but she always comes to bed in lingerie and its like she knows it turns me on but if i ask for sex she says no. it drives me crazy. what should i do?
2007-12-21 12:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well do you guys have other forms of "entertainment" she isnt neccessarily torturing you, she just wants you to think she is sexy and be turned out and do the best she can without having sex. would you feel better if she did nothing or something? either way no sex so u might as well enjoy the show.
2007-12-21 12:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by cleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a control thing. If she wasn't doing this she'd be focused on what you're doing. So find another girlfriend for sex and continue to ask her for sex too. She'll still refuse and feel in control and won't feel the need to check up on you. She'll laugh with her friends about how she has you right where she wants you and as long as you continue to want sex from her everybody's happy. The minute you stop asking her for attention is when she'll change up on you. Oh she won't have sex with you........she'll just watch you more closely so you can't have any fun. Keep her happy and the bills get paid.
2007-12-21 13:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you ask for sex
she comes to bed everything is nice and clean candles burning soft music in the background depending on season a nice cold drink/ hot chocolate beside the bed, ........blah blah blah hi darling lets F...
somehow that never worked for me
or she comes to bed everything is nice and clean candles burning soft music in the background depending on season a nice cold drink/ hot chocolate beside the bed, ........blah blah blah you slowly start caressing her tell her all the sweet nothings, start feeling her body,ect....lol and she says NO
i think i mite start to look for a new GF
2007-12-21 13:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by zuppe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's stressful,yet attempt doing some thing that u understand turns her on.it ought to in all probability help. and females gown like that constantly just to sense stunning..it doesnt nessesarily advise she needs intercourse.
2016-10-19 12:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask her what it takes, gather up some protection and tell her you will use it.
if all else fells. you can tell her how you feel and that you understand that she wants to wait.( we woman are suckers for guys when share their feels) just don't cry...unless she likes that.
you can do stuff that turns her on
pm if need advice and tell me how this goes.
2007-12-21 12:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a teaser. Instead of torturing yourself over her, break up with her and find a more willing partner. You deserve better.
2007-12-21 12:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove that you care for her more than you care for having sex with her ---- stop asking --- let her take control
2007-12-21 12:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time dont rush let it progress natrauly
2007-12-21 12:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by thedarkness1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her azz
2007-12-21 12:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go get a hooker
2007-12-21 12:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋