I'm 18. I really like this guy in my class. He is very cute & sweet. Every1 in my class says dat he is a flirt. Blah blah. I talked wid him on phone & got 2 know dat he is actually a very good person but is always misunderstood. He cares bout his family a lot which is so sweet! He told me about this girl who flirts wid him a lot & he was actually fed up of her. We became really good friends & he shares everything with me. He says that I'm loving & caring. He was quite sad since the past 2 weeks coz he was missing his family so I used to call him daily. But he wouldn't call me. We talk for hours & hours on phone. 2 days back I called him & he said that he can't talk now coz his cousin was with him. I hung up the phone. Then I got 2 know dat we had a very important photo session the next day..I called him again to inform him about dat & he said that he already knows about that..I got mad at him coz he didn't even bothered to inform me even when he keeps on referring me as his best friend
2007-12-21 05:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So yeah...I got angry coz he didn't even inform me about it. I didn't speak to him y'day. But today...I again called him in the noon. He said that he is going out for lunch & he will call me later.I was like Ok..But he didn't call me. Then I called him in the night & he was like...my cousin is here..I can't talk now..He is quite nosy. He will be leaving on 23rd. Bye..Err what should I do now? Should I wait for him to call me? I always think about him ...:(
2007-12-21 05:33:43 · update #1
I used to call him just once in a day because he was really depressed & I used to cheer him up.
2007-12-21 05:43:31 · update #2
i think it is neither you need to leave him alone for a while still remain friendly but the constant calling makes you seem a bit "needy" he's got your number if he really likes you or is a true friend he'll know where to find you ....
2007-12-21 05:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Thai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound obsessed. He obviously doesn't like you since you call a lot and he doesn't talk to you. I think you might be doing the same thing but in a different way as the girl you mentioned that always flirts with him.
I think you should just let him go. Don't call him anymore. Just think of it as his loss and find another cute boy.
2007-12-21 13:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by J90 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Get your feelings out of there, before your life becomes even
more complicated."
"When a gentleman is 'too busy for you', find other interests."
"Relationships, are supposed to be 'Give and Take'."
"If you're giving, and he just doesn't seem to want to take it,
then you're just giving too much of yourself."
"Just because you're attracted to him, it don't mean you both
are in a relationship already."
"The very last pictures I remember ever taking with a (girl),
was my High School Senior Prom pictures back in 1992."
"No, she wasn't my girlfriend by any stretch of imagination."
"Me, I've never been the 'Photo Shoot' type of gentleman."
"All of my live public appearances from television, films, to
live local news interviews, press conferences, and pay-per-
view professional wrestling events, I always wore a blindfold."
2007-12-21 13:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making too much out of the photo issue. You obviously knew about it, so there was no need for him to remind you.
As for the rest of it ... stop calling him. You're beginning to sound like a stalker, and you're smothering him. Wait for him to call you. He needs his space! (Remember how there was a girl who flirted with him all the time and he was fed up with her? That's becoming you, so stop!)
2007-12-21 13:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if I would have been mad mad. Just been like damn thats sh*tty. Your my homeboy your suppose to have my back and didnt tell me. Ask him why he didnt tell you first.
2007-12-21 13:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like obsession.
2007-12-21 13:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well friend !!!
- look upon your feet before you place them on the earth !!!
- dont let you be the next one !!! for him to get fed up off !!!!
2007-12-23 23:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by burn_in_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out now
take chance
get messy
make mistakes
anything can happen
just don't ask ur self what if
2007-12-21 16:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Logo Bert PIMPIN IT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him call him call him call him!!!
2007-12-23 18:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋