People think that I"m asexual, but thats not completely true. I feel a little attraction to girls(none to guys). I'm 15 ,and have had a girlfriend. But i just don't think sex is that important(I have a sex drive less than almost and girl). so i guess my question is. Do you think that my relationship with a girl will fail if I don't want to have sex (well maybe a little).
2007-12-21 13:31:05 · 16 answers · asked by john m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't had sex, but my girlfriend and I had some heave make out sessions.(her idea), and even though i don't have much of a sex drive doesn't mean that i don't love.
2007-12-21 13:36:18 · update #1
Even though I lost my virginity at 15 its probably the stupidest thing you could do. You need to wait until you've matured more and actually can be stable in case you get a girl pregnant. Right now not having that drive is probably helping you but sometimes that means you could have a chemical embalance. Wait a few years and if by the time you're 17/18 schedule a doctor appointment and talk it over with a professional.
At the moment you're fine. Mostly its guys pressuring girls to have sex - not the other way around.
2007-12-21 13:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia Chic 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex was not important to me as a teen. Just because everyone around me was doing it, didn't mean I had to. If you have sex with someone just to do it, it has no meaning! The first time is the most important one. There's no retakes, no do overs, no retries. I have a lot of friends that rushed into sex and regretted it! I waited til I was 21 and I had no regrets. Their are 2 main things to keep in mind. 1: make sure it's with someone that loves you as much or more as you love them. 2: Don't have sex with ANYONE you can't picture yourself raising a child with. If you don't get the point of #2 then SEX is NOT FOR YOU!!! :)
2007-12-21 21:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by StarKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually refreshing to hear a teen admit that he's not all that into sex. As for your question, if a girl ends a relationship with you because you're not that into sex, then she's not really that into YOU. You can do better elsewhere. Never--EVER-- change who you really are for the sake of a "relationship." When your sex drive is ready to activate, it will. Until then, use this time to learn what other characteristics you like in a partner. (That's what dating is supposed to be about--not about how much sex you can have.)
2007-12-21 21:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Darla H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well well well, we have a Plato here. Yes, sex is not all that important. But it's something that makes you a complete human. Just a small part of it. There's nothing wrong with you. Merry Christmas.
2007-12-21 21:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by SASA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing some of these questions it seems sex is the only thing .Buddy i don't think it is for young people there is so many other things that a young dating couple can do it is unbelievable and it wont get you or her in trouble Sex is saved for the more special and emotional times in a relationship by hooping in the sack with everyone these days whats left to make a relationship special as it progresses especially thru marriage.Not to mention the sexually transmitted disease out there can damage you or her for life
2007-12-21 21:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by big nickel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let people pressure you into sex. Look at Britney Spears dumb a$$ sister. Everyone thinks of sex but not the consequences (baby, aids etc)
2007-12-21 21:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by T-Max 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah teen girls have become more aggressive these days. but wait till your ready. if she actually cares about you she will wait, or at least respect your decision to not have sex. and you are kinda young anyway.
2007-12-21 21:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ya Boy MH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good your not interested in sex....your to young...and any girl thats 15 and thinking about it more than you sounds like a s lut to me.
2007-12-21 21:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it's important cuz guys are into sex more than us, maybe you're an exception. my bf for example asks me if we can have sex one of these days, I haven't accepted yet but i think he deserves it and i want to please him, but if you don't want to you don't have to do it
2007-12-21 21:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you are 15? sex shouldnt be important to you right now anyways. it really isnt that imporntant. and if you find the right girl (not some slut) she wont mind.
2007-12-21 21:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by LogansMommie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋