every time i think about sex i get really scared it's just about the idea that the dick has to go inside the vigina i always imagine it will hurts so much i wana get rid of this idea i don't know how i think i'm gana have alot of hard time with my future husband
2007-12-21 16:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by Avatar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry - if a baby can fit out of there a penis can definitely fit in... If you do foreplay and just try to relax your first time will be virtually painless. Make sure you use heaps of water based lubricant and a condom - safe sex is absolutely vital. Anyway good luck with finding a husband and just chill everything will be fine. Have fun!!
2007-12-21 17:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, are you sure that something hasn't happened to you in the past....some kind of sexual abuse? It's normal to be nervous about your first time, but not to be scared out of your mind. My sister was molested and before she finally told us, she had said that sex with a man terrrified her. Hmm...wonder why? Anyway....just a possibility there.
2007-12-22 01:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably scary to you because you're thinking about it. I bet one day your going to find that special guy and you will have that special "bonding" you're scared of. Just don't think about it. One day you'll find that you forgot all about how much it hurts and how much in love your in love with the guy your having it with. I hope I helped you. Best of luck to you!
2007-12-22 01:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by K_SNAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg it hurts a little bit at first but after 5 times you are used to it and you actually start exploring it and enjoying it.
2007-12-22 01:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by B.J.Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry - when its love, it wont matter. Stay a virgin until you get married and make sure he's really the one.
2007-12-22 03:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋