ok well i just started dating a guy for about a week and today we hung out at a hockey game and he tried to make out with me. but it wasnt really....good, cuase he started makeing out with me on the first kiss and i wasnt expecting it. and i had no idea was he was doing. so by the end of the kiss i had sloberr allllll over my face and likee i was tottaly freaked out.i didnt know what to say either. i have madeout with a guy once before and so i kinda know how it should be like.
and then my bf tried it again later and it was like still bad and i still ended up with slsober all over my motuh......
lol i kinda was freaked out but i never said anything
soo how can i help or fix this????
what should i say next time if that does happen again??
2007-12-21 17:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont let him take control of the kiss...you do it... you maybe his first and he maybe trying to just copy what he sees from some of these movies you see these days :) :P but..just grab him and slow him down..
2007-12-21 17:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by jumpincow22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u could give him a gift certificate for Christmas for kissing lessons. lol.
-or- tell him u already took a bath.
seriously, i don't no how old u are but i am up there. this was cute for me cuz i remember in junior high i had this gf who slobbered all over me. it was awful. but she was soooooo hot and i was the envy of every guy in school.
anyways, one night i just told her. i couldn't stand kissing her and why. she dumped me. by the end of the school year all the guys gave her a shot and even though the whole school new about her she just wasn't getting it. gosh that was 35 years ago. i hope she learned how to kiss by now. so, i guess u have to just tell him that his kisses don't feel nice at all and why. if he dumps u find a guy who doesn't slobber all over u. and who doesn't try stuff on the first date. DEMAND RESPECT.
2007-12-22 01:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, when your face looks like a glazed doughnut after you've kissed a guy then you need an intervention. You don't have to be embarassingly up front but make it like foreplay or something, like holding his face and kiss him the way you wanna be kissed and ask him if he likes that. Then tell him it's his turn......like a game or something. You just don't wanna embarass the guy though cause then it could turn into something more awkward...if that's actually possible. Good luck!
2007-12-22 01:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better kisser should always take the lead. You know, kinda teach the other. With a little exploring with pecks and kisses you will finally find the comfortable and enjoyable kiss.
2007-12-22 01:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by fastfreedombailbonds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about take control of the kiss. Go on the offensive. Slow him down. If he has long hair.......pull it.lol. Or give him a bone!!!
2007-12-22 01:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by designer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just toss him out...help him. take the lead and show him how you like to be kissed. keep him until you can see if he can learn...if he cant than i say dump him....i mean if you dont like kissing the guy than what the hell is the point.
2007-12-22 01:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by alexa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow..that's an awkward situation. Maybe he doens't really know what he's doing because a slobbery face should not be the result of making out....
2007-12-22 01:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dreamer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send him some kissing advice website maybe he will get the point lol
2007-12-22 01:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Meow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just push him back for a moment, then say let me show you how its done, then pull him into the best kiss of his life!!!
2007-12-22 01:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either put up with it or tell him he sux. Teach him how to do it right!
2007-12-22 01:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋