im a 17 yr old amle. ive been tlking 2 this girl 4 a while and recently i told her that i liked her. anyway she seemed flattered. and i think she likes me back and thinks something of me. shes been talking to me more, talking about me 2 her friends, and other such things. but i want to know. how do i seal the deal and really ask her to be my girlfriend, and hang out after school? how do i make her like me?
2007-12-21 16:49:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She already does, Sweetheart!
2007-12-21 16:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Baloneyus_Monk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to hang out with you. If she enjoys your company, she will say yes. I don't know if you have freedom at your house to invite her to watch a movie with you. A Blockbuster night is often a cool date. You guys can hang out, etc.
When you ask this girl to hang out and she agrees, you should kiss her before the end of the night. Don't think too much about it because then you might not do it. If she kisses you back, that's a pretty da mn good sign that she's interested. You don't want to put this off too long, otherwise she might think you're only interested in her as a friend.
Note: Do you see how many people gave Maj the thumbs down? He made some good points about how some guys should be hard to get. Look at it this way: you see what you want and you go after it. Check out James Bond. He's a real gentleman, but he flirts with women all the time and they definitely know he's not trying to be friends.
You've already laid the ground work. The biggest thing is for a woman to feel comfortable with you. It seems like she does. If you don't make a move, she has no reason to believe that you have an interest in her. You don't want to be in the friend zone. You're trying to be a lover she can come to when she needs a friend. It hardly ever works the other way around. If you're just getting to know her, it may be okay to kiss her on the cheeks after a date, but you guys know each other and when you invite her out, kiss her. Most people expect the kiss at end of the date. Do it in the middle. But whatever you do, kiss her. There is no better way to demonstrate that you like her than that.
2007-12-22 00:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to go out with you on a date.
Keep it simple - dinner, movies, ice skating, etc.
Magic word: RESPECT
Treat her well and be respectful and fun and cool.
Don't smother her, but give her attention.
Strike a balance.
Follow your gut and instincts when reacting to her reactions to your overtures.
Sounds like you are on the right path.
All the signs are pointing toward her having an interest in you too.
Hope this helps.
Respect will show her you value her and appreciate her.
No matter what, that is never a wrong way to treat other people, especially those you care for and like.
Good luck!
2007-12-22 00:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and go with the flow. If it's going to happen it will happen. You don't have to perform any magic to get there. The transition from friend to girlfriend takes time. One day you're sure you're not her boyfriend. Then, another day you're not sure what it is. More days will go by like this. Then, one day, you will say, "Yeah, I think she's my girlfriend.". Time and patience my friend. Time and patience. With just a dash of "Hang in there and don't give up."
2007-12-22 00:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she wants to eat lunch together at school. then if that works out that may seal the deal. but of course you have to wait until after xmas vacation. happy holidays and good luck!
2007-12-22 00:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by A-DOG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep talking to her. After a couple of days, ask for her number maybe so you can text her (it's easier for girls to text people). Then maybe call her. Then ask do hang out.
2007-12-22 00:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how foolish, your second commenter compared girls to cars. pshhh! (hand in face) lol!
to make a girl really "FALL" for you...dude, dude...unless ur super hot, it takes a while...u gotta prove to her that u only like her and care for her and will do anything to make her feel special...during the good AND the bad times (like when shes sick or she had a fight with someone)....well, i hope uve seen some sappy love movies...try some of those moves the guys use to get the girl to really fall for them. ;-) g'luck!
2007-12-22 01:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG, listen to mjal, I had this whole thing thought out to tell you to do, but I read his post and now I'm in love with HIM......too bad I'm not 30 years younger....LOL He is right on target about women. Take his advice and give him the 10 points.
2007-12-22 00:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't go to her to ask "Can you be my gf" Nooooo! Just try to find a moment when it's only the two of you to ask if she wants to go out with you to the movies or something...
2007-12-22 00:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by ^Blue Rose^ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.be ur self
2.talk 2 her like a person not just a girl
3.listen 2 her
4.dont change ur additude around ur friends
5.walk her home
6.talk about stuff she likes
7.take things slow
8.be nice
good luck!
2007-12-22 00:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by smile91248 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bath everyday
wear clean clothes
Get a hairdo
money in pocket is a plus.
refrain from all forms of fornication.
2007-12-22 01:00:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋