Sex gets boredom after 2 years... am I right?!!! How long can it be interesting even after exploring.... Is swinging a good idea thereafter?!!!
2007-12-21 16:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not that it becomes boring it's just that the novelty wears off. Personally I think swinging is for the birds.
2007-12-21 16:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to keep sex from getting boring that don't involve swinging. The important thing is to stay open with each other and talk about what you like and don't like. It is so easy for a couple to get into a sexual rut only having sex in the bedroom after they go to bed at night (or whatever the routine may be). It is up to each individual to keep things exciting by thinking of new ways and places and ideas. Invite him home for a lunchtime quickie. Try to remember the things you did early in your relationship that sparked excitement and recreate them.
Is swinging the answer? NO. Swinging is not the answer to spice up your sex life. However, if both of you have fantasies that involve swinging it can definately be a great addition to your sex life. The important thing to communicate with each other about what you want sexually and act on that.
2007-12-22 23:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by SwingersBoard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sex life is what you make it. Part of having a relationship is in wanting to be with that special someone. People can become complacent in relationships and that is when things get boring. All that stuff being in a rut can drive a person crazy but it doesn't have to be that way. If you want to have fun then you have to work at it. Bringing other people into the mix isn't a good idea if the relationship is to survive.
People were made to be monogamous. Monkeys were made for swinging!
2007-12-22 00:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Onyx ♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 15 years. My sex life is not boring. You can keep it interesting forever exploring, there is so much to explore. Swinging is alright if you are both into that. Do you really want to see another man do your wife? It would drive me crazy.
2007-12-22 00:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, its a best alternative for couples whose desires to have sex to his/her longer partner fading away, to at least enhances their sexual urges to another couples paretner.
We could not denied the longer partner having sex lost the magic of desires thus many would tempted to cheatings. Swinging is not cheating because either of you are willing as also as participants and with the consent of the other.
2007-12-22 00:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these people that say they have been married 15 years and sex isnt boring are probably getting it once a month! I think that if swinging works for you both, do it!
2007-12-22 00:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The challenge to keeping a marriage going till death do us part is keep reinventing yourselves and make things interesting and fun. There is a lot to be said about familiarity and trust and its fun when you have been with some one to have that total trust with.
Swinging---cant see it ever. I think its sick.
2007-12-22 00:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my husband for 15 years.. married for 10
we have great sex, so do not believe everything u hear.
2007-12-22 00:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋