Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

I like 3 guys named Justin,Dylan, and Ryan.Justin likes my friend Ali and Ali likes him.He is going to ask her out after Christmas because her mom won'tlet her have a boyfriend right now.Well since I know Ali a lot he talks to me 24/7 and bumps into me over and over and over again.Dylan was going out with Ali and they broke up not to long ago and he always is askin me if I think he's ugly and I say no.Ryan is best friends with Dylan and is always talking to me,putting his arm around me and stuff like not, but I am not sure if it's a joke.Oh Yeah and there's one more person in this story Micheal. Micheal is in love with me, but I don't like him and he won't take no for an answer.SO what do u think???????

2007-12-21 04:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Isn't it stunning???

2007-12-21 04:03:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And what does she mean by not the butterfly in stomach and shyness that she really wants?

2007-12-21 04:02:57 · 17 answers · asked by Unique 3000 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote 2 weeks ago, asking how do you let go. I got some great encouragement and advice, so in order to not have the pain popping up when I least expect it decided I needed to say goodbye. I confront him a bit asking him why he didn't return phone call and that I didn't want one side relationship. He said "you are breaking up," referring to phone. I said "yes, in more than ways than one." Soon after the phone went dead or he hung up, perhaps unable to deal with what I was going to say. Who knows? I called back and left a message about his actions speaking volumes and said good bye telling him that it is best for me and my family to just let go, meaning I would not contact him again and let him be as I am just getting hurt over and over again. But today I feel sad that I had to do this to protect myself from further pain, is this normal? And I worry about hurting him?

2007-12-21 03:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a situation. There are this two guys after me. both are very sweet with me and flirt with me a lot I like them both but now I find myself in a situation in which I'm doing a trip. One of them said to take care have fun, but the other one said something that kept me thinking he said I know you'll enjoy your trip just don't have too much fun! I haven't date any of the two. But by your perspective which one is being more honest or interested?

2007-12-21 03:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so well any way my mom had breast cancer and so my family have been putting me in the #1 spot and it pisses me off my step dad, Well i know that he loves me and all but halfhe crap he does it pisses me off and it makes me want to do things that i know that i will regreat later.
Well in the guy catagorey i have a bf like u have new shoes but the problumn is i am still a Virgin and i havent had my first Kiss yet i am still waiting but i have been going out with this Guy and i am likeing him alot but i dont know how he feels about me, I mean it seems like he likes me alot but How do i know that for sure?
cruyshed and Confyssed on what i Want..
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2007-12-21 03:51:52 · 3 answers · asked by jenna_robinett 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This past summer she had a falling out with me ( her mom)and her sister got into a physical fight because I approached her about her taking her sisters clothes. She became very aggitated. She expressed her dissappointment in me. Thinks I am a loser because I live with my 84 yr old mom and take care of her. She called me many names and hit me before she left. She left a message on my cell, wishing I would die and make it fast. She was very drunk when this happened, however she has expressed her feelings at other times as well. I love my daughter, but feel better now that she is not around. Alot less drama. She recently contacted her dad ( we are divorced) on" her "birthday, but did not remember him on his birthday. I don't know what to do for Christmas, I want to give her a gift, and I called her boy friend, he said I should leave it at her dads house . Should I even give her a gift?? I have my doubts Please advise Thanks

2007-12-21 03:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by sweetpea 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this guy that i like named brandon.. and like i text him on mi phone and like he textes back and i heard that he was talking to his friends about me. i want him to no i like him but im nervous that like wat if he doesnt like me? should i tell him.. or no?

2007-12-21 03:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 03:48:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to a marine, he is in Iraq. Things have been rocky between us, but I recently met a wonderful guy in a class I'm taking. I think I'm falling for him. What do I do? Part of me feels bad, but there is a part of me that wants this. Serious answers only need apply. Thanks. Anyone else in this predicament?

2007-12-21 03:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been seeing someone for 7 months now and he couldn't keep his hands off me for the first 4. I see him everyday and he now sleeps over, most of the time on my couch!
We seem to never have sex anymore, and I don't know how to approach the subject with him or do I assume he is no longer interested? We had an agrument on Thanksgiving and he stayed away for a week, and then when we talked he admitted he had "some love for me", but could not "fall in love" with me due to the arguements which he always walks away from and stays gone for a week at a time without even calling or accepting my calls.
He does work long hours, and this could be the reason of "lack of sex", but yet I can't help thinking we are going backwards verses forward in our relationship.
I have recently looked up a person I had a relationship with before him and am really thinking of hooking up with this guy just for the sex, although I know what that will do to my current situation if found out.
Help!

2007-12-21 03:46:17 · 1 answers · asked by LiteLdyIM_98 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubbys ex still kept the ring do women really go on to wear these rings even if there has been two or three broken engagements.i mean some women must get a collection of the things.do the rings still mean anything as in someone fiancee ?do men who buy a second or third fiancee a ring buy cheaper ones to save money in case its another flop?

2007-12-21 03:46:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why do they say things like "I want to marry you" and then say things like "when I finish school (college)" or when we are more stable... I mean we have already started making plans- without the formal engagement- so how do I know if he really wants to get married?

2007-12-21 03:45:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-21 03:42:23 · 19 answers · asked by genius 2 in Family

and hows your relationship any advice?

2007-12-21 03:41:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't think i will (but i have a while lol), but i was wondering what other people would do? if you have a reason why or why not i would love to hear them.

2007-12-21 03:39:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your lied to and hurt your significant other so badly that they dumped you...

Now... you have to see them all the time. What is worse for you?

If they were nice and civil and acted the same way they were when you initially fell in love with him/her - and now you cant do a thing about it, and you have to watch them live their lives happily... without you.

OR

If they just completely ignored you entirely and never talked to you ever again.... he/she is now entirely and completely out of your life forever


You regret it all and you miss him/her. Which scenario is worse for you?

2007-12-21 03:37:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We got married on 07/07/07. Just 5 1/2 months ago. Two weeks ago Monday she told me she was going to go shopping with a single cop she is co-workers with. I told her that I wouldn't be real comfortable with that, as I was already mad that she was going back and forth on myspace with him. Like a light switch, she has completely changed since then. Now I am controlling who her friends are and whom she is allowed to go out with. She now has brought up every negative thing about me and says I don't listen to her needs. She has been going out every night, staying out till 3:00 am or staying the night at friends. She has changed her myspace status from married to swinger. I saw on her phone bill hundreds of text messages to this cop. We have a house together and everything was normal just two weeks ago. She doesnt want to go to counseling. She is completely afraid of confrontation, so she can't even have a civil conversation about it. Im ready to quit, but I love her. ????

2007-12-21 03:36:00 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I just got engaged last night! :) I'm not sure what to do with my promise ring I got 2 years ago...do I still wear it on my right hand, or is that going to be too much? I love it and I won't get rid of it, but I'm not sure if it should be a daily wear any more...People keep asking me what I am going to do, and I don't know what's "right," or "normal".

2007-12-21 03:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Weddings

2007-12-21 03:35:07 · 6 answers · asked by Kissthekitty 2 in Singles & Dating

The question came up between my husband and myself the other night. We joked and said "all the time" but if you had to pick one what would it be.

Morning (haven't even been out of bed yet)
Noon (at home)
Night (after you have had time to relax)

2007-12-21 03:34:26 · 46 answers · asked by queenbee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my baby daddy and i are back together we broke up about a week ago and just got back together this week hes going out of town with his mother and im thinkin about going i really think he ready 4 me to have his child he ask me all the time when are u having it i want it to be a boy so he can look just like me i really want this child thats why every time we have sex he do what it does to have it if u put a lot of sperm inside will that make it more children if u are going to be negative please dont even give me any complaments.thank u

2007-12-21 03:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by carlisha w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we got back together but we wasnt broke up for a long time tho. he said he only change his because he saw that i change mind. so both of are page stayed the same even when we got back together. but why would he say that he change it last night.he acked like he didnt want to. he said that it doesnt matter what other people think,but if it is making me uncomforable then i will change it.

2007-12-21 03:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by jessica f 1 in Singles & Dating

I do ?

2007-12-21 03:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

No Sis, No Bros, Friends will not always be there and finding the right girl is hard....I'm 20 years old man, sex opportunities come but I don't like to sleep with anyone just like that with all these diseases out there.

2007-12-21 03:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-21 03:25:03 · 39 answers · asked by leoprince_28 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a married man for almost 8 years. Before my relationship with him, my marriage was over - just not on paper. He tells me that the only reason he is still in his marriage is because of his children - he couldn't bare the thought of not seeing them every day. I have been divorced now for over a year and my children and I are very happy. It was the right decision for all of us and it was not because of the man I have been seeing - it would have happened regardless. The man I am seeing is positively my very best friend. I, however, find myself questioning the reason that he hasn't left since my situation improved - even for my children - when my ex-husband and I divorced. He has told me that his marriage was failing before I came along as well. There are times, however, that things just don't seem as he says. Do you think that I am waiting for nothing? Will I end up alone? Or, is there a chance he is 100% honest with me.

2007-12-21 03:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by kdcas10 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 14 as well and my parents and my sister are gone for the hole weekend.Hes coming over in about an hour and i know he wants sex for like the whole weekend... my parents don't know hes coming and his parents will think hes at somone elses house what should i do i love him so much and ths is the first thing hes ever asked for and i feel so mean not giving it to him.

2007-12-21 03:21:32 · 105 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy over 4 years ago. I knew of his wife but didn't actually know her. They seperated and from my understanding at the time were in divorce proceedings. Over 4 years later, I met his wife through a mutual friend. We've become really close and I like her. I feel like I'm betraying her because I've dated him and don't know what to do. They're having marital problems now because of his infidelity...another woman. She asks me for advise all the time. Should I tell her about us or not? What would you do?

2007-12-21 03:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by QuEEn B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married 30 years, we are in our early 50's. For the last year now my husband has an E D problem, it starts strong and dies off fast, at first I thought it was me, maybe I just did not excited him any more, I tried everything sexy clothes and nities nothing worked, We now know the problem and he won't do anything about it, he is afraid to take Viagra or any thing else because of the side effects, I am going out of my mind I bought adult toys for myself to keep me happy but thats not helping I need the real thing, I want to be may love to so mad I wake up in the middle of the night because I can't sleep. What do I do?

2007-12-21 03:17:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce