so i got her back by grabbing her breast. she just kind of giggled ( i was thinking she was going to slap me)

2007-12-21 12:45:35 · 8 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Friends

2007-12-21 12:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by missa 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 12:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by Bekah 1 in Singles & Dating

the thing is i like this guy and i've never asked this guy out because i want the perfect moment when he likes me and i like him....i've been rejected 3 times and i hate the feeling..because i love this guy soo mcuh i don't want my heart to break cuz i take it out on myself....im sooo scared to ask him out...i have noo clue what to do...and i doubt he'll ever like me..but the thing is i asked him out to the dance in oct and eh said I'd love 2. but he felt sorry 4 m3. and he hates when people talk about me to him...i don't think he;ll ever like me..but it hurts sooo much to see that it'll never in life happen...but i dont know that 4 sure. what do i do...?

2007-12-21 12:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by forthjeneba 2 in Singles & Dating

im not trying to be mean or anything im a good friend and i want too tell her the truth one of my other friends already told her the truth but shes like NO ITS NOT the truth but SADLY IT IS TOday we had a party in school today and evreybody was sitting were hey wanted too sit and she was the only girl that was sitting with all the boys there were like 10 boys sitting in a table and she just went over there and sat with them instead of coming over were i was at and all her friends that are girls ,she be going out with boys that are like 5,4,3 years older then her she already got a hickey and who knows probably she will be pregnant in probably a few days probably she already got laid what is a nice way to tell her that she is a H03

2007-12-21 12:37:05 · 3 answers · asked by =]] 3 in Friends

i was at my boyfriends house for dinner and it was the first time i met his parents. his mom cant really cook and the food was gross. idk but i think i started makin weird faces cuz she asked me was everything ok with the food. i lied and said yea but later when i was sitting on the couch next to her all the food just sort of came back up and i vomited all over her. i was so embarrassed that i walked home cuz i didnt want to talk to my boyfriend and we havent talked in three days. i want to call him but i dont know what to say. i need help. any suggestions?

2007-12-21 12:36:27 · 3 answers · asked by Holly Golightly 7 in Singles & Dating

Seriously....I've asked questions regarding BOTH of my sons (who were raised exactly the same way) --- I get put down for one by people and then there are others who say "you did a great job as a parent" (including the school board with my youngest).
Both of my boys are men now.
One (oldest) is a drug addict and running from the law and I haven't talked to him (nor do I KNOW where he is - or if he's even alive- he's 29) and my youngest is a Corpsman --- has done really really well -- they were raised with the exact same amount of love, trust, respect (yeah....I happen to have always respected my children as they respected me)...even my oldest - his teachers, while he was growing up, with all the issues he had, always said my son treated THEM with respect. One thing though, my oldest was ADHD - diagnosed in 4th grade and put on Ritalin (no 1 knew what that was back then)- and I heard afterwards drug add. could be a poss. with Ritalin at a young age. Similar exp w/you???

2007-12-21 12:36:24 · 4 answers · asked by butterfliesRfree 7 in Family

when they have sex?

2007-12-21 12:35:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...If, YOU, were going Blind...
...I would LOVE to SEE: my wife's smile for the last time...

2007-12-21 12:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do yo lose wight wen you get your period?

2007-12-21 12:28:33 · 17 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out of my way to give my exgirlfriend a card and a bottle of perfume. She was out at lunch so I left it with the receptionist. This was around 1:45pm today. I called her around 3:45 to see if she got the gift and this wench didn't even mention the gift! I said "did you get the gift"? She said "Oh yeah,..what's up"? She said I just got back in the office from lunch around 2:30pm and was going to call you when I got off from work from my cell phone in the car. Still didn't say thank you. What a *****!

2007-12-21 12:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was joking last night and i cross the line became smarrt *** and may have joke to much about her brother

will she kool of i mean i love her and she love me? is have been almsot 24 hours n she is still mad

2007-12-21 12:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

i screwed up and now he brokeup with me. a guy who actually really likes me(i didnt cheat on him) and i like him. he couldnt even hang up the phone and i said why and he said because "i still love u". but he doesnt trust me! and i hate the fact that i screwed up and i lost him im so sorry! now all we can be is friends and it would be so much easier if he just said i hate u and i dont love u or even like u but its so much harder when both of u still love each other. i feel like dieing really i always screw up in life not just guys whats the point? im not going to commit suicide but i just feel like dieing!

2007-12-21 12:25:20 · 13 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

serious answers pleaseeee.

2007-12-21 12:24:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so I was obsessivley in love with this guy for two years, finally started to get over him, had the sad dont want to b over u phase, now I am pretty pats it but he keeps popping up in my mind. I dont even want him anymore, yet at the oddest times I think of him. any advice?

2007-12-21 12:23:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what are the things that make you say no to?

2007-12-21 12:22:59 · 7 answers · asked by ♥GinaBeena♥™ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i have a friend and whenever she gets hugged by a guy she likes she goes all goggley on me.

2007-12-21 12:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by ryry2595 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a full time mom, business owner, and I have a part time job so I'm really looking for some game ideas that won't require me to leave the house tonight. I know that a scavenger hunt is good but I'm not sure what we should be hunting for exactly and I did hear about this one game where you carve cucumbers into penises but I need some other ideas. If anyone has some good ones, please do help me out and be sure to explain the game thoroughly so I can understand the concept. Thanks so much!!!!

2007-12-21 12:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings