I need Helpni am hateing life right now?

Question

Ok so well any way my mom had breast cancer and so my family have been putting me in the #1 spot and it pisses me off my step dad, Well i know that he loves me and all but halfhe crap he does it pisses me off and it makes me want to do things that i know that i will regreat later.
Well in the guy catagorey i have a bf like u have new shoes but the problumn is i am still a Virgin and i havent had my first Kiss yet i am still waiting but i have been going out with this Guy and i am likeing him alot but i dont know how he feels about me, I mean it seems like he likes me alot but How do i know that for sure?
cruyshed and Confyssed on what i Want..
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Answer 1

in regards to your mother,i hope she recovers.for that is more important than anything. in regards to your life, good times come and go, but remember so does the bad. in regards to your virginity, celebrate that for i know the pressure to have sex is great but don't do it now.For what you give away can't be regained--wait to your are married!!!!!! It will save you from many problems both emotionally and physically.finally, take life slow!!!when you are confused,so that you you want mistakes that you will regret later!!!!!time tells a lot of things, so give it some time.Read the New Testament---it wouldn't hurt.in regards to your stepfather, you should honor him because you live in his house but that doesn't make it easy.Take care of yourself and take it very slow!

Answer 2

Confuse is a good word to describe you.

First off, you need to slow down a bit. You mention 3 separate problems in your post.

#1 your moms health issues.
#2 your dads behavior and how it conflict with your step dad.
#3 The boyfriend issue.

I mean which issue is th real issue here. That is why I say you need to slow down a bit and define the real problem. Once you define what thee problem is then you can start thinking of ways to solve it.

I can only infer as to what is going on right now because of the mess you wrote. So, I'm going to take a wild guess here and maybe make some recomendation but, its really hard without knowing much about the problem.

The number one thing is that your mom has cancer. I think that at this point your mom needs support. That is, she need to concentrate on that issue which is life or death. Worrying about you is just another load that she has to deal with. So, wouldn't it be nice for you to behave a bit. Make it easier on your poor mom. The number two thing is the dad issue. If his behavior bother you so much then just tell him about it. Just say, I don't like that. He may react positively or negatively but, at least he'll know. Do not assume people know what you feel or are thinking because they don't.

About relationships. Just take it easy. Let thing happen on its own. If you are waiting for the right person or the right time the just wait. There is no rush. Most humans live to 82 years old. You still have plenty of time. Your relationship should not be based on the fact that you are a virgin or not. Sex is important in any relationship but it only makes up about 10 to 25% of it. Think about it. You are not in bed with a person most of the time. Most of the time you are talking and sharing and also working with them. So, you should concentrate on making sure that other 80% of the relationship is healhty and going well.

To know if a person likes you all you have to do is hang out with them. Its easy really if you give it enough time. Things like how much attention they give you. How much interest they put into what you say. More importantly however is how they behave when thing go wrong. When things go wrong is when you find out who is your true friend and who is there for some particular interest.

Answer 3

You sound young, and it sounds like you have a lot to learn. The boyfriend thing, keep it as is.. You don' t have to kiss him, or have sex, wait until along time, at least when your married, or realistically when your thirty.. You have plenty of time to wait, so why rush it.