Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

my hubby and i were fighting since i just told him i thought we need to see a marriage counselor and things needed to change. he then threw a fit saying our relationship is perfect and we needed no help. we stopped fighting after that til he went through the drive thru of my best friends work who happens to be male. my hubby then proceeded to start saying how he planned to start stuff and get my friend fired and also mess up his car. my male friend and i have a very tight bond and we don't like to admit but, their might be feelings between us but, we don't act on them. my friend sees us and after staring at me with an open mouth for a few minutes refuses to look at me i refused to look at him and looked at the floor of the car with my hand over my face. my hubby then yells at me saying i was wrong for not waving at my friend and yelling hi to him. he keeps saying he is going to cause probs for my friend until we leave. he then busts out laughing saying it was all to make me

2007-12-21 17:30:52 · 32 answers · asked by S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 24 years old guy. And I always go out with women around 32-40.I like everything about mature women. I’m currently with a 34 year old lady, and we’re talking about to getting married. Will it work?

2007-12-21 17:29:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i just started dating a guy for about a week and today we hung out at a hockey game and he tried to make out with me. but it wasnt really....good, cuase he started makeing out with me on the first kiss and i wasnt expecting it. and i had no idea was he was doing. so by the end of the kiss i had sloberr allllll over my face and likee i was tottaly freaked out.i didnt know what to say either. i have madeout with a guy once before and so i kinda know how it should be like.
and then my bf tried it again later and it was like still bad and i still ended up with slsober all over my motuh......
lol i kinda was freaked out but i never said anything
soo how can i help or fix this????
what should i say next time if that does happen again??

2007-12-21 17:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 17:23:31 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

hey im 15 and about 2 months ago i started texting and online talkin to this girl..shes 14.. eveything was good we were ok and then randomly we just stopped talkin and texting... we barely ever talk in real... why do u think we all of a sudden just stopped texting.. i want to start it again.. but am kindas afraid to text/talk to her incase she doenst like me or doesnt wanna text me... what should i do???

2007-12-21 17:15:08 · 1 answers · asked by kaby_125 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was getting me this promise ring after xmas and we picked out the one i liked best and its now unavailable =[. i cant seem to find one that i really really like. so if anyone is super bored and would like to send me a few links... that would be great!

if it matters... i like white gold over yellow.. and would prefer it be a diamond ring... no more than $250!

http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2478939&cp=2071133.2109181&cp=2071133&categoryId=2109181&parentPage=search&searchId=21394130493

that is the one we picked out.. but in white gold. do you think it would still be in stores?

2007-12-21 17:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was watching a movie with a friend that i was 'together' with, not officially dating....but as i was watching the movie with her next to me about 1-2 feet apart....i noticed her leg kept shaking and her hands were hot and sweaty......this was happening 1 hour into the movie....then i reached out and wanted to hold her hand(thats how i knew it was sweaty)...and everything stopped, her leg stopped shaking, and her hand started to cool down....does that mean something....

2007-12-21 17:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

my little sister is a year younger than me. today she locked herself in my moms room with the phone and threw a tantrom about how i was the worst sister ever and that she hated me. I love her so much, and it kills me that she thinks that about me. she always keeps her feelings bottled up inside and then complains that nobody would care about her. but the truth was she just wouldnt tell us what was going on. can somebody please help me to make her stop being such a brat? PLEASE?!

2007-12-21 17:06:17 · 13 answers · asked by Tippy 1 in Family

is it odd that i am 17 and i really just want to settle down and have a family? I have tons of potential and college in front of me, but im sick of the teen scene and i just want a kid and a man to be happy with

2007-12-21 17:06:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay well me and my bf started secretcly going out in like December, a couple of weeks after he broke up with his ex. And ever since we have been dating, its like a rollercoaster ride. He can be really rude to me, and the next really nice, which really sucks! And now tonight I just found out that he still talks to his ex on the phone, and he couldnt even phone me when i asked him too. What should I do?? I want to break up with him,but then i dont. I know he still has feelimgs for his ex, but I dont know what to say to him.

2007-12-21 17:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every time i think about sex i get really scared it's just about the idea that the dick has to go inside the vigina i always imagine it will hurts so much i wana get rid of this idea i don't know how i think i'm gana have alot of hard time with my future husband

2007-12-21 16:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by Avatar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my husband when I was 16. We've been married for 8 years...together for 14 years. I have never cheated on him and I don't think I ever would. But, I don't get the attention from him anymore that I used to get. He never compliments me. He never says I love you unless he's going to bed. He never holds my hand when we walk somewhere together. He doesn't do any of the "little things" anymore. I miss the feelings and the rush I used to get from those "little things". Lately, I've found myself openly flirting with some of the men (younger or older) that I come into contact with at work. I know I act like I'm interested in them, but I'm really not. I just enjoy the playfulness that comes along with the flirting. I enjoy hearing that I look nice or my hair looks pretty or that I have a beautiful smile. It gives me butterflies in my stomach. I haven't had that in a long time. I don't feel guilty about this, but I do wonder if it's inappropriate. Any opinions?

2007-12-21 16:55:05 · 7 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old and I'm going to meet my birth mom for the first time. I'm nervous because I don't know what to say or do. What do I do?

2007-12-21 16:53:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-12-21 16:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a senior in highschool and NEVER kissed a boy b4! I have to kno how to kiss a boy b4 COLLEGE :( ugh!

2007-12-21 16:50:46 · 41 answers · asked by Court ♥'s ya! 2 in Singles & Dating

im a 17 yr old amle. ive been tlking 2 this girl 4 a while and recently i told her that i liked her. anyway she seemed flattered. and i think she likes me back and thinks something of me. shes been talking to me more, talking about me 2 her friends, and other such things. but i want to know. how do i seal the deal and really ask her to be my girlfriend, and hang out after school? how do i make her like me?

2007-12-21 16:49:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my g.f are not supposed to by each other presents (long story we got a combined gift)but i got her something and put its from are son.i just want to know if this is a good gift because guys always mess this up at least i do.its a heart shaped locket with a dimond in the middle it silver and i put a pic. of are son in it do u think this is good or did i fail again

2007-12-21 16:43:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or was it a bad decision in the very 1st place?

2007-12-21 16:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so thanks for the advice....well he is currently pissed at me. he came home from work yelled at me, bitched about lights being on,and the bedroom was dirty. we have a big home and the whole house is spotless EXCEPT our bedroom. i clean and cook all day just to make him not ***** and he does anyway. then asks me to go to taco bell at midnight....im not hungry.. but im nice so i did then he asked me to get gas for him so he doesnt have to in the morning!omg...Then tells me hes unhappy with our sex life.......r u serious....do i really wanna lay down with a jerk.....am i wrong for thinking this way.

2007-12-21 16:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Tobias T 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if he likes you?
He bought me roses when he hurt my feelings
He invites me over all the time (but when I asked him if he wanted to come over he said it might be awkward)
He makes eye contact and holds it for a while
He smiles really big around me
He asked to meet my mom
When given a seating chart that made us sit 1 chair in between us he would always sit in that chair instead of his
We are friends and aren't allowed to date til we turn 16...he turns 16 before me...and his friend wants to go on a double date...but he said he didn't really want to go.
His friend asked me if I like him ( I of course denyed it!)
He got me a Christmas present...I think it's a PURPLE (my fav. color) Eeyore shirt...I told him I love eeyore


Does this mean anything...or is it just my wishful thinking?!

Please help!

(yes...I asked this about 20 minutes ago but only got 3 answers! SORRY)

2007-12-21 16:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:24:16 · 23 answers · asked by ♥Miss Nikiti♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex girlfriend and i have spoken to day and after 5 weeks apart we are talking about getting back together maybe, In the 5 weeks she has made some new friends but they are all guys and i feel that one of them fancies her! She told me she doesn't know how any of them feel about her and that she doesn't like any of them anymore than as a friend. If we end up back together i know she is gana want to go out drinking and spending time at their flat with them, but i feel she doesn't want to include me in this. How should i deal with this sort of situation? i trust her but i don't know if i trus the guys as i don't know them!
Telling her she can't see them is not an option as she also works with them.

2007-12-21 16:22:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i tell my godma that i want a b/f. she don't want me 2 have one bc she thinks that im havein sex. ( but im not) she says that she wants to know when im havein sex. but i know that she don't she just want to tell me what to do. i want 2 do it mi way not mi godma way.how do i tell her?

2007-12-21 16:22:00 · 5 answers · asked by lexie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sex gets boredom after 2 years... am I right?!!! How long can it be interesting even after exploring.... Is swinging a good idea thereafter?!!!

2007-12-21 16:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want a boyfriend but no matter how much i flirttt with them, they wont ask me out what should i do??

2007-12-21 16:17:42 · 22 answers · asked by LIVEinLOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 16:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating