My boyfriend asked me to marry him. He is really rich and sweet. I love him. And the thing is he dosent care about money he cares about me. Oh did 15 and he is 19. What should I do?
2007-12-21 12:54:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you mean he has his parents money because he stills lives with them. dont do it,you'll end up living in a trailer park with six kids!
2007-12-21 12:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good lord absolutely not. Not mentioned you’re a minor you would have to get your parents permission to marry. If he truly loves you he can wait at least 3 years till you at least graduate high school. Preferable you should go to college or at least get a career started, regardless if he is rich or not. Which at 19 its most likely his parents are the rich ones. You really have to think about yourself not all marriages last, its even more unlikely to last when people marry so young. You might also come to regret that you did not live a little before getting married. Your only 15 you’re not going to be the same person you are at 20 or even 25. The same goes with him he is going to be the same person when he is in his mid to late 20’s. They say a person truly finds themselves during their 20’s
2007-12-21 13:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no and no again. I'm sure your parents are of the same response. At 15 you have no idea about adult life and marriage. You have some childish idea about love and your 19 old boyfriend is way too old for you and quite frankly shouldn't be your boyfriend. If you are allowed to marry as a child you will be divorced with babies and no life to support yourself. Get real, get counseling and realize that you are a child and have no business thinking about adult relationships. They are complicated enough for adults. Get your high school out of the way, go to college and then you will have a better chance of picking a life partner. Trust me your will change a million times between now and after college and you will be thankful you didn't marry at 15. Don't do it.
2007-12-21 13:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely DON"T DO IT!!!
You are too young no matter how rich he is. Plus if he is rich, believe me he will cheat on you and treat you badly! He's gonna feel like he has all the power over you!
Wait till you're in your 20's and finish school, college and whatever you want to do first. You two can still be together and love each other. During the coming years you'll really see how you really want to be together. You don't have to be married to be happy, mostly at your age! Learn, stay in school, get a carreer, and if he really loves you he will follow with you and be totally on your side and help you as you should with him too.
2007-12-21 13:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Camelot 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i don't a great number of the criminal stuff, yet i'm getting married in the fall of 2010 to my highschool sweetheart. we've become engaged at our junior promenade this 365 days and that i'm so excited! i think of that all and sundry merits the magnificent to an education, so married couples must be waiting to attend college. I do have faith that with parental consent, marriage can ensue for individuals decrease than the age of 18.
2016-10-19 12:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no one can really tell you what you should do...that is up to you and your parents...in order for you to get married your parents have to sign you over as an adult. I am 18 years old and i have been married for 3 months. when i was 15 i was in your same situation with my ex. now looking back im soooo glad that i said no. he turned out to be everything i didnt want. so i think that you should wait...he may not be what you want even though you may think that right now. i would stay with him but wait a while longer to actually get married...trust me in the end it will be totally worth it.
2007-12-22 13:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful...i married while i was still in high school and i am still married,,,but it doesn't work the same for all people. it has been a very difficult road, you don't get to do much unless your wanting to have all the fun together...i never have regretted marrying young but there are times when i wished that i could have changed it a bit and waited a little longer...
2007-12-21 12:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by 1 UnIqUe InDiViDuAl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No do't get married at such a young age. You never know he might not be for you. get through college atleast you will be really upset in a few years and you'll see that you would have maade a huge mistake by marring this guy. He wont make anything to support you and a family. start working or making money to support yourselves get work go to college dont be so dumb and get married at such a young age. You shouldnt have to depend on someone else for your income.
2007-12-21 13:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous_563 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not recommend it. I did it and it didn't work. I got pregnant when I was 19 and got a divorce before my baby was born. I was way too young and he was way too old for me. Don't do it; wait until you're at least 23-25 to get married.
2007-12-21 13:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a kid you are only 15, that's so young. If he loves you he will wait for you to turn 18. You are still so young and full of life. Don't do it.
2007-12-21 13:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good God ! Do not have sex with a 19 year old ! he could get arrested for a serious crime and his life destroyed. A lifetime of GPS attached monitor and weekly home visits from P.O. officer and that's after some years in prison !
2007-12-21 12:59:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋