My boyfriend & I have only been datin for a little over 2 months, but we havent seen each other [outside of school] since halloween.We've tried 2 but we've both extremely busy & we live 45 mins apart so it doesnt always work out.
* When I say busy, I mean busy . I'm a musician & I have rehearsals for different ensembles everyday, except for thursdays & sundays.So its hard 2 work around my schedule
& his bc every thursday he has therapy &recently he's been havin alot of doctors appts.
We cant do anythin on Sundays bc we're both mormon and we devote that day 2 spendin it with our families.
We go 2 school together, but he hasn't been in school for about a month because he was havin some anxiety problems He'd start havin trouble breathin & no one could figure out why it was happenin so his doctor said that he shouldnt go 2 school until they were able to treat it.
*he doesnt like talkin on the phone so we barely talk & when we do its short mainly bc I think he doesnt want 2 talk 2 me
2007-12-21 00:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by noelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd leave him be. he has too much on his plate to worry about you guys right now
2007-12-21 00:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Incredible 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be a little depressed and withdrawn with all that's going on with him being sick in all. He's probably overwhelmed with not being able to go to school, etc. I'd just try to be supportive, let him know you are there for him, and get together when you can even if its only for a few minutes. Its the effort that will be remembered. And maybe he knows you have a lot going on too, and is just trying not to overwhelm or make life more chaotic for you. I'd just talk to him about what you're feeling. And I wouldnt take him not wanting to talk on the phone to heart, as most men are not big phone talkers. I'd just talk to him about it. Goodluck, and remember...."This too shall pass".
2007-12-21 08:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by cornfedbarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he has some issues and maybe he needs someone to be there. Being busy and setting aside time for relationships means you want a relationship. If you are too busy and cannot see them or cannot call them it is not a relationship, its a ruse. I do not see any real vibe that there is a relationship.
2007-12-21 08:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by gtx765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having a legitimate health problem, I doubt he's trying to not talk to you. Give him some time while the doctors figure it out.
2007-12-21 08:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you. Just give it time and don't give up on him. It's obvious that you like him, you guys are just having schedule conflicts. It happens in every relationship. But if you hold out, I think it will be worth it in the end.
2007-12-21 08:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by nasfan51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not mean this as an insult, but i believe the anxiety
problems and possibly be disturbed emotionally is why
he rarely talks to you.
my point being, it is not you, it is circumstanes
well beyond your control.
i know this is easy for me to say, but possibly another
boyfriend is the answer. good luck.
2007-12-21 08:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the benefit of a doubt. his health condition probably is more serious than you thought. if i were you, i'd make time to visit and be there for him. its at this time that he probably needs you most.
2007-12-21 08:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by sheikhlaodum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I don't think you could've found someone with more baggage if you'd tried really hard.
2007-12-21 08:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take it easy with him, he sounds like he is cooling off on you.
2007-12-21 08:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by carlos_fandangos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋