Ok. My boyfriend just dumped me 4 days before Christmas. On the PHONE!!!!!!! I am very depressed. What should I do???
2007-12-21 04:49:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT go crawling back to him - he most likely will come to you (if anything). Someone who doesn't have the guts to dump you in person is not a real man. I feel sorry for you - you have wasted time and effort on such a loser and he should have been glad he was with such a lovely person.
You should be glad you got rid of such a loser.
To rid yourself of depression: surround yourself with your friends and family. Talk about this - talking makes things so much better (I can see why girls talk about this stuff all the time). DELETE HIS NUMBERS AND RID YOURSELF OF EVERYTHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HIM. Go out, have fun, meet new people, try new things. You will forget about hiim.
Good luck moving on.
2007-12-21 05:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend just split last week after 5 1/2 years and am pretty sad as well I am just going to try and have a quiet christmas and think of ways I can improve my life in the new year without him and make sure that next year is better.
Have a happy and mellow christmas and don't let the blues get you. I have lost contact with lots of friends because we did everything together but will try and re-establish some friendships after the festive period. Good Luck lots of hugs and best wishes - Jo X
2007-12-21 13:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by joanne a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that; its ok to be depressed for a little while; but don't worry about it! The sooner you get over it the better - Hang about with friends or keep yourself preoccupied on your favourite sport or something. =]
I understand that being dumped can be very hard to live with; but it happens to everyone! So it's a normal thing.
If you want to have someone to talk to about it if you're still feeling down or anything, you can e-mail me anytime - I try to be there for everyone xD.
Look on the bright side; New year, new start; could bring you lots of luck and love.
Have a great christmas and good luck with 2008 =]
Dan
2007-12-21 12:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dan2j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let it go!! Some guys will dump a girl before the holiday so they don't have to get them anything for Christmas! And if that is the case then he is not worth having anyways! Does he have to go anywhere for the holidays? Maybe there is someone that he is trying to hook up with over vacation. Did he tell you why?
2007-12-21 12:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by jenny c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up nice, go to the mall, go shopping for yourself and your friends and family. sit in the food court and have something nonfat to eat.
After Christmas, ask him if he wants the gifts you had bought for him before he had dumped you and see what he says. After this, you can either laugh at him, or do whatever you please. But you will be in control.
And it doesnt matter that you dont really have any gifts to give him.
2007-12-21 12:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by forfree442000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and have fun. Its one less Christmas gift to buy. If you already bought this guy something, take it back and buy yourself something nice. He probably didn't want to spend the money on you so he broke up with you. Don't be surprised if he tries to come back after Christmas. Kick him to the curb and have a blast.
2007-12-21 12:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by ra4bat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is definitely trying to hook up and go out with somebody during the holidays but will go back with you after the holidays. It's your normal "I'm pissed off at you so I'm breaking up w/ you" cover so the guy wont feel guilty about going out w/ somebody. Everybody's done, haven't you?
2007-12-21 12:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl move on that happened to me but 10 days before and i moved on and now i have the best boyfriend every when jan. comes me and him will be toghter for a year *sorry i for got to say he broke up wit me last year* but i hope ur ok and dont worry bout it most guys r dogs
2007-12-21 12:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.
Phone your friends and invite a bunch of them over for hot chocolate, popcorn and a Christmas movie marathon. That's what I would do.
2007-12-21 12:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by moon_walker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go have a night out with the girls at a club. start talking to ex guy friends, and don't let him being a douche get to you. you can do better without him. he is a coward if he breaks up with you over the phone.
2007-12-21 12:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋