I am dating Joe. We have been dating a week and we already say I LOVE YOU to eachother. thats ok, right? i mean it, too. its not like im lying to him when i say it.
tell me what you think.
2007-12-21 00:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know, anything is possible but the real question is it probable..the answer to that one is no. how long have you known this guy? i always say you cant put a time limit on love but at the same time in order to truly love someone you have to know them and i dont think its possible to know someone as much as you should after just a week. i would say follow your heart but at the same time just know that you might be setting yourself up to get hurt
how old are you by the way
2007-12-21 00:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by blaster 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that might be a little fast. I have had relationships that are very intense which is what this sounds like. I wouldn't run to the alter just yet. Give it some time to make sure you each feel that way when you get to know each other better. My test is whether they like mac and cheese, and how many servings there are in a box. This will let me know if a person is selfish or not. Find your own test and make sure they are the right person.
Enjoy the intense feelings now, but make sure you are careful!
2007-12-21 08:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by #2 in the oven 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a little careful here. Infatuation is easy for someone else to see, but hard for the one going through it to see.
Love is a growing process that begins over time and never quits getting strongerl
Puppy love (infatuation) is the cause of many breakups. That is because love is a binder, and infatuation hangs on till something better comes up.
I would take a breath before I woud actually believe I was in love with someone that soon. Allow yourselves to each grow in love.
2007-12-21 09:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, a week is not long enought to find real love. But it could be that you love being together, or you love the way he treats you, or even that you love his personality. So when saying you love eachother it may not be in the traditional concept of the phrase but it is not a lie . Just be careful don't move to fast, don't let love blind you, stay on your "A" game cause you never know what might happen!!
2007-12-21 08:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by ms.rika_0118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be with someone for just a week and already know that you love him. This is infatuation.
Love takes time to develop. It also takes mutual respect, honesty and friendship. There is no way that you can know someone well enough to say you love them after only a week.
When you get to be my age, I hope you will realize that.
I think that you want so desperately to be in love, that you are convincing yourself that you are in love. That is not a good thing. You need to slow down and get to know this person.
EMT
2007-12-21 09:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too immature a stage to term it as "love". It's simply infatuation at this stage.It takes quite a long time before you finally understand whether both of you really love each other or not. Don't hurry in such relationship.It's a question of whole life time.Take some time more and allow yourself to understand him properly.Give him sufficient time to decide the merit and depth of his relationship as well.
2007-12-21 09:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, yes. What makes you think you love him?
Can you not stop thinking about him?
Does he make your heart race every time you do?
Do you wish you could spend every moment with him?
These don't necessarily mean love. They can mean lust too, or more frequently, infatuation. That infatuation can lead to deep affection, which can indeed blossom into love. Yes it's possible to love after a week, but it's far more common to be infatuated. Regardless, enjoy your time with him! Love, lust or infatuation, if the guy takes your breath away, what's the difference?
2007-12-21 09:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you sweaty there is no time to say I LOVE YOU.Some people will say to that its to early.But let me tell you that i fell in LOVE with the man that i am with now and you no.I LOVE HIM AT FIRST SITE.Some people told me it was to fast but i have a mind of my own and did not listen to nobody cause i was starting to wonder myself to and that cave me stress and i don't need stress in my life,and 2 days after i told him I LOVE YOU and that was the most beautiful day in my life.And it fell good to tell him and i an still with him as this day,and don't forget i am 50 year woman have daughters and grand-children's.As long that you love him and him loving you.I LOVE YOU don't have to wait,good luck.
2007-12-21 09:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a wise person once said: Length of acquaintanceship is not a measure of worth.
So when you think of it that way, why can't you love each other after dating for a week?
2007-12-21 08:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by TheUnknown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age it may feel like love because it's so new... That's a great feeling to have, however, it's not love... It's just simply the newness of the relationship. You will feel that same way each and every time you start a new relationship. Trust me, it's not love...
2007-12-21 08:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Louise 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋