I have a hippie friend. Her hippie ways have been fine with me I respect most of them. She recently had a baby and he was sick (18 months old) She is completely clueless. Sounds judgemental because it is. Doesn't like the medical establishment. The child started vomitting while I was over there. He has been sick for weeks with a mucous bad cold. No decongestant, no vicks, no humidifier, it has to be 'natural'. Plus all she feeds him is breast milk, with all that mucous. And what is worse is that she is so arrogant that she won't take any help for anyone. I pressured her and we took the baby to the clinic and the doctor said he was fine but I told her to tell him about his bright yellow mucous which he was throwing up. I said that could be a bacterial infection. She said "what does that mean?" Anyway she says he is slowly getting better. I think that is the most selfish thing in the world. Would you try and work on the friendship? I want to tell her to get it together!
2007-12-21
05:00:32
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daisyduck4007
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I know that she is the mother but I think that the facts speak for themselves. It is hard to see a child who is dependent on his mother for care not be given simple things to ease his congestion. But maybe I do think my way is best would love to hear what people think. If I am being too controlling about a kid that isn't mine then fine but I don't think so.
2007-12-21
05:07:59 ·
update #1
she does feed him well and he is bathed with clean clothes and such. She is good with him and loves him but it just made me crazy. I haven't talked with her but it may be fine. She said she would take him to the doctor as a last resort. So I suppose that is if he wasn't responding to treatment. I think i emailed her about the vicks and decongestant so maybe she has looked into that I hope. I believe this scared her and she felt overwhelmed. The child isn't neglected in other ways
2007-12-21
05:16:17 ·
update #2