Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

Okay, I'm 16 years old, and I've been dating a guy for close to a year now. I love him, a lot...it's just that lately, I've been feeling bored. Tired of the same old things over and over again. I feel like I still love him, I'm just really tired of him. I feel really bad about this, cried over it ect. he's a great guy, good to me, sweet. He's really clingy though, and possesive. Always tells me what to wear, and gets mad if I talk to guys. It just gets so annoying. Yes, I've talked to him about this and whatnot, but it just results in a fight. Recently, in my Spanish class, I've met a guy...that I relize I really like. He likes me too, and he saw me in the hall today holding my boyfriends hand. He looked confused. For some reason it really botherd me, made me feel funny, and upset, like I didn't want him to see me with my boyfriend. I feel horrible, I don't know what to do, nor what my feelings mean. I don't want anyone to get hurt, but that seems impossible, what do I do?

2007-12-21 02:05:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the wedding gown I'm considering. This is going to be my second marriage so there will be no veil, no fancy frills or long train.

I want something simple and elegant.

http://www.bestbridalprices.com/moonlight-in-stock-wedding-dress-p-1202.html

EMT

2007-12-21 02:04:38 · 24 answers · asked by emt_me911 7 in Weddings

I have four sisters and one brother. My mother buys for everyone but my sister and me. I do not want a gift but I feel her behavior is wrong. She did not send my sister a card but sent me one. I realize xmas is for children.. I am the youngest in the family and my sister is second oldest and we are all adults. Do parents usually buy for adult children, what is your tradition and would you just ignore a parent like this?

2007-12-21 02:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just read in the paper that a close friend was fired yesterday . . . a week before Christmas. I know they are a little strapped for money so I am sure this is a stressful time for them. I would like to send money to them but I am concerned with stepping on anyone's toes. I'm younger and I have the upmost respect for them. Can you please help with the a letter saying that I hope this helps with their mortgage and other neccessary expenses. I'm planning to send $5000. Do I send it to the wife and not the husband? Men can be funny about that type of thing. I don't want to hurt his pride, like it hasn't been hurt enough. I just want to say that I think the world of them and I wanted to ease some of the burden during this difficult time. I want them to know that no one else needs to know about this and they never have to worry about repaying me. I feel sick to my stomach that this has happened to such amazing people. Please help with putting this on paper!

2007-12-21 02:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nezz 2 in Friends

my mom died on sunday.my younger sister has guardianship and so far has not told me or my siblings what is going on.meanwhile my mom is laying at the coroner office. as you can probably tell we have not got along in the past.she is a scammer and control freak.my mom has one sister who is extemely wealthy and i think she is going to use this to scam my aunt.by telling her no one cares and she has to take care of my mom by herself.my siblings and i are more than willing to take care of my mom.but my sistr will not call us to let us know what is going on.she has moved and i don't have her number.her daughter who i talk to everyday has not called me either.i have not been able to sleep for 5 nights.is there any legal action i can take.?if i don't hear anything today i will try legal means.help!

2007-12-21 01:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by pdk3@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

(a) love
(b) lust
(c) weak mind
(4) all of the above

:)

2007-12-21 01:51:17 · 16 answers · asked by moonstone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know pronto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-21 01:50:08 · 11 answers · asked by XOX_Hot Honey_XOX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

drinkin and being fun, will you still love him as a shy character, and kiss him and hug him still. I am just wondering. By the way I so drunk. Seriously. Will you love a man if he doesn't want ot be fun anymore, but sober and regular?

2007-12-21 01:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by leoprince_28 3 in Singles & Dating

I was just engaged recently. I have many close friends, but I am really not sure that I want any bridesmaids. I kind of like the idea of just my HTB and me standing up there. Is this odd? Do we really need to have bridesmaids and groomsmen?

2007-12-21 01:48:21 · 25 answers · asked by Sharon 5 in Weddings

My husband came home from Iraq 3 months ago, I knew before he left he liked to kick back and have a few now it is all the time, and it is no longer beer it is hard alcohol. I have taken him in to the hospital for alcohol poisoning a month ago and he promised me that it will never happen again. he doctor offered info on support groups and he refused and said this was a wake up call but it hasn't changed his ways what so ever. Finally the other day I told him no more alcohol in the house. Last night he kept going in to the bathroom, and each time he came out more and more sluggish. (This is my 5 year old Daughters bathroom so it just adds to my frustration) I finally went in to check out the situation, here he had a bottle of jag hid under there and it was half empty. Then I am the bad one for being nosey. (according to him) What do I do? He doesn't want help he won't take it. what do I do?

2007-12-21 01:46:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am separated and have a daughter but I'm only 26. I was emotionally abused by my ex-hubby. Now, thinking Do I still have a chance to be happy and loved?

2007-12-21 01:45:08 · 17 answers · asked by julian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

shes dating two guys at once. "boy number 1" she BEGGED me to get them hooked up. and i used to have the biggest crush on boy number 2. and then she hooked up wiht him while shes still dating boy number one. and boy number one is my boyfriends best friend... what should i do? :/

2007-12-21 01:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by FPLC :) 1 in Friends

keep my last name for work purposes? I mean....well im not a stripper or exotic dancer by any means lol (but with a name like mine you never know lol)

I dunno im a database specialist and everyone knows me by Devine and it's in my work email and all that..plus we have image signatures in our email ...

now i know i could get a new email and have a new image made...but do you think it's ok that i keep my last name for this purpose only? In my social life go by Chesney Hubbell?

2007-12-21 01:39:33 · 40 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

I got divorce slips slapped on my face when i was struggling with depression few years back. almost 3 years later, i have a life with new gorgeous wife, adorable kids, family, house, etc..happiest I've been in my entire life.

Every once in a while, i get a hate email from the ex about how I'm the one that should be blamed for everything and how she loved me etc etc..

When YOU complain about your 'lazy' husband, when YOU complain how you're miserable and YOUR hubby is at fault for everything, and YOU dump him. Years later, why do YOU miss him? (I know there are bunch of you that do.)

2007-12-21 01:39:21 · 22 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-21 01:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jani 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 children (boy 8 and girl 12). I am supposed to have my (and my wife's) holiday time from after school today until 8 pm on Christmas eve. Their mom (my ex) has sent me a letter self suspending the kids' visitation with us until a court date for a hearing of what I beleve are issues that could be settled outside of court. I called her last evening to see when I could pick up the kids and she stated that she suspended my visitation until the hearing. She also denied us parenting time 2 weekends ago. I filed a denial of parenting time paperwork over it. My attorney (whom i can not get ahold of today) stated to file paperwork every time this happens. I will do that.
My question is...should I make the 75 minute trip to their house to show the courts that I made an attempt to get them for our time? Should I not attempt the trip and just write it down in the denial of parenting time complaint?
The Michigan FOC is aware of her and not putting up with what she is trying to pull.

2007-12-21 01:34:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im muslim n i live in iraq, baghdad...viel is optinal in my religion but my father is very strict n he very religous..i tried to talk 2 him n tell him that i dont want it but he threated me ..if i said no again he will hurt me..i have no place 2 run..no ppl i no who can help me..what should i do..plz help me

2007-12-21 01:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does anyone have a similar experience - as far as being a completely different body type as your partner?

2007-12-21 01:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by runkitty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 01:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by Lady Invisible 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-21 01:25:08 · 21 answers · asked by rach 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband, evertime i try to talk to him about the holidays or his children coming over he ignores me or statrs a fight. I've tried to tell him that when he makes plans and i'm not consulted about it makes me upset. he even leaves work early if the kids are dropped of at his work because his ex is going to work. we don't have much money as it is due to child support except mainly for my check. he thinks i should just accept what ever . The bad part is when the kids come over they wont listen to me and if i say something to there dad he ask me why do i have to be such a *****. I have no controll at all when there at my home and my husband gives them money we don't have . the ex tells the kids i don't know why your dad dosnt help out . hes already giving half of his check to the ex she said in court its really hard raising kids on your own well if it is that hard why don't she work more than 20 hours a week? she isn't contributing at all toward the finicial end shouldnt she work 40 hour

2007-12-21 01:25:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work as an executive assistant to two extremely well-paid, high-level professionals (they make a million a year with bonuses). Yesterday, one of them gave me a gift card with a note "thanks for all you do". I checked the balance: fricking $25 bucks!!! All I could think was "WOW". I was stunned. Now keep in mind, I just love working with the guy, he's an awesome person. I went through all possible scenarios: Q: Does he just not know what's appropriate? A: Not possible - he's been in the business way too long AND has a wife who most likely helps him out. Q: Does he value me THAT little? A: He's never given me any indication of a problem. Always praising my work, says he couldn't do his job w/o me. Q: Is he just that cheap? A: I do his expenses. He has no problem spending 1K+ on a round of golf at an exclusive club w/ clients. The other person I support typically gives me a card with money in it-say 500 or so. I gave the f'ing card to our garage attendant!! HELP ME - what to do??

2007-12-21 01:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

answers on a postcard, please...to:...........................

2007-12-21 01:11:18 · 11 answers · asked by mmmmyeah 3 in Singles & Dating

recently i started dating someone, and usually i tend to eat pretty decent because its one of the few things i enjoy, but ever since i started dating ive pretty much lost the desire to eat and only do so when my stomach begins to hurt & even then i only eat enough to get by. the last time i experienced something like this was when i was under a lot of stress, but now im as happy as ive ever been but still am experiencing the same thing. considering im a good 30-40lbs overweight i do not consider this a problem, im just curious as to what the deal is.

2007-12-21 01:05:38 · 16 answers · asked by Jonny Mick 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 01:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by Dinesh 1 in Weddings

2007-12-21 01:04:03 · 17 answers · asked by April 5 in Marriage & Divorce

as u know that new year is about to come .seizing this opportunity i want to wish all my managers (they are more than 10)so plz write some good words (sentences) that suits for them .. actually in return i want to gain their hapiness and durability of my job. plz write for me in a good gramatical english so i can imprss them also.

2007-12-21 01:02:52 · 2 answers · asked by yeshkay 2 in Singles & Dating

i need pointers for wedding favors (trying to stay around 20k for the entire wedding). In dallas tx. most likely 150+ guests but if my estimation is correct its going to exceed 200. I kow the resturant is going to run close to if not over 10k for that amount of people if i factor in about 40 to 50 a head. After flowers, decorations, and all the other stuff i have no idea i will need since this is our first wedding, i'm trying to stay somewhat cheap yet not tacky for favors. Anyone in the dallas tx area with other pointers i would really appreciate it.

2007-12-21 01:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Steven B 4 in Weddings

2007-12-21 00:58:53 · 16 answers · asked by carlos_fandangos 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were to run into an ex ,would you snub him if he try to talk to you?

2007-12-21 00:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating