Your lied to and hurt your significant other so badly that they dumped you...
Now... you have to see them all the time. What is worse for you?
If they were nice and civil and acted the same way they were when you initially fell in love with him/her - and now you cant do a thing about it, and you have to watch them live their lives happily... without you.
OR
If they just completely ignored you entirely and never talked to you ever again.... he/she is now entirely and completely out of your life forever
You regret it all and you miss him/her. Which scenario is worse for you?
2007-12-21 03:37:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would rather never see them again and have the chance to heal.
2007-12-21 03:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont care whats worse for me. The best scenario will be if she moved on without any ill will towards me.
2007-12-21 03:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by boundless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, living with the guilt of hurting another person, for me, that's way worse than just pure ignorance and longing.
2007-12-21 03:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 is the heart breaker... but #2 is pretty darned awful too! It's tough...but she is better off being pleasant to you... and you could be glad that she is so mature and kind. I'm sorry for you... but DO leave her alone!
2007-12-21 03:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gina C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
QUESTION 2 INGNORED AND NEVER AGAIN TO BE IN THIER LIFE FOREVER...
CUZ HAVING TO TALK TO THEM AND WOULD JUST STEW IN THE PAIN DEING IN THIER PRESENTS..AT LEAST THIS WAY THE PAIN WILL SOME DAY EASY IT SELF AWAY
2007-12-21 04:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of the above
2007-12-21 03:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, all of it is worse
2007-12-21 03:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by kukivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one,,,definitely,,I couldn't do it!
2007-12-21 03:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just don't lie to him.
2007-12-21 03:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋