I met him a year ago when he was going through his divorce,I stayed away because I did not want the baggage,as the year went by i would see him every so often at this local bar and we would chat,just recently we became inclusive and I really am into him now.his divorce is finalized and he has a 10yr old daughter,so i am worried about all the x drama that comes with him,we seem to have a connection,so should i stick with him regaurdless of his baggage?
2007-12-21 05:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, everyone has some baggage. No one is perfect. If you like him and vise versa, give him a chance!
2007-12-21 05:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Life isn't perfect, and if this guy makes you happy, the baggage will be worth it. It's not his fault that his life hasn't worked out the way he planned, and a child is a blessing no matter what situation it comes out of. Go with your gut, but if the divorce is final then there shouldn't be that much drama. That usually happens while everything is still in the process.
2007-12-21 13:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kelly,
What matters is how you feel about him and you relation with him. And how suitable he is for you, whether his plans and your plans match and whether you are happy with him. Discuss things like those before coming to a conclusion about a closer relation. I am sure you can analyse things and come to a good decision.
Regarding divorce, 10 year daughter, baggage etc.. see, everyone may have problems and life can turn anytime for anyone. He had a divorce, he has a daughter, but everyone needs second chances. But you have to be sure about the role you are thinking of taking over. You will be her mother and he will like you to give some special care and consideration to her. He will like you to show maturity, understand his problems, her needs and still give him the second life he may dream about. You have a big role to play and its success is mostly in your hands. You didnt tell us your age or what is your history, but, if you think you have the maturity and the staying power needed for this role, please go ahead in finding more about him or his plans. If they are suitable for you, think of a closer relation with him. If not, atleast you can be his friend.
Take care.. All the best..
Merry Christmas and A Very Happy New Year to You..
2007-12-21 13:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to give it a little time. If he divorced her they'll be drama. If she divorced him you might be okay.
2007-12-21 13:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by mojosc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋