Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

I am dating Joe. We have been dating a week and we already say I LOVE YOU to eachother. thats ok, right? i mean it, too. its not like im lying to him when i say it.

tell me what you think.

2007-12-21 00:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kare 1 in Singles & Dating

i studied in UK miss the winters and friendly people....any girls out there

2007-12-21 00:49:22 · 3 answers · asked by sajad 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. During most of that, we have had a good relationship, but it has not led to marriage, yet. He does not seem to have been interested in marriage, but just because of his idealogy. I am 33, he is 35. 9 months ago, he got a wonderful job offer in Italy, and decided to try it out. He has been doing 3 months there, three months here. He really likes it there, and I can tell he wants to move there permanently. Problem is, I am a lawyer and cannot practice law in Italy without 4 more years of training. we had spoken of having a child together, if I move there, but I don;'t want to move there permanently. He recently got back, and I happened to glance at his email and see that he had several from a girl there. I took an opportunity to read them; they are very friendly--about 1 email/day--and I am pretty sure there is no actual relaitonship there, but there is obviously mutual interest and a solid friendship in the works. Should I be worried?

2007-12-21 00:47:58 · 5 answers · asked by myrtlebough 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my freids give me crap that im whipped to this girl that i dont date but we r extremely close. I think they feel this way because i few times i told the guys i couldnt do something with them cause i already had plans with her. And basically se hates my frrends and they hate her. I am totally in love with her. And she has says she loves me too but we havent takin the next step yet. But anyways all i try to do is make her happy. If she is at her locker ill hold her books for her, if she walks by a my group of friends alone ill go keep her company. O dont think this is bad. I just like to be with her and make her happy..

2007-12-21 00:47:38 · 14 answers · asked by Mike D 1 in Singles & Dating

if ytou call youself a good christan-------then you really should forgive everyone who does you wrong?

2007-12-21 00:41:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been absent from work since my separation and divorce as a result of extreme stress.

The problem is, I have to work with my ex-wife and her lover.

I have asked my employer to move me to another office so I do not have to come into contact with my ex-wife or her lover, but my employer has still not offered me another position.

I feel like I'm being forced out of my job.

Can someone tell me if I have any rights?

There is no way I can afford to pay a lawyer

2007-12-21 00:41:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone always tells me that 'time is the best cure for a broken heart'.

It's been over half a year since my bf of 5 and a half years broke up with me - we broke up because we had too many petty arguments. And since the breakup, everyday has been such a struggle for me.

Everytime I think about it it makes me really depressed and just knowing that we'd never get back together again makes me hurt even more, as I've discussed my feelings with him before.
What can I do about it?

Thank you to everyone who takes time to read this

2007-12-21 00:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sky High 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me what should i do ?
im not good with English , so please forgive me


so heres the story

theres a girl i like we talked and we got to be friends , than she starts asking me for stuff cause she know i like her,

than few weeks later she made fun of me ,said i was ugly

than she ignored me for 3 days ..than she starts talking and asking me for more stuff


than she gets a boy friends and keep it a secret ,

3 weeks later her boyfriend brakes up with her ... than she comes to asking for more stuff .. than after 4 moths we got in to a fight ,

she wont admit having a boyfriend
she wont admit using me
she acts like a princess when shes proved wrong


now she keeps on ignoring me ...


what should i do about this girl ??? should i move on

2007-12-21 00:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a "preppy" girl and an "emo" boy are best friends. are they in love with eachother despite all their differences, or is it best friends it'll stay? Read below to see what's really going on.

background:
girl- goes to an all girls school, told her friend she'd always be there for him, but she switched swim teams so she doesn't see him hardly at all anymore, but they still try to talk. misses her best friend so much... and possibly loves him?? ... and sort of worried about the boy going back to smoking.

boy- public school 45 minutes away from the girl, smokes (or at least didnt for a while... until after the girl left) and drinks, likes to play with knives, extremely smart, swims on the girls former team, still trys to talk to her as much as they both have time for, goes out of his way to do little things like birthday and christmas stuff that her girl friends don't normally do.

it's sorta awkward, but maybe you can help.

2007-12-21 00:33:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on every single special occassion, they go on a holiday and don't celebrate with your family and their grandkids. Doesn't matter if it's Easter, a birthday or Christmas.

2007-12-21 00:33:16 · 16 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Family

Ok..so there's this guy who i was with for bout 2 weeks and then he dumped me for another girl but im still not sure if he cheated on me before with her, obviously when he told me its over he said he didnt cheat on me but im not sure, really it doesnt really matter now

Well after bout a month with this girl during which he sometimes talked to me on chat, he dumped her too. Now yesterday he texted me and told me that he wanted to talk to me bout something, when i spoke to him on msn he asked me if i wanted to go on a double date with his friend and my friend coz they used to go out together too..well my friend doesnt want to but he still wants us to meet up for just one date...what should i do?? =/ i mean i told him ill decide on saturday if i have nothing better to do but i think i will say yes, would u?

2007-12-21 00:29:59 · 10 answers · asked by fallen*angel 2 in Singles & Dating

well ma boyfriend came to my house and he said alot of stuff first of all he said that he heard a lot of bad things bout me he wouldnt tell me who but i know dat it was his ex cuz he talked 2 her yesterady but i didnt said anything and well he was all red n said a lot of stuff 1st he said that he dont like sum stuff bout me n he also said 2 me if i really loved him n of course i felt so sad but the thing that hurt me more was that he said that he was gonna breack up with me but he said he could that he loves me a lot n that he cant break up with me and well i dont know wut to do should i be the one 2 break up with him before i get hurt or try to forget bout this and be happy with him or jus try to talk to him but i dont know plz help he said he really loved me but after everything he said i dont know wut to do im confused n sad n worried i dont know wut to think right now i really loved him but wut should b the best thing 2 do plz help
NEED SUM REAL ADVICE WITH LOTS OF DETAILS HELP!!!

2007-12-21 00:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by S3Xy_B!TcH 1 in Singles & Dating

hey all, me and elliot (hubby) haven't spent much time together since our son was born 6months ago and we are spending all of christmas eve together as a family, does anyone know anythnig special that we could do?
but remember we have a 6month old baby and he's rather poorly and we live in scotland so its utterly freezing and we don't drive

all idea's are welcome.

2007-12-21 00:23:28 · 6 answers · asked by mummy me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend & I have only been datin for a little over 2 months, but we havent seen each other [outside of school] since halloween.We've tried 2 but we've both extremely busy & we live 45 mins apart so it doesnt always work out.
* When I say busy, I mean busy . I'm a musician & I have rehearsals for different ensembles everyday, except for thursdays & sundays.So its hard 2 work around my schedule
& his bc every thursday he has therapy &recently he's been havin alot of doctors appts.
We cant do anythin on Sundays bc we're both mormon and we devote that day 2 spendin it with our families.
We go 2 school together, but he hasn't been in school for about a month because he was havin some anxiety problems He'd start havin trouble breathin & no one could figure out why it was happenin so his doctor said that he shouldnt go 2 school until they were able to treat it.
*he doesnt like talkin on the phone so we barely talk & when we do its short mainly bc I think he doesnt want 2 talk 2 me

2007-12-21 00:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by noelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there's this girl that i like which i'm 2nd ranked in her top 5 friends one of which the 1st ranked is a guy i think she's interested in him becoming her boyfriend. I usually talk with her on msn regulary, we were like best friends, i told her that i liked her. Then after her 1st ranked guy friend went on holidays she slowly stopped talking to me regulary (we still talk sometimes) and i feel that she's not interested in a nice, safe, smart guy like me... The other guy was pretty nice although wasn't as smart as me and got drunk often, he acted like her boyfriend tho, and i'm not sure if i'm doing anything right... What did i do wrong? i feel stupid...

2007-12-21 00:01:15 · 19 answers · asked by The B 2 in Singles & Dating