Well my freids give me crap that im whipped to this girl that i dont date but we r extremely close. I think they feel this way because i few times i told the guys i couldnt do something with them cause i already had plans with her. And basically se hates my frrends and they hate her. I am totally in love with her. And she has says she loves me too but we havent takin the next step yet. But anyways all i try to do is make her happy. If she is at her locker ill hold her books for her, if she walks by a my group of friends alone ill go keep her company. O dont think this is bad. I just like to be with her and make her happy..
2007-12-21 00:47:38 · 14 answers · asked by Mike D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its sweet. they're jealous that your paying more attention to her. they'll get over it
2007-12-21 00:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Incredible 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to remember that a girl is just a girl, but your friends are your friends. If you do end up dating this girl, you'll want to spend even more time with her. And that means less time with your friends. So then what happens if you break up? Your friends probably won't be too happy with you for ditching them a whole lot, and there's a possiblity that this girl may never want to see you again. I can understand liking her, and wanting to make her happy.. like really, that sounds really sweet. But your friends were your friends first, and you shouldn't neglect your friendships for a relationship (which you're not even in). And also, if this girl says she's in love with you and you are in love with her, then why aren't you dating? Holding her books at her locker is fine in my opinion. That's just in between classes, and it lets her know you care without ditching your friends. But leaving your friends in the middle of a conversation, just because she walks by alone? If you ask me, that seems a little harsh on your friends. I also don't blame you for ditching your friends when you already had plans. I think that if this girl is important to you, and so are your friends, you need to figure out a way that they can get along. It sounds like your friends are just mad because you aren't around as often, and are spending all your time with her. So they call you whipped. But, if it was the other way around, how would you feel? My best friend and I were really close. We did pretty much everything together, and went on vacation with eachother's families and all that. But once she got her first boyfriend, she never wanted to hang out with me any more and I felt really rejected. They've been going out for 7 or 8 months now, and we don't talk. We don't even smile or say hi when we see eachother. Because she really hurt me by ditching me so often and she's not showing any signs of regret. I do miss her a lot though. So if this is anything like your situation, I think I can understand where your friends are coming from. I hope you take into account what I've said.
2007-12-21 08:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, it gets a lot, I mean a LOT worse then that. You are being the perfect gentleman to her and that is awesome. But if you know she loves you keep her on her toes a little. What I mean by that is dont be mean to her but throw in a little of the MAN in you every now and then. Be a little stubborn sometimes...Try not to spoil her too much. She might get used to it and try to find someone she thinks is a little more of a challenge. As hard as it is to believe some girls like a man to be just a little mean sometimes...hope this helps and I made since. Its kinda hard to put into works..
2007-12-21 08:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by willie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you "whipped"?
No...although you are close. If you start avoiding your friends or (regularily) doing things that you would otherwise never do just to please her, then it would be a definate "Yes!"
Now, taking her to a ballet or something like that that you would otherwise never be caught dead at as a birthday gift...that's just called being a couple.
Now, as for the "next step"...wait for it. When you're both ready, it'll be much better, and she won't have any regrets.
2007-12-21 08:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whipped. Just remember this, when the girl finds another guy and you try and crawl back to your friends for support, they might diss you.
2007-12-21 08:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by baby ostrich head face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well methere is this girl i also like in school i dont mind if ppl talk about some crap well i usually carry her books,going home together well just do waht you think is right and everything will be ok!
2007-12-21 08:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by [A]rch_[C]lan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats sweet. youre not whipped as long as she doesnt start bossing you around.. and you listen to everything she says.. if youre just being nice and kind and respectful thats fine, just dont forget about your friends either
2007-12-21 08:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not whipped ur just doing the right thing to g out with ur girlfriend..........bros before girls isnt true in this case............when u go out with a person u have the responsibilty to go with her sometimes that includes ditching ur friends for a girl its completely normal.........these dudes are just giving u a hard time.......shes prob hott thts why.........=)
2007-12-21 08:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like your whipped, people who are whipped go all out like get lunch for her or go get her drycleaning.
2007-12-21 08:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOES SHE LOVES U &WHEN &WHEREEVER U NEED HER FOR SUPPORT SHE COMES TO U &SUPPORT
IF NOT SHE IS USING U JUST TRY TO KNOW THIS
AND IF SHE REALLY LOVE U THEN WHAT U ARE DOOING IS RIGHT BUT DONT HAVE BLIND FAIT &DO AS SHESAYS FIRST MAKE YOUR CARERIOR
2007-12-21 08:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by manthan_aggarwal2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friends are jealous!!!!!!!
don't let macho-ism ruin a good thing.
being respectful and true to your friend does not mean your whipped.
2007-12-21 08:55:53 · answer #11 · answered by liitlebitt_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋