I have been away for 1 week now. It's gonna be 2 more weeks till i see him again. So I joked how he shouldn't worry cuz there are plenty of girls where he's at. And he got mad. His exact words: "if thats what u really want me to do..im fine with that.." So I think that jerk is cheating on me. Jerk!!
2007-12-21 13:19:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask do you really want to be with him?
2007-12-21 13:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by ben t 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may have gotten more mad at the fact that he doesn't know if you're gonna cheat on him or not....but he may have also gotten mad becuase it sounds like you're accusing him of cheating and he may not be doing that. I know at times guys get mad when their girlfriends hang out with other guys but it's nothing like that, their boyfriend at the time is being a little paranoid. But call him up and talk about it see what he thinks. Good Luck.
2007-12-21 13:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by OctoberBlues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off,NEVER joke about anyone having access to extra-activities. Some people may not show it,but if they are truly faithful(Or just too sensitive to handle a joke) they will say and do dumb. I would see where that was just a joke,but he maybe thought since you are gone som long, that you might have other motives.Talk it out like adults.Worse case is not cheating,but insecurity. Good luck!!!
2007-12-21 13:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by soulshadow7669 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's the jerk in this case! I think it's just the other way around. So you joked...and you didn't like the answer you got. You tested the water and you didn't like the temperature. I don't blame him for giving it back to you. You deserved it after making that remark. Maybe next time you won't say something so senseless.
2007-12-21 13:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The words came out of your mouth and now that he give you a taste of the same food, you are up in arms. Don't dish it, if you can't take it and don't let your mind play more into things that you really can't see. If you believe he is, then it is time for you to find out. If he is not, then you best get the plate,knife and fork ready. You are about to eat crow.
2007-12-21 13:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep he's cheating on you. He's slamming girls like a cheap screen door. Probably doing threesomes and smoking crack too. So, since you're going to be on the market soon, how about giving me a call?
2007-12-21 13:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Happy Pants 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was just mad.. or in the heat of the moment kind if thing.. talk to him about and ask him what he really meant by it.. and if his answer is still very defensive.. then i think u need to take a lil break from that jerk.
Good luck =]
2007-12-21 13:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world would you say something like that? Your insecurites were shining bright weren't they!! Play with fire & you are bound to get burned... When accused, you can surely find that person saying, hey why the hell not, if I'm going to be accused, I might as well do the deed!
2007-12-21 13:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by T. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know for sure if he is cheating on you. Also, be aware that people often say things that they do not mean when they are angry - unless he has said things like this before, he may just be angry. He may even regret speaking to you like that.
2007-12-21 13:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kathryn W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he's cheating? You made a joke. He was overly sensitive, and got insulted.
2007-12-21 13:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you basicly told hmi to cheat with that ''how he shouldn't worry cuz there are plenty of girls where he's at''. So yea he's pissed, but maybe he is now, or not, i dont know, just ask him
2007-12-21 13:23:22 · answer #11 · answered by Nickie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋