Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

I went to bed like usual and awoke this morning with her cuddling me. My god! She didn't even ask me. She cuddled me while I was a sleep and defenseless. If feel so used. I'm thinking about putting up an eletric fense down the middle of the bed. How many of you have had to put up with unwanted cuddling?

2007-12-21 05:38:32 · 36 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my name back to my maiden name. I have 2 kids from my ex and kept it because of them and because it's so much easier than changing it. But my boyfriend keeps asking me. He hasn't giving me an ultimatum, but I know it bothers him. I really don't mind changing back but want to know your thoughts.

2007-12-21 05:37:53 · 22 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met him a year ago and I kept my distance because he was going through a divorce and I did not want the drama.So I stayed away,well throughout the past year I would see him here and there at a this local bar and we would chat,we recently started seeing eachother and we are a 'couple', the divorce was finalized 5 monhs ago,his x has been with another man for the past two years.could i be the rebound girl to him,or do you think enough time has passed for him to be ready to move on?

2007-12-21 05:36:54 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me I could get another house dog after my dog I had before we were married died. Now I have had this dog for 2 months and he wants me to get rid of her. She is a great dog but he can't stand her because he has issues with having to be super clean all the time. We already have our share of problems besides this and he is unwilling to ever compromise for me if there is something I don't like so I don't know why I should. What would you do???

2007-12-21 05:36:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I'm with my b/f and i see a pretty girl, I always look at his eyes to see if he is looking at her..And he went out with his last g/f 3 years and I always think that he is thinking about her or comparing me to her. I love him more then anything but I get so jealous sometimes I want to break up with him.. How can I stop doing this to him and myself???

2007-12-21 05:34:21 · 9 answers · asked by JRGLRMT4E 2 in Singles & Dating

Im lost in love.We love each other.I care and love her a lot.But she got married with another guy(parents force) whom she dont like.Im very depressed and i cried alot for her.But now a days she says she is nt feeling the same pain like me.Our past always dwells in my mind.I know i lost her and she cant come back but im unable to forget her.She married infront of me she is living with him how can i forget all these.I love her so much.why she changed like this.without me how she is happy and why not me. Is im too sensitive for her.how to get away from her.why girls change like this. Dont she feel the pain as she lost me.plzzz helpppp need serious answers plzz.

2007-12-21 05:33:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See this question - actually, the ANSWERS to it are more revealing....

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As.7QvFBWLMWgQDykLrauYTB7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071221095607AA99he2

This woman was dating a man, starting dating another one, HID the first guy from the new one, only ditching him after her new guy found out she was with the other guy.

About 2/3 of the answers do not call that cheating.

I find this most disturbing. And it makes me wonder about how many people consider themselves never having cheated, because they were mad at their husband, or he said he didn't care, or he doesn't pay enough attention, or she was drunk.

Isn't dating two people, even in "not so serious" mode, and hiding them from each other, cheating??

And yes the guy in the question was cheating too - but nobody argued about him.

2007-12-21 05:29:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18. I really like this guy in my class. He is very cute & sweet. Every1 in my class says dat he is a flirt. Blah blah. I talked wid him on phone & got 2 know dat he is actually a very good person but is always misunderstood. He cares bout his family a lot which is so sweet! He told me about this girl who flirts wid him a lot & he was actually fed up of her. We became really good friends & he shares everything with me. He says that I'm loving & caring. He was quite sad since the past 2 weeks coz he was missing his family so I used to call him daily. But he wouldn't call me. We talk for hours & hours on phone. 2 days back I called him & he said that he can't talk now coz his cousin was with him. I hung up the phone. Then I got 2 know dat we had a very important photo session the next day..I called him again to inform him about dat & he said that he already knows about that..I got mad at him coz he didn't even bothered to inform me even when he keeps on referring me as his best friend

2007-12-21 05:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so today was our last day for Christmas break and at the end of the day my friend wanted me to come with her to her moms car to get my present...by the time i got the present my ride was already there....i wanted to say bye to and give my bf a hug and kiss but it was too late and i had to go!!!...do you think he's mad

2007-12-21 05:25:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i ugly..............what can i do to look better

2007-12-21 05:25:08 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was going out with this guy. He seemed like he really liked me. Everytime we would see each other in the hall he would hug me and walk me to my next class. At the end of each day he would walk me to the bus and kiss me. Then stuff started going around that he was cheating on me. He started avioding me after that. He wouldn't wait on me, wouldn't call me, and when he talked to me he would look down at his feet. So I broke up with him. Then the next day he kept looking at me with this sad face. I started to want him back.... One of my friends went to talk to him and he told her that he didn't want me back and wasn't going to go back out with me. It really hurt me feelings. So then the next couple of days I didn't want him back. But now........ I feel super bad and I want him back so bad. He also told one of my friends that he MIGHT ask me back out. Today he said acted like he still likes me. Our friends tried to get him to kiss me but he wouldn't. Please help me. IDK wat to do.

2007-12-21 05:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by Bubbly 2 in Singles & Dating

There are two women and you have to ask one out. One is plain but has a decent body; the other one is pretty but chunky. Which one would you ask out?

2007-12-21 05:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by wondermom 6 in Singles & Dating

in cyber space.. I think it's a woman, I hope it's a woman, because I'm a lesbian who just 'came out'

any advice?

2007-12-21 05:20:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 05:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Singles & Dating

Reason being, I like someone but they don't have a job, car, etc. But they are great... personality wise and very respectful.

My cousin says she will never talk to anyone who doesn't have a car. At first, I thought it was her being materialistic but now I'm not so sure.

What are your thoughts on this? Is it wrong not to want to talk to somone because of their financial status?

2007-12-21 05:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by 1 Love 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 05:17:47 · 11 answers · asked by Toni-Marie H 1 in Weddings

Iam really so sad, my fiance and I broke it off, pretty much do to her rekindling friendships with old friends and going to back to her old lifestyle, of just partying and hanging with friends all the time, and now she has blocked me off completely, I mean I try to get intouch with her through the phone and email and get hangups and no replys, she says she completely has no feelings for me and wants me out of her life, It makes me hurt so much in side

Last night I was thinking about all are early relationship memories, like talking on the phone for hours, picnics at the park, are first date, and I honestly cried for an hour, Its like shes not even giving me a chance to get back in her life and her heart. Honestly I dont think I did anything drasticly wrong, I guess its just a case of her wanting her old life, but to not even talk to me at all? Just one chance is all I want.

Are love was so pure and real, how could it fade so fast and how could her feelings go from love to hate?

2007-12-21 05:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends dad died a week ago. he was in a coma for years. so it was not a shock. but my boyfriend doesnot want to do sex now. he says that he is not ready. he is all the time sad. my question is, has anyone been in this situation and how long does it take to start a sexual life again?pls help.

2007-12-21 05:15:55 · 16 answers · asked by atahsina 5 in Singles & Dating

A guy I send some pictures to said I'm so pretty. A friend said that he should said beautiful. Is it that he didn't like me that much?

2007-12-21 05:12:26 · 25 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about a month now,I met him a year ago and had kept my distance for he was going through his divorce and i did not want to be in the middle of things.Thnigs seem to be going well, we have fun together and enjoy the cuddling aspect but how can I be sure what we have is not just a 'fling'?

2007-12-21 05:11:22 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

This is very embarrassing but I really don't know how to ride my husband. He always wants me to but I can't seem to do it right and he gets mad and just tell me to stop. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I get on and start moving up an down and round an round. Can someone please explain what I need to do to master this please. It is effecting my marriage. I ask him to help teach me but again he gets mad.

2007-12-21 05:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by lana 2 in Singles & Dating

My relationship with my oldest stepchild is non-exsistant. He is 19, and moved out of our home four months ago because he decided he didn't want to live by any rules. He is now living with his mother (who is also remarried) and she has helped turn him against both his father and myself. There are no rules at her house, he comes and goes as he pleases. My hubby has tried having a few dinners out with him to try and explain our side of things and tell him what will be expected of him if he would like to have a normal relationship with him, and that includes apologizing to me for mistreating me for no reason. The child has rejected his father over and over again and is very rude and disrespectful even though he has done nothing but be there for the kid in every way. Any ideas on what we can do going forward? My hubby is waiting for him to accept responsibility for his actions and to apologize, but I'm afraid that day is never going to come. Thanks for your help!

2007-12-21 05:07:46 · 17 answers · asked by Marina 7 in Family

So ever since the year started i've been flirting with this girl, talking and hugging in the halls, hanging out with groups outside of school, sitting with each other at lunch ect. I can tell she finds me physically attractive by comments she makes, and ive caught her staring at me a couple times when she didnt think i was looking. She even sat on my lap during a hs hockey game. I don't have any classes with her but Whenever isee her in the halls we always smile and say hey, or hug. She also laughs at almost everything I say.

She gave me her number but when I call she always says she has to go. A couple days ago I was in the car with a brother of a kid (lets call him A) I know and mentioned her and A's bro said that she was going out with A, even though I see them toghtehr and she's never as freindly as she is with me. She never mentioned she was going out with him and never talks about him to anyone, so do you think the kid was lying or misinformed or is the ***** just leading me on?

2007-12-21 05:06:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him a year ago when he was going through his divorce,I stayed away because I did not want the baggage,as the year went by i would see him every so often at this local bar and we would chat,just recently we became inclusive and I really am into him now.his divorce is finalized and he has a 10yr old daughter,so i am worried about all the x drama that comes with him,we seem to have a connection,so should i stick with him regaurdless of his baggage?

2007-12-21 05:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a hippie friend. Her hippie ways have been fine with me I respect most of them. She recently had a baby and he was sick (18 months old) She is completely clueless. Sounds judgemental because it is. Doesn't like the medical establishment. The child started vomitting while I was over there. He has been sick for weeks with a mucous bad cold. No decongestant, no vicks, no humidifier, it has to be 'natural'. Plus all she feeds him is breast milk, with all that mucous. And what is worse is that she is so arrogant that she won't take any help for anyone. I pressured her and we took the baby to the clinic and the doctor said he was fine but I told her to tell him about his bright yellow mucous which he was throwing up. I said that could be a bacterial infection. She said "what does that mean?" Anyway she says he is slowly getting better. I think that is the most selfish thing in the world. Would you try and work on the friendship? I want to tell her to get it together!

2007-12-21 05:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by daisyduck4007 4 in Friends

Please be hones as to how you were dressed let's say the first time you met your guy that you are now serious with to get married.

Were you dressed to the nines? Or casual grunge or in between?

My dad went to school, and he met my mother on a farm and of course she had the dirtiest clothes on as she was picking potatoes. I guess he didn't care about her appearance, but her work ethic and personality.

2007-12-21 04:59:30 · 49 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

We broke up about 2 weeks ago and i asked for her to forgive me today for what i did, which was testing her which she thought i was playing mind games, so she felt unappreciated. Now that she forgave me, my real question is that would she still like to have a second try with me.. i don't want to give her any pressure.. im just wondering if this subject of second try will be brought up later.. she is a firm believer of second chances. But at the moment im still not sure if she will do that with me.. wish me luck. please give any advices that you find to have any help in my situation. thanks =)

2007-12-21 04:57:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously, how many young girls out there are into ham radio, or electrical engineering? How many girls out there like to walk down to their local university and ask if they can use their computer cluster to try to crack RSA encryption? The only female student when I went to get my electrical engineering degree many years ago had TWO boyfriends. When I go down to the Red Cross and hang out with my ham radio buddies I'm the only person under 55 there. I've never seen a woman anywhere near that building even when we've had to set emergency communications between cities during disasters. I don't understand how my hobbies or interests will help me find a girl. Even the girls at church are all either on drugs or have a kid. It's like they go there to feel better about the horrible lives they live. It's been 15 years since I've had a date. She wouldn't want to have anything to do with me if I did walked into to her.

2007-12-21 04:53:07 · 6 answers · asked by Hilow H 1 in Singles & Dating

how are you? and what can i get you for christmas?

2007-12-21 04:51:57 · 12 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3 in Friends

I got ready for work,That went fine.I went to work and Fell on a sheet of ice,right on my rum,with a arm full of stuff,Pop in hand but din't spill any,But I am a bit sore.So went onto work and broke my nail,My fake bail....grrrrrr! Then went to go get gas and No Amt card!!! It is at the atm Machine,I have yet to pick it up yet! I sure Hope my day gets better!....................Merry Christmas

2007-12-21 04:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships