ok, so your friend can not stop talking bout how she can pimp this dude and that dude without giving up the goods but you know that something has to take place mind she is not pass a 5 on a 10 scale...how do you tell her to shut up and get real, golddiggers are not attractive? And what do you do when your guy friends laugh at her photo, wondering what the hell them dudes be thinking about giving her money?
2007-12-21 18:54:43 · 17 answers · asked by Short Skirts and High Heels 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok, so she is talking about this guy is currently in iraq and that he has his card on hold for her when he gets home, yet he is married to a chick in another state, he got a chick pregnant with twins at the same time she was pregnant, she lost the baby, and the other girl supposedly lost the babies this month. She's now talking bout getting into his bank account when he returns in 4 months. what should I tell her; that she is nuts. i don't know, i want to be a good friend but how far to let them talk crazy to you about unimportant stuff.
2007-12-21 19:06:56 · update #1
when she talks about it, be like "wow. i can't imagine it though. i'd rather have a guy who loves my mind, not my ability to spend his money" but say it really sincerely. she'll shut up.
2007-12-21 18:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront. I had a homegirl like that. She kept talking about this fool that had money this and that. That fool was attractive. She wasn't. I asked her. What the hell she think she doing jumping on the hoe bandwagon. She on some independent **** now. A job. A car. All on her own. Homegirl lost some weight too (she gotta work on some more though)
If you're her friend, you need to give her a reality check. Don't let her ride dirty.
2007-12-21 18:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her kind of bragging suggests low self-esteem and a lack of self-respect. That is not a good or bad thing, it's just where she is at in her life. Be with her about having bigger accomplishments than getting others to give her money or merchandise. By raising her awareness of herself, she may stop talking about it all on her own without you having to bring it up directly and be the bad guy.
Paul
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2007-12-21 19:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a really good personality to those dudes.
But...
If you're a really good friend, you might tell her the truth...that its nice to be so self assured but she may be talking too much about herself. It can get tiring and b/c you're such a good friend, you wanted her to know cuz people might be talking and thats all you want to say about it.
2007-12-21 19:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by GisL4all 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your friend is lying don't you?! She makes out that she is so popular to try and delude people, but she is only deluding herself. You just need to feel sorry for her.
If you love her company and want to remain friends, tell her sweetly and earnestly that you admire strong independent women, and prefer not to hear her brag about taking money from men.
2007-12-21 19:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight up. There are so many like your friend. so do not touch your heart, and just tell her, to get real! that is it! If she gets offended, too bad and too sad. In the long run she will digest it.
2007-12-21 19:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by malusita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called comparative psychology, you tell her of another Friend she doesn't know that does the same thing and not only does it turn you off but its vain and useless.
2007-12-21 19:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by Manwae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print up your Yahoo question and show it to her. Then immediately go and find your morals. Talking like that and living like that is disgusting. Have some respect for yourself.
2007-12-21 18:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Somaesthesia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to look in the mirror and think to herself... "gosh i would look so much better with a bullet in my head"
tell her to stop being a whore, and to go **** herself.
oh and tell her to get a job too.......
dude in iraq is playing her.
he's not handing out cash when he gets home.
2007-12-21 19:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by * Yeah I said it * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to find a better class of people to hang around with. These people really sound a bit low-life to me.
2007-12-21 18:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋