Iam really so sad, my fiance and I broke it off, pretty much do to her rekindling friendships with old friends and going to back to her old lifestyle, of just partying and hanging with friends all the time, and now she has blocked me off completely, I mean I try to get intouch with her through the phone and email and get hangups and no replys, she says she completely has no feelings for me and wants me out of her life, It makes me hurt so much in side
Last night I was thinking about all are early relationship memories, like talking on the phone for hours, picnics at the park, are first date, and I honestly cried for an hour, Its like shes not even giving me a chance to get back in her life and her heart. Honestly I dont think I did anything drasticly wrong, I guess its just a case of her wanting her old life, but to not even talk to me at all? Just one chance is all I want.
Are love was so pure and real, how could it fade so fast and how could her feelings go from love to hate?
2007-12-21 05:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel so betrayed, I would think her parents would talk to her as I did alot for the whole family, yet nothing comes of it. She honestly wont even give me a chance to speak to her, just person to person and ask her why she is feeling the way shes feeling, she just says oh Iam hanging with so and so today and so and so tomarrow, and Iam busy ALLL the time now, shes hanging with a different person every day. I dont understand, yet she will talk to her other ex who treated her like crap, but will not talk to me?
2007-12-21 05:17:55 · update #1
She has moved on so let her go and move on with her life. I know that this may sound impossible, but there are plenty of other women out there that you can have a relationship with. Life is not over. I remember dating men almost marrying them when in fact it didn't work out and i ended up heartbroken. But, now I met someone who I would have never met if i had married one of those men and I am so glad that i didn't. I know it sounds hard right now, but you'll someday meet another girl and say wow im so glad that i didn't marry the one that left me.
2007-12-21 05:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you're going through this, but if she won't talk to you, there isn't anything you can do. It's possible that her feelings were fading before, and she just never told you - so while you thought everything was fine, she was working up the courage to leave you.
Take some time to grieve. Don't try to contact her because it's only going to make things worse. Just give it time and you will heal.
2007-12-21 13:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep saying that you did nothing "drastically" wrong.
Perhaps in her mind you did.
She doesn't have to talk to you. It seems like you're really not respecting her wishes to have some space. That is going to do nothing but push her further away.
If she is going to come back to you it's going to have to be on her own terms or else it won't last anyway.
It is clear that you are hurting but so is she, I'm sure... you need to give her room to breathe and stop judging who she is hanging out with, who she is speaking to, etc.
2007-12-21 13:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by snoopy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, count your blessings, better to loved and lost then never loved at all.
Surround yourself with friends this holiday season and party down on new years eve.
Your FREE!!!!!!!!!!!! Stop dwelling on the past and get as much tail you can in 08. Listen to Tom Leykis on the radio in your area.
2007-12-21 13:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋