Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

ok so i like a few guys and ik they like me to and we talk everyday the one goes to school with me and we were mad flirting i even kissed him and its not the first more like the 55th haha but then their is another kid that i like that i dated b4 and he is always sending me these text messgaes like hey hottie and stuff does this make me look like a ****?? or really bad cuz i dont want it to i just like boys thats all its not like i cheat on ne one when i have a bf! plz help

2007-12-21 13:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by souljagurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 13:44:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since the beginning of 9th grade, I was always made fun of by this boy named Nic, the class clown. It got so bad that I would even skip school.

He would make fun of this guy that was my friend, and he'd send him threatening messages on myspace. Atleast I'm sure it was him. Though sometimes without anyone around he'd give me a highfive or would be really nice to me, which was fishy.

It's been a year now, and it still continues. This time, it's around big groups of people. And I always continue to ignore him. But that's not working. What's his problem and what can I do?

2007-12-21 13:43:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always soo sad

like my heart hurts
and i feel liek cryingg

and im not sure whyy
:'(

Does anyone know a reason that this could bee?

2007-12-21 13:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by hidden_ladiie 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend goes over the top when he buys presents for me, and I can't compete with him because I don't make as much money. For example, on my birthday, we had been dating for 2-2.5 months and he bought me a $1,300 bag. He didn't tell me how much he paid for it I just knew because I wanted that bag for a long time. I thought that was too much money to spend on someone you've been dating for less than 3 months but I just thanked him anyway.

I know that for Christmas, he's going to be over the top again, and I'm not sure if he'll like my gifts. He SAYS that he loves them but it's sooo hard shopping for a guy. He likes photography so I bought him a camera that he wanted. And I'm a painter/artist so I made him a painting. I give my friends drawings/paintings as presents sometimes and they seem to love them, so I don't think I could go wrong with that.

2007-12-21 13:42:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not that I want the '80's to come back with the huge leg o' mutton style sleeves! But no matter how ornate or simple the dress, once you get to the bust area they all seem alike. Why do you think they are staying around for so long? Nobody ever seems truly comfortable in them, and they are not flattering to all.

2007-12-21 13:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by Kalice 4 in Weddings

2007-12-21 13:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by answers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

People think that I"m asexual, but thats not completely true. I feel a little attraction to girls(none to guys). I'm 15 ,and have had a girlfriend. But i just don't think sex is that important(I have a sex drive less than almost and girl). so i guess my question is. Do you think that my relationship with a girl will fail if I don't want to have sex (well maybe a little).

2007-12-21 13:31:05 · 16 answers · asked by john m 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom has diabeties....i can't get over the fact that this condition can make you die,go blinde and other stuff.I'm really worried.I dont want to loose her.She's the only one i have.I don't have a dad,my grandparents are too old to take me,i dont want to live with my mom's best friend cause i really not like her daughter cause she distryos everything...i dont know what to do to stop worrying...

No stupid answer's like making fun of my mom...thank you for your help*

2007-12-21 13:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by Nim_Nuts 2 in Family

do you think this is getting out of control? How many gifts should the children each get? (under 12)
What about everyone eles, where do you stop? How do you do it?

2007-12-21 13:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wouldn't technicly call him a bully.
He says i suck at basketball.
he's on my basketball team.
I'm not going to tell a teacher,
i want to insult him back.
Or how do you get a bully to shut up?

2007-12-21 13:26:54 · 24 answers · asked by T.M. 6 in Friends

I don't know if the woman was just a colleague, a friend, or something else, but I'm not sure I should tell my friend about it. She's extremely jealous and would not take it well.

2007-12-21 13:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I am really sad tonight. My husband and kids just moved in June to Boise Idaho, from Portland Oregon, and we can't go home for Christmas. Any of you going to be away from family for the first time on Christmas? What can I do to keep my mind off it?

2007-12-21 13:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by Bradygirl 5 in Family

if a guy at a bar came up to you and grabbed ur boob and gave it a hard squeeze, but then he automatically went to protect his face what would you do?

2007-12-21 13:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner was on drugs when he was 17(meth, weed, pills, crack, you name it he tried it). He went to jail 3 or 4 ys ago. I'm really not sure because it's not something that he is proud of & doesn't like to talk about it, but from what I have heard from his family it had something to do w/ drugs. When I met him he was clean & had been since he had gotten out of jail- which was 2 yrs before we met. We moved 3 1/2 hrs from home 6 months ago up to that point we had not been living together. It was a big surprise to me that he was an alcholic. At 1st it was all ok but then he started to become mean- never phisical only verbal After I found out I was pregnant 4 1/2 months ago we moved back home after moving back home I noticed that he was acting strange. After 2 months of his strange behavior he was arrested, he had gotten back on drugs. After he got out he was doing really good- no drugs, or even alchol. That only lasted a few wks then he was back to drugs & alcohol. I tried to leave when

2007-12-21 13:23:09 · 9 answers · asked by Lulu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been away for 1 week now. It's gonna be 2 more weeks till i see him again. So I joked how he shouldn't worry cuz there are plenty of girls where he's at. And he got mad. His exact words: "if thats what u really want me to do..im fine with that.." So I think that jerk is cheating on me. Jerk!!

2007-12-21 13:19:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been married for 3 years and I have never cheated on him. I don't even have male friends. Last night I was online and someone im'd me that I didn't know and asked how I liked the army base that I am stationed at b/c he was stationed here a few years back. He wasn't trying to get me to get on webcam or talk dirty or anything; we just talked about the army and stuff for a little while. My husband found that I had im's from this guy on the history on our browser and he has been blowing up at me all day over it. I think he's being a little hypocritical b/c he was watching live webcam shows for a few months before I finally convinced him it was disrespectful to me. WTF is his deal? I didn't even flirt w/this guy...

2007-12-21 13:17:49 · 17 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

PLEASE PEOPLE TRY TO HELP ME BECAUSE THIS IS VERY SERIOUS!!! SO DON'T QUESTION ME ABOUT THINGS THAT YOU THINK IS A LIE!!!

I was walking down the street alone at two in the morning and a girl, not a typical girl, a black tall muscular girl, she had abs and everything, punched me in my face from behind and almost knocked me out, then she drug be behind an ally and started having sex with me and every time I resisted she would hit me real hard, I have a body like a body builder and im 17 ive been working out my WHOLE life but she was so strong. I thought having sex would feel good but she did is so hard that I didn't enjoy it at all.It felt unbelievably good but I couldn't enjoy it because she was hitting and scratching me. I told my guardians and the police but they didn't believe the girl was how I described her. Black, green (contact) eyes, 6'5 adleast, bodybuilder build and had long nails and a diamond grill in her mouth both top and bottom. What Do I Do Now?!?!?! I want her caught!!

2007-12-21 13:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in a woman? keep it within the guidelines please!

2007-12-21 13:11:58 · 17 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is trying 2 make me have sex with him and idk what 2 do????

2007-12-21 13:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by mar.™ 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I've been wanting to ask my crush out to the movies for what seems like forever. The last day was Thursday and I couldn't. It was the last time I'd ever see him. On his away message today it said "merry christmas to all the girls out there. would any of you like to go to the movies with me.
i am fun, i can dance and i drive. however i am not working so i cant buy any popcorn, but i will pay for us to get in. " Isn't that weird? It's like fate or something. Of course I left a message saying I will.

2007-12-21 13:09:28 · 19 answers · asked by EM23 2 in Singles & Dating

I normally roll my eyes at people taking things like this seriously.

but one of my oldest friends has started selectively deleting all of my facebook posts off of her wall. No one else's, as far as I can tell. She replies normally on my wall, and as far as I know she's not mad at me. So... it's a weird thing to do. And out of character for her.

Thoughts? Should I ask her about it? I'd feel stupid even admitting I noticed, let alone confronting her about it.

2007-12-21 13:09:04 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah 5 in Friends

Her bf/hubby is gay, she and her lesbian friend won't come out of the closet, she thinks her dogs are human, and she cant even control her own weight.

Ironic how Oprah has all the money in the world..all the celebrity friends in the world...yet she can't even control her own life. She only knows how to give free houses and cars to people who can't even afford the insurance and property taxes. It's not even her own money she's giving away, it's advertisers money. She gets tax write offs.

Oprah is the last person I would seek advice from on anything.

2007-12-21 13:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-21 13:06:48 · 14 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, how old were you when it happened and how long had the two of you been dating?

2007-12-21 13:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We'd like to have our favorite Chinese restaurant cater, complete with at least two tea options. I'm making 1000 paper cranes to decorate with and incorporate into the ceremony. I will display the double happiness character in a few places. I plan to order fancy fortune cookies as favors (American tradition, I know). Is any of this specifically offensive for any reason? Is it a bad idea to combine elements from different cultures? As we are regular, friendly customers, I am especially concerned about making the restaurant staff angry or uncomfortable. Can anyone offer any tips or suggestions?

2007-12-21 13:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by Twyla 1 in Weddings

Hey guys, my husband is healthy, we're close and good, but I've noticed over time (5 years) that he's not as "stiff" as he used to be...and then over the last six months, sometimes he actually loses it during missionary style sex.

He never loses it during a BJ, but sometimes he does during sex.

What's up? Isnt he too young for ED? It takes him a while to "come" - like 15 minutes or more...generally by that point, I am over it (and have come) and am just waiting on him. Does this sound right? I was always with younger guys (and he seems young) but lately, I think I see his age coming through (I am 32) versus what I see in men my own age.

Please be serious in your response. It's really making me nervous and afraid to have "intitiate" sex because I never know anymore if it "is going to work" or if it's going to be a "bad night" which seems to end up in embarrassment.

Oh, and he has no health issues. We're both runners, in shape, etc. I am not even sure if this is ED?

2007-12-21 13:04:00 · 16 answers · asked by Las Julius 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and he is not that smart but he is good looking and has a good personality how do i find out if he likes me and maybe get together

2007-12-21 13:01:37 · 21 answers · asked by Sydney 1 in Singles & Dating

aren't bfs supposed to care and mind with whom their gfs are going out with? or was it just anything thing you say when you're angry but don't really mean it? we've been togehther for over a year.

2007-12-21 12:59:58 · 6 answers · asked by wicked little girl. 4 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 mates who I use to hang around with alot. Things have changed abit it seems... one of them dosent reply back to my texts very often or answers my calls. Also dosent seem keen to meet up because im always trying to arrange something and there seems little interest, my other friend appears to get the same response also!

2007-12-21 12:59:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends