Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

then a non-Christian guy would ( ie. love and life and all that stuff) what are some ways Christian guys are different then non Christian guys...

2007-12-21 19:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by Emily C 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were having trouble in our marriage over the summer. He was very jealous that my daughter's father had come around and that we would hang out with our child. My husband got in touch with an old friend/ex on facebook and began to flirt and even tell her he would like to take her out on a date. When my husband and I reconciled he stopped talking to her. The minute we began arguing again she started to e-mail him. He said he would go visit her. Now keep in mind in the 6 years we have been together, there was no mention of this woman ever until now. Apparently they were friends before and stopped talking for 10 years. This end of frienship happened shortly after she slept with someone else when they were dating and she got pregnant. Now the hubby did go see her for 3 hours, half of that time spent in her apartment and the rest in a restaurant. this is putting a strain on our marriage and I really feel threatned by her. He hides all emails from her to apparently protect me

2007-12-21 19:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by disco_duckie2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres the thing, I just turned 21 about 2 months ago (which tells you I'm a young guy), only have had a years worth of college done (no degree yet..), and living @ home w/ parents. (sounds loserish), my girlfriend is also young (19), and we dont have bad credit but we have NO CREDIT, both live at home, and she cant work, baby due in about 6 months, I found a job (only making 35,000peryear), and I'm trying to find out what are some of the things that i should do other than just save my money...we want to try to move out in the next 5 months.....other than penny pinching, what should i do (it is my responsibility to make sure i take care of her and the baby..not anyone else)...what programs...be it government..or even types of bank accounts i should set up for future things....MATTER FACT ANY TIPS/ADVICE/INFO WOULD BE WONDERFUL........im clueless!! HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-21 19:10:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ride the same bus as my bf (we've been going out for 1 month 2 weeks) and todayt we ere holding hands and he starts rubbing my leg? What does this mean?

2007-12-21 19:10:19 · 25 answers · asked by Hott_stuff 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the thing, I just turned 21 about 2 months ago (which tells you I'm a young guy), only have had a years worth of college done (no degree yet..), and living @ home w/ parents. (sounds loserish), my girlfriend is also young (19), and we dont have bad credit but we have NO CREDIT, both live at home, and she cant work, baby due in about 6 months, I found a job (only making 35,000peryear), and I'm trying to find out what are some of the things that i should do other than just save my money...we want to try to move out in the next 5 months.....other than penny pinching, what should i do (it is my responsibility to make sure i take care of her and the baby..not anyone else)...what programs...be it government..or even types of bank accounts i should set up for future things....im clueless!! HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-21 19:07:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you women think about a 23 year old virgin?

2007-12-21 19:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by Time 1 in Singles & Dating

love...it's when those once corny stupid love songs begin to actually make sense. it's when u think about a person more then any other, and u hope that they think about u just as much. when u'd put urself at a disadvantage just to put the one u love in an advantage. someone that u could talk nonstop to, and someone that u feel content and would rather be no where else in the world just being with that person. when ur with that person, u never want it to end, and would try to be with that person as long as possible. someone that u could understand, and that person could understand u. someone who would know when something was wrong, and could fix that problem. it's when u always want to be with that person, and would always want that person for urself, but would rather let that person be with friends just knowing that the one u love is happier. love is when u'd put that one special person before all others.

2007-12-21 19:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Singles & Dating

like this girl who i kinda like in my biology class.. shes been dating this guy for 2 months and everyday she flirts with me by giving me hugs, play hits me, and laughs and smiles at me and play kicks me... so why does she do that?

2007-12-21 18:55:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so your friend can not stop talking bout how she can pimp this dude and that dude without giving up the goods but you know that something has to take place mind she is not pass a 5 on a 10 scale...how do you tell her to shut up and get real, golddiggers are not attractive? And what do you do when your guy friends laugh at her photo, wondering what the hell them dudes be thinking about giving her money?

2007-12-21 18:54:43 · 17 answers · asked by Short Skirts and High Heels 3 in Friends

I know for a fact he's still in Arkansas and in the Little Rock/North Little Rock area...will the Child Support Agency there find him anyway?

2007-12-21 18:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tomorrow is my 16th birthday and it means a lot to me.........coz its SWEET SIXTEEN !!!!!!!!!!
i know nobody is going to give me a surprise birthday party ( i mean it ) . I don't want to throw a party myself. I don't want to be with my frnds ( as if i have any TRUE frnds ), xcept my bestest frnd ( who is TRULY a frnd ).
:(
m sooooooooo sad
what should i do ??????????
pls help.

2007-12-21 18:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i hate my dads girlfriend and so does my sister and she has made herself quite comfortable in my dads house. the way i see it if it wasn't for her my mum and dad might still be together. why do i hate her? she's dollar signs in her eyes and believe me she has it extremely easy at my dads house. im not trying to sound arrogant or up-myself her but my dad has money and i believe that is why she has been sticking around for 13 years. my dad has bought her a new $45,000 car (AUS currency), bought two investment properties with her as part owner without her adding a cent. yeah she works but only for something to do, not to pay bills or her own car but to stick all her money under the bed and wait for my dad to, i can't put this in nice way but, die (i really really love my dad and i don't want anything to happen, im not a spoilt rotten kid and want all his money, i love him more than anyone.) and then have everything which her name is in. my dads in debt but she doesn't have to worry

2007-12-21 18:49:25 · 6 answers · asked by steven n 2 in Family

2007-12-21 18:43:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in love before, but it was more in response to the environment (like I never said it first, the guy always did). For once I think I might be in love and fear just blurting it out. I guess I'm curious how you guys "really" knew and when you told the person you were with...

2007-12-21 18:28:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long should a married couple wait before they get married?

2007-12-21 18:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-21 18:15:13 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do ladies like when a guy is shy i am very shy when it comes to ladies very shy is it a turn on for ladies or a big turn off

2007-12-21 18:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by deeisone 1 in Singles & Dating

my off and on ex of 5 years randomly tells me he's engaged to a non-american citizen that he's known for 8 months. it caught me off garud but i was happy for him. i encourged him to find the "right" girl. she apparently lives in a different state and they see eachother 3 times a week. later he told me they already had a secret wedding for citizen ship. i though we could stay friends...but he caught me off gaurd and came onto me and i couldn't fight him. i still love him. it happened twice and now i've cut off all contact. i need help understanding why. it seems like the truth is he's a creep, but i'm having trouble believing that. i've known and respected him so long i'm hoping there is a better explination. i feel like there must be some emotional void on his end and he's running to me for help. maybe he wasn't ready for all that commitment. i DO not wish to win him back. i'm NOT feeling used or hurt, i can handle myself, but i need help understanding him. does he REALLY love her?

2007-12-21 18:06:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to find my father...i have never ever seen him...he should be..on his sixties i guess....the problem is i have no idea of a good website....Free...cause they usually...charge you for that....by the way his name is Roberto Serrano...mother's name Mona Lisa...father is Frank....has 2 sister's named Nancy and Yvonne...brother 's name is Frank....he used to live at 37 west and tremont ave.. Bronx..N.Y and that was almost 46 years ago ...am 45...i 'd appreciate any help....th u

2007-12-21 18:03:37 · 5 answers · asked by sunflower_11132000 1 in Family

I was wondering what do you call a girl that continues to have sex with her bf who has a strong gut feeling he is cheating with his baby mother??? I dont know why but I just have a strong feeling they are still doing it. THere relationship is so good. THey talk about everything- which I hate. I just had his baby and he doesnt hesitate sometimes to leave me alone. I dont know what i should do- contnue to be intimate with him and just believe him that they are not doing anything. Or just hang in there until I can support myself and leave his a**.

2007-12-21 18:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked one of my friends what I should get her sister for christmas I have no Idea really, Neither Does she What should I get a 20 yr old now for christmas.

2007-12-21 17:58:44 · 19 answers · asked by jrcctexas21 2 in Friends

how much does it coast to feed a Family of 7 for dinner only. and the weekends. Kids are 15,13,12,10,17,15

2007-12-21 17:56:14 · 4 answers · asked by Jhoanne 2 in Family

Name some romantic things we can do at home 4 a date and some cute saying to randomly pop out with.....

2007-12-21 17:56:08 · 2 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 17:55:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 35. She is 36. I have never been married, but I am falling in love with this woman. She was married for 3 years and divorced for the past 6 years. She had her child at 28. Frankly, I have never thought that I would even consider marrying someone who was previously married, let alone had a child. All that having been said, I am truly beginning to feel that this is the person for me. She is beautiful inside and out. More than anything else, I feel that the two of us are compatible. Question is: Are our lives compatible? At this point, there are a few major questions I need help with 1) How do I explain this to my family/parents without the drama that will inevitably bring on? I am Asian and in my culture marriage is about blending families. I am very successful and always have been since youth. My parents will likely see this as a very bad decision 2) What do I need to consider that I have not yet thought of or don't have the ability to think of? Thank you

2007-12-21 17:46:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i didn't plan on getting my friends any presents (b/c im a typical guy) but my best friend told me that 3 of my closest (girl) friends that got me a sweet gift that they pooled their money together and got me. So now i feel obligated to get them something otherwise i'de feel like an asshole. I know what im gonna get one of them already, but for the other 2 i have no idea. My friend said i should get them Victoria Secret PJ's w/ matching slippers. Or would a gift certificate to there or bed bath & beyond be good or just lame as if i didnt try? If it's stupid or you have a better gift let me know please!!! Thanks!

2007-12-21 17:40:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in 7th grade and theres this guy i really like ALOT! hes my friend kind of. we mess around with each other alot. im pretty good friends with his best frien nic. Nic trells me that his friend likes me...but i dunno... My friend asked him who he liked in front of me...and he said he liked this 8th grader at our school...that has my same name...but there isnt an 8th grader at our school with my name...its kinda weird... and he got really offended when his friend got a christmas preasent and he didn't.WHAT SHOULD I DO!! I REALLY LIKE HIM!

2007-12-21 17:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by SESSY!!!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I really have no interest in getting married again is there something wrong with me am I bad for just wanting to have fun living the single life?

2007-12-21 17:39:38 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating 2 years and before we knew each other he liked a girl at his college in a few of his classes and had a crush on her, but discovered she had a boyfriend. I found this out later after we had been dating maybe 6 months and they were still friends, just at school not hanging out or talking on the phone but once in a while on AIM. He said last spring he didnt talk to her anymore, and I found out today she transfered to his new college and they have been talking back and fortht his past semester, he swears just school stuff. Now it REALLY bothers me they are friends, he doesn't have any other girls he talks to aside from saying hi to someone from highschool. He swears over and over he doesn't like her like that and he loves me and no one else and doesn't think of her like that at all. What do you think is it possible he's over his past crush?

2007-12-21 17:34:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever heard of the club OMG in NY city.

i love that place.

2007-12-21 17:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by springy92 1 in Marriage & Divorce