Im lost in love.We love each other.I care and love her a lot.But she got married with another guy(parents force) whom she dont like.Im very depressed and i cried alot for her.But now a days she says she is nt feeling the same pain like me.Our past always dwells in my mind.I know i lost her and she cant come back but im unable to forget her.She married infront of me she is living with him how can i forget all these.I love her so much.why she changed like this.without me how she is happy and why not me. Is im too sensitive for her.how to get away from her.why girls change like this. Dont she feel the pain as she lost me.plzzz helpppp need serious answers plzz.
2007-12-21 05:33:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since her parents forced her; doesn't change the fact that she is married and living with someone else.
Sounds like she is trying to work it out with the person she is living with.
My advice, sadly, would be to keep yourself pre-occupied with other friends, family and hobbies so you won't think about her. Time will make it easier - slowly but surely.
Obviously, you will have to move on without her.
There is someone out there for you. Have patience , good things to those who wait.
Good luck sweetie. =]
2007-12-21 05:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by 1 Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, go ahead and let it go. Although he parents forced the marriage, she seemed to have accepted it as being law, and have moved on. Maybe it's time for you to find someone to love and to love you back in return. If not, you'll forver mourn the lost of someone that haas Lost Love for you and has found Love for someone else. There's really no clear answer as to why women, and some men, decide to do the things they do, change like the weather in Chicago, it's maybe because there is always room for change and some times a reason for change as well. Besides, she probably did and still does feel the pain of losing your love as well as hurting you and because of the circumstance beyond her control, NOW, this is her way he handling things. Also, as for changing, she could also Change her mind One Day, and leave the husband and Come Back to you...that is if you'll have her and not have anyone special in your life if that day does come. So go on...get someone and Get Happy...You Deserve It!
2007-12-21 13:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dub-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to get over her buddy, she's married some other guy. How could her parents force her into this? That seems like a really odd thing to say.
It sounds like she's gotten over you, and you need to do the same.
From the way you write, you seem really young, and no offence, a bit immature. You've got a whole life ahead of you. Sure it seems bad right now, but there's no guarantee that thing's with her wouldn't turn bad either.
2007-12-21 14:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by cannon_lab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, bro.. I don't think it's too late.
If you love her that much, you would go to her and tell her your feelings and she should talk to her parents into getting a divorce. If she wants, and loves you.. and doesn't like the her husband.
But, it would be a hard situation.
Or you could either,
Forget about her, move on, find another girl.. You just need some time and you'll be healed soon enough.
I have been in pain with my love, yes.. And after some time.. I'm over it.
So, time my friend.. Just wait..
2007-12-21 13:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... seriously.
I do understand you love her but you just can't live loving her forever. Don't go depressed and stay single just because the girl you love is married to another guy.
It happens.
You live only around 45,500 hours in your life and there are more than 2.2 million girls out there... don't waste your time with ONE girl that you will never be with (unless a divorce happens which wouldn't be possible because of her parents).
2007-12-21 13:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she lives in the uk, she isnt forced to stay with this other person - she has chosen it. she may feel like she loves you etc but maybe sees that its not enough to break up a happy home to gamble on a relationship that may/may not last. my advice to you is to move on with your life. people change and she isnt the same woman you fell for. just dont go anywhere where you know she may be eg the supermarket until you're confident that you can face her without being overwhelmed with sadness and anger. you will find someone else - just be patient.
2007-12-21 13:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by charlie glue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain but if she says that she doesnt hurt anymore, then you should really move on. you will feel the pain maybe forever...i cant guarantee that will ever go away but all you can do is dull it. keep your mind on other things. it might help to get some sleep-aids like tylenol pm or something like it for a while so you dont think about her all night. i wish you the best.
2007-12-21 13:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by missanonymous2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you know that she does not love you anymore then there's no point in keeping her on your mind and allowing your memories to torture you. Life goes on, take your time finding the right person and enjoy the rest of your life without her. You are dwelling in the past and it's not good for you, please do yourself a favor and just find something to occupy your time and keep your mind on other things until you find the right person to replace her. Life goes on so move on!!!
2007-12-21 13:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by nemaus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my friend is why guy's treat women the way they do! When you put your heart on the line 9 times out of 10 you'll regret it.As far as getting over her. You may never get over her. But it does get easier. On the plus side now you know what not to do.
2007-12-21 13:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by glass_houses2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's moved on with her life. If you ever want to be happy you have to try to do the same. Try spending time with your friends and family and maybe getting know other women. It's not fair to you, to spend all this time depressed over someone who isn't going to be with you. Good luck
2007-12-21 13:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by #1 Raider Fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋