No Sis, No Bros, Friends will not always be there and finding the right girl is hard....I'm 20 years old man, sex opportunities come but I don't like to sleep with anyone just like that with all these diseases out there.
2007-12-21 03:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you lonely ?
Consider volunteering at your local church,
join clubs etc. You will meet lots of new
people so you wont be lonely.
2007-12-21 03:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ski Freedom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy. Just keep busy. Take on a hobby. If you are in college then sign up for clubs. If you aren't in college you should work towards a degree. Take on a hobby. Work on making your life more fun and interesting. Life is wonderful and there are tons of things you can do if you really want to.
You are young and life should be exciting at your age. Maybe you are depressed and need to seek medical attention.
2007-12-21 11:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing for me was to work allot working takes your mind off your problems keeps you busy.
And know one thing your not alone there is plenty of people in your situation so don't make yourself feel worse by thinking why you?
Get out get a second job if you have too maybe waiter or something with the public.
Good luck!
2007-12-21 11:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart man, most 20 year olds are still boys but you sound more mature.
Just find more friends. Get involved in activities around your area your interested in.
Gyms, pool/darts/bowling leagues, art classes, school even. There are some very sociable people out there, you just have to find them.
2007-12-21 11:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get active in some civic organizations.... If you have a f/t job, find another p/t job that will keep you busy. The more outlets you have, the more possibilities you have in meeting that someone special. Get active in church.... if you find someone there, more than likely, you've found a good one! Plus, if you have God or Jesus on your side, you will not be lonely long..... that's a wonderful feeling!
2007-12-21 11:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...whenyou are lonely,too much stillness is exactly the thing that seems to be laying waste your soul. Use the stillness to quiet your heart before God. Get to know Him...
...it is opportunity for Jesus to make Himself known..
so, take this as an opportunity...
I am full of heaviness; and I looked for someone to lament with me; but there was none, and for comforters, but i found none - Psalm 69.20
My soul wait thou only upon God. For my expectation is from Him - psalm 62.5
I will delight myself in the Lord and He shall give me the desires of my heart - psalm 37.4
2007-12-21 11:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the rut you are in. Life is so precious and beautiful. Volunteer some place like, the homeless, sick children, the disabled, etc. Touch someone elses life and your life will never be the same.
2007-12-21 11:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hobbies
2007-12-21 11:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is a luxury most of us cannot afford. We spend our every waking moments catering to the wants and needs of family, friends, bosses, bill collectors, etc. You don't know how lucky you are to have peace and quiet and the freedom to do what you please without having to consider how it affects someone else in your life. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-12-21 11:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab yourself a Hustler magazine heeheh
2007-12-21 11:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by ranger33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋