Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

i met diz guy n we were talking 4 2 months. but then we stopped talking but the last day we talked he said dont worry. i love u. and wen i called his fone it said the # u had dialed has been changed, disconnected, or its out of service. and he also told me that he is scared that ill leave him 4 another guy cuz his x left him 4 another guy. now i dont know what 2 do.

2007-12-21 04:49:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. My boyfriend just dumped me 4 days before Christmas. On the PHONE!!!!!!! I am very depressed. What should I do???

2007-12-21 04:49:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im so sure theres only one can u help me

2007-12-21 04:47:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I am NOT crazy btw

But I went out with this guy a few times, we had a sleepover on Friday , he dropped me off on Saturday and called me Monday after work. I called him back, nothing. He called Tues pm and I called back, nothing. Then he texted me on Weds and said how are you,keep playing phone tag, I responded by saying I'm cold and want to be all warm in bed with you.

He didnt' respond, so finally on Thursday I called him again, nothing. So, I decided to go to his house to see what was up, and he pulled in with his date as I was standing there. He got out and said we could talk about it later, and he said that I knew what was up. I said no, I didn't why are you ignoring me? I left....

Then, later on I noticed just now he deleted me from his myspace.

Why would HE be so pissed at ME?

2007-12-21 04:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If they quit the business

2007-12-21 04:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes the best guy i've ever dated. the only problem is, he doesnt like going to family stuff. like christmas, and thanksgiving. well i love being with my family. there great. and i want them to get to know him and all that stuff. but he makes up all these excuses not to go to anything. i need to know what to do to get him to go? or should i just dump him now before i get to deep into it?? HELP!

2007-12-21 04:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

delete their questions after you've spent time answering it just b/c they don't like your answer. there was a moron in marriage and divorce yesterday who aborted her husband's baby w/o his knowledge or consent and then told him a/b it later and then couldn't figure out why he wanted a divorce. a reason for doing this was b/c she wanted finish school. although they could afford to hire help. she got lots of negative comments including one from me. i mean are you kidding me. did she really think she'd have anyone on her side. but i just hate it when they remove the question. if you don't want to hear the truth then don't ask for help. i think most people come here to really help people through things they've been through themselves but come on if you most something so ridiculous what do you exspect the response will be.

2007-12-21 04:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by freedom fighter 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I was going to use them for my current bf for our first time but I am not sure how he feels about me anymore. What should I do with them, just save them for the next guy or just give them away?

2007-12-21 04:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by prinsisss 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 04:34:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why are their wives getting so upset I just wanted to wish them a Merry xxxmas?

2007-12-21 04:33:39 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im lost in love.We love each other.I care and love her a lot.But she got married with another guy(parents force) whom she dont like.Im very depressed and i cried alot for her.But now a days she says she is nt feeling the same pain like me.Our past always dwells in my mind.I know i lost her and she cant come back but im unable to forget her.She married infront of me she is living with him how can i forget all these.I love her so much.why she changed like this.without me how she is happy and why not me. Is im too sensitive for her.how to get away from her.why girls change like this. Dont she feel the pain as she lost me.plzzz helpppp need serious answers plzz.

2007-12-21 04:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Singles & Dating

Or a guy with another guy? Me and my firends have debated this for years.

2007-12-21 04:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by The Crimson King 2 in Singles & Dating

It just a rumor that started way back in my high school days so I dont know how much water it holds. However I do know they were intimate and it might be true...a lot of people know the rumor. I havent been going out with her long enough to ask such a personal question and I dont think it will go over very well if I ask her to get tested before we do anything together...what do I do here? Just avoid the situation and dump her or what?

2007-12-21 04:31:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and here's my situation: I got truely amazing friends (we're even planning a 6-day ski trip on school days) and i'm involved in two groups, but I never go to parties, cause non of my friends do. It feels like only "popular" kids go to these huge parties and I probably feel even worst now cause I asked a girl I like out today and she said she's going to a party....
Should I feel bad? I never been to these parties and I don't even know how they go...

2007-12-21 04:30:24 · 24 answers · asked by Pro90 1 in Friends

the passport I need to buy for the honeymoon will still be good? I have to buy the passport soon but if I buy one now and still have my old name once I get married it would be no good. Can I change my name anytime?

2007-12-21 04:27:40 · 20 answers · asked by Alexa's mommy ♥ 4 in Weddings

I started going out with a new guy about a week ago (it'll be 2 on sunday) but he doesnt seem to want to get close. I always have to make the first move. It still hasn't gone further than a lingering peck on the lips! I've never had this problem before. I've talked to friends and people that know him and it turns out he's like this with most girls, yep the dreaded 'f' word (frigid)! Anyway meeting him tomorrow but I don't want t push it too far, I'm supposed to be going to meet his familly on xams eve too! Anyway your views? How far should I try and take,do I talk to him about it? Is it because he doesnt want kiss me at school,or infront of his friends? Am I trying to take things too fast?

Oh and he's REALLY hot! and I do really like him.

2007-12-21 04:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by kc 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to go and visit my gf living up in london bt i dno what to tell my parents because im going on my own and they dont know i have a gf..

2007-12-21 04:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by confused0102 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy & ive got history as family friends who met online after his folks threw him out(reason unknown).We are friends in love 4yrs.2 sides to this guy.With pals a player,motor mouth,temper,says im after in love with him,shows cards given for bday,tells gang friend to tell me off who calls names,wont meet,knows family secrets,tells bro to tell my mum etc.But with me hes great,shares everything,hobby,online,phone been with me ops,through everything.I had enough.
1 issue rarely it happens but his temper though hes motor mouth.I dont react let him blow off steam.I called his office as no cell digits as he cant commit i tell him i go abroad if we dont meet.Temper flares motor mouth calls names,tells bro with him to tell my mum,he knows our fly secrets,tells his friend in gang to tell me off as hes told his pals im after in love with him both are on speaker phone in between he asks me where i am out of love & concern.His friends shocked haha lol.If i keep quiet let it blow his temper motor mouth off it blows up on my face.Now hes online,call i dont go online,call.Whats with him do u think?

2007-12-21 04:24:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am looking to release 2 white doves at my wedding. Someone told me "It's illegal to just let some doves go into "the wild" and not recapture them." is this true I live in TX will be married in a small town just north of Austin. Also I would like to know what a GOOD price to pay for a WHITE dove is. I have a lady trying to sale them for $50 each i just think thats a little High.

2007-12-21 04:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dani 2 in Weddings

I sang a solo at my school last year and this boy named Carter only likes me for singing the solo? What should I do?

2007-12-21 04:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by gingerspice0331 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 04:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by dani_elley05 1 in Weddings

Since there are no curtains on the big windows in the kitchen?
It does only face the alley out at the edge of our backyard! What do you think

2007-12-21 04:20:39 · 30 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand what is wrong with men. Are there any good quality men out there. Men who earn a good living, want a devoted wife who is a good mother?
I mean, I would try to go above and beyond by doing little things that people don't normally think of. Like laying out the change of clothes. Give a nice backrub if he's had a long day at the office, down to wearing the favorite nighty. I mean, why must he look at other women? Why has he cheated so much. I honestly do not know what else I can do! I really think I am a good wife, and at this point I feel like I am not good enough. The other day when I told him about Jay-Z alledgelly cheating he said "He's stupid, he has beyonce at home" I mean, like what the f?!?! Am I not hot enough for him, regardless what I do? I mean, I don't know...why can't men have ONE awesome woman at home, who they love and spoil...why is that so hard when I have so much to give?!?!?

2007-12-21 04:18:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I was adopted when I was around 7, this was an international adoption so it was closed. Once I received a letter when I was 8 or 9 from my biological parent asking for cash but my adoptive parents discarded it, because, I mean who asks an 8 yr old for cash, right?!

Anyways later on my biological mother and brother would make contact with me again via email, everything was fine in talking with them until they began asking for money , I'm not a bad person so initially I would send some cash ($200 )every 3 months or so.
I work, and my husband does too, but he began to say that I didn't have to, and I kinda agreed, we were having trouble paying for our 3 yr old daughters daycare and so on. So my question is, is it right for them to keep on asking, when I have said I don't think it's appropiate or my responsibility,

I feel that the only reason they talk to me is to ask for something, it's never to just say hi, I don't want to feel guilty. So what should I do?

2007-12-21 04:18:12 · 30 answers · asked by SP 3 in Family

2007-12-21 04:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am completely and utterly shocked this could happen this fast. I feel as if thier is hope. I may just be fooling myself. We had a great relationship, everyone else saw the same. Our friends were jealous of how happy we seemed. And how the hell can she do this during Christmas? So here's what issues she says I have, that way you just dont see my side. She feels i dont listen to her stories well, I dont rub her feet enough, I dont scratch her back enough, I dont kiss her deeply enough anymore. I dont do enough housework. I dont coddle her when we fight and she cries. I dont woo her enough before sex. The sex has become routine. I dont give her enough romance. etc... I mean she can just keep going or reiterate the same. I have tried everything to tell her that i will fix all that. She seems disinterested. Why not ask to go to counceling earlier??? And in all honesty, I could tell she was happy before I approached her about this cop. She said that brought out the neg..

2007-12-21 04:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You First Lose Your Virginity? Does EVERYONE Bleed? Can You Avoid That? HELP!!

2007-12-21 04:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have only been dating for a month and I really don't know what to get him. Can you guys please give me some good suggestions? I really don't want to spend to much either. Maybe $175 or less. Or is that too much? HELP!!

2007-12-21 04:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

Our home that we had resided in for 18 years is in his name only, do I have any right to that home? The house in Tennessee is in both of our names, but I do not wish to live here, and can not afford to live in the NH house. I have been blindsided and do not know what to do. Please help

2007-12-21 04:07:30 · 37 answers · asked by Nancy W nurse 2 b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a great guy for three months but he still won't commit. We spend every day together, talk on the phone several times a day and we spend time throughout the day together, sometimes just meeting up for coffee or something as simple as that and then see each other later that night. I want a commitment but he won't give in saying that he doesn't "jump into relationships quickly". If I am not his girlfriend then what am I? Also, he's been telling me lately about all of the women who flirt with him and I'm starting to get jealous.

By the way... I pretty hot myself and I don't understand what more he could want. I'm loving and caring and take care of myself. I'm starting to feel really insecure and depressed. Also, he frequently says things like "let's just get married" and "let's have a baby" HELP!!!

2007-12-21 04:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by Havent I learned anything yet 1 in Singles & Dating