I’m 24 years old guy. And I always go out with women around 32-40.I like everything about mature women. I’m currently with a 34 year old lady, and we’re talking about to getting married. Will it work?
2007-12-21 17:29:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever makes you happy --- enjoy!
2007-12-21 17:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Its Hard For Me To Say If You Both Truly Love Each Other Then Yes I Think It Will And Just Because Your Attractive To Older Women Doesn't Mean Its Not Normal Every Body Is Different And Every Body Has Different Tastes Just Because You Like Older Women Doesn't Mean Theres Something Wrong With You Just Be Yourself And If Anyone Thinks Your Wired Just Because You Like Older Women Well Screw Them Then What Do You Care What They Think The Only Thing That Really Matters Here Is As Long As You Guys Are Trully Happy And In Love Thats All That Really Matters OK God Bless The 2 Of You And I Hope Everything Works Out
2007-12-21 17:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably prefer older woman since they are more settled in their thoughts and actions, there is not a lot drama or games. Your heart can not determine someone's age, it the way the present themselves and how you feel around them I am sure if you met a woman the same age as you the acted mature, you would feel the same way you do for the older woman, love who you love, age is a number not a person.
I have dated men fifteen years younger then me that could not keep up with my lifestyle, and then I know guys a lot older then me that I could not keep up. So it is all about who they are not the age. Marry her and be happy, toss out the number and feel with your heart and not your calculator
2007-12-21 17:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is normal?
Well, what you describe is not typical.
Many will say there is a psychological reason of you searching for a Mother figure or you have a parental issue of some sort.
But, it can work, regardless.
I know people who have been married for 62 years.
She was 32 when they married & he was 20.
Now they are 94 and 82 and tooting right along.
They have children, grandchildren, and now have great-grandchildren and a very happy life.
So, go for it.
And follow your own path.
Your heart will not steer you wrong.
Good luck!
2007-12-21 17:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG when you are 90 she will be 100 what will you ever find to talk about in common?
My young lady is 9 years and 8 months older than me and we are happy and greatful to have each other. Lucky for me she was not 4 months older. I would have had to call it off because us 50 year olds gotta keep up appearances.
2007-12-21 17:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 34 and I would never dream of dating a 24 year old guy. Not that every woman thinks that way. I cant tell you if it will work or not, you are the only one that can see that.
2007-12-21 17:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is definitely ok to love older women..I am 25 and love women in their 30s and 40s..I feel more comfortable being myself around them.
Its up to you two to decide how you are going to make it work...it shouldn't take anymore effort than a relationship with a woman your own age. Good luck!
2007-12-21 17:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by P W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it will even ifim really young and ur really old i dont even know y im awnsering this question anyways i think it'll TOTALLY work out with u guyz i mean c'mon if she loves u and u love her then get married and if it doesn't work out then dude..THAT SUCKS! Anywayz hope u like gettin married if u do and have a awsome wedding! :) *trust me* *it WILL work out* (and if it doesn't there r plenty more fishes in the sea)
2007-12-21 17:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Poptart princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...my brother is 26 and he ONLY dates older woman. He says he can't deal with girls his own age. He says they want him to pay there bills and buy them stuff. He says he can't afford the YOUNG ones. They are self centered and boring.
HIS opinion not mine.
My husband is 17 yrs older than me and we been married 28 yrs.
SO age doesn't matter as long as you have respect, loyalty, trust and LOVE.
FOLLOW your heart to happiness.
Ask yourself about kids though. This age may not want to start a family.
2007-12-21 17:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Georgia on my Mind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not just looking for a mother substitute or someone to cover your bills/expenses and in general "mother you"...
In the end, you may find out you live in different eras...with different music growing up, different things to remember from the past, etc.
2007-12-21 17:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it.
I have previoiusly liked two women who were both about 10 years older than me. I like mature women.
2007-12-21 17:38:36 · answer #11 · answered by FlyerGuy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋