I don't know if the woman was just a colleague, a friend, or something else, but I'm not sure I should tell my friend about it. She's extremely jealous and would not take it well.
2007-12-21 13:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was very excited to see her.That's all my husband could tell. He didn't want to stare or anything.
2007-12-21 13:31:11 · update #1
I know for sure it wasn't his sister. Also, I would NOT be making anything up. I didn't plan on telling her and I still don't plan to. They are the verge of a divorce and it will probably happen whether or not he's cheating. He's been pretty cruel to his wife (my friend) for sometime, so it wouldn't surprise me if he was out on a date. I would also not ask him straight out as he is not my friend. I will just let it come out on its own because I don't want to ruin my friendship. I just wanted to see what other people thought.
2007-12-21 14:21:22 · update #2
STD ?
2007-12-21 13:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
U could B opening a can of worms over nothing. Unless Ur husband spotted them in a precarious position then U really don't know what the deal is. If it concerns U that much - I would go 2 Ur friends husband and B straight forward and ask. "Hey my hubby saw U with a woman. So.... What's the deal?" U should B able 2 tell by his reaction. If he suddenly can't remember how 2 speak English and cant look U in the eye I'd say he's busted. But he may have a perfectly reasonable account for being with this woman. One question 2 U.. If U found he was cheating - then what R U going 2 do. The wife U said would B destroyed. Do U want 2 do that 2 a friend. If I found he was cheating, I would probably tell him 2 either tell his wife cuz she deserves better than a dog like him or he needs 2 stop and check himself - is it worth throwing away his marriage - cuz eventually his wife will find out, it's inevitable. Then U need 2 think about what U want 2 do - tell her or not. What can U live with. Good Luck.
2007-12-21 13:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a couple of years I had good reason to believe that my friend's wife was sleeping with other men. Mostly, she hit on me a few times. I'm happily married and not interested. As it turns out, she got caught having an affair with a colleague of her husband. The boyfriend even lost his job over it. I never told him that I believed his wife was sleeping around and have regretted it. Don't go off half-****** though, you don't know who it was he was with. I may have been his sister, for crying out loud. You need to get your ducks in a row. Talk to him. Something like "hey, I saw you the other night but didn't get a chance to say hello to you and your friend". At that point he will either be nervous or not, this will give you an indication if your hunch is an accurate one. If you still don't know, lay it out for him. If you believe him, enough said.
2007-12-21 13:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a treaky question on one hand you want to do the right thing, but on the other hand there is always the chance it will hurt your friendship. Maybe just mention it like say oh my husband seen your hubby the other day see if she says anything then ask if the woman was a colleague if I was going to tell her thats how I would go about it.
2007-12-21 13:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find out what the meeting was about first, maybe it was just a good business meeting that could be good for his job, and that could be why He was happy to see her. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it unless I knew for sure. Making up things could be hazardous to your freind's marriage. Have your husband ask her husband who the girl was, have him tell the guy he saw them and was woundering if all was going well at home. Or if they are having problems and such.
2007-12-21 13:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Camelot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say anything..first off it is none of your business and if it was something innocent..she may already know or it could be something that you are taking wrong..it may cause problems..i would really discuss it with my husband first and see what he thinks and then make my decision with him..
2007-12-21 13:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really sounds like you have any cold hard facts that he was actually doing anything wrong. Maybe you should just try to bring it up in casual conversation that your husband saw him.
2007-12-21 13:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a hear say kinda way.. b/c u dont wanna look like ur trying to be all up in her business
2007-12-21 13:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by vaye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I feel that there may be many reasons, for what was reported, and I wouldn't want to appear to be a gossip.
2007-12-21 13:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course he may damage this family may be thir is jop or pure relation you can not enter thir heart but if he seen them alone in hotells or sexy situation it is another thing and your husband must advice him first
2007-12-21 13:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by samy n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of this!!!!!! Your husband isn't SURE about what he was seeing...and you didn't see it. Time will tell.
2007-12-21 13:35:13 · answer #11 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋