my mom died on sunday.my younger sister has guardianship and so far has not told me or my siblings what is going on.meanwhile my mom is laying at the coroner office. as you can probably tell we have not got along in the past.she is a scammer and control freak.my mom has one sister who is extemely wealthy and i think she is going to use this to scam my aunt.by telling her no one cares and she has to take care of my mom by herself.my siblings and i are more than willing to take care of my mom.but my sistr will not call us to let us know what is going on.she has moved and i don't have her number.her daughter who i talk to everyday has not called me either.i have not been able to sleep for 5 nights.is there any legal action i can take.?if i don't hear anything today i will try legal means.help!
2007-12-21 01:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by pdk3@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont understand what you are wanting? Take legal action for what? I had a somewhat similar situation a year ago. I look at the funeral as a release from dealing with someone who is a user. Now that we have no relative living I dont have to see this relative.
2007-12-21 01:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your loss, but if you know what coroners office or funeral home has the body go there and talk with them and you and your siblings can go without your sister you are blood kin also. Then with your mom's funeral is over it is up to you weather you want to cut all ties to your controlling sister. I also have a controlling sister and I know where you are coming from.
2007-12-21 02:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by nurse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have no way of knowing just where your mom is? The reason I ask this is if you know which coroner's office she is at, you could at least call or visit that office and find out stuff that way. You are a blood relative and have the right to inquire.
2007-12-21 01:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you try posting your question in the legal section? Also, I would suggest contacting an attorney and just asking a few questions. Never hurts to be educated. Also, try this site:
http://www.freeadvice.com/
2007-12-21 02:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Arrica H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the loss of your mom. Seek God for guidance. Take it one day at a time. Get through the funeral. Seek help afterwards.
2007-12-21 02:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sunday's Best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to probate court and file a claim.
watch the obits for time and place of wake and funeral.
(call the funeral homes and ask for time of funeral for _____.)
if your aunt gets taken, shame on her.
although i doubt if she has money, she will be easily rooked.
2007-12-21 02:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry . I am hoping that all your problems resolve quickly. Just be strong, always think 1st.
Regards.
2007-12-21 02:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by iceman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, i'm sorry to hear about your mom
2007-12-21 01:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by mattiadomain 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry for your lost
2007-12-21 01:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by kp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really sucks...
2007-12-21 02:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by 2hott2handle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋