i want a boyfriend but no matter how much i flirttt with them, they wont ask me out what should i do??
2007-12-21 16:17:42 · 22 answers · asked by LIVEinLOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, be more confidence in what u doing and if the guys dun ask u out you can ask them out and date them.... good luck
2007-12-21 16:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by jinnui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being too easy to get. Guys like to have a challenge, they're supposed to be the ones begging for you, not the other way around. If you flirt too much you'll seem desperate. And I hate to say it, but looks are a pretty big thing with guys, so if you aren't Miss Beauty Pageant it may take a while for a guy to notice you, and even then it may not be your favorite guy in the world....
2007-12-22 00:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by yankees_batboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them out, look despite my avatar I'm a guy but I want to be a girl(in short I'm an M2F transgender) but I am attracted to girls and I date girls and my last girlfriend asked me out as if she didn't I would have never have noticed her and the girl who I currently flirt with rather then asking me out give me really strong signals and at the moment she's got a boyfriend and she said when they've split up she'd go out with me and because at the moment we can't be together she pretends that I'm her older brother.
2007-12-22 03:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lily R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave hints letting them know that you want a boyfriend or that you like them see how they respond if they respond in a loving way ask them out. or get somebody to ask how they feel about you. Good luck.
2007-12-22 00:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by xObahama blondieOx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels to want a bf and cant get one...it sux
it could just be a fase youll grow out of..but for now..
dont flirt as much because your gunna get a name soon for that. and just be friends with guy and build it could be a long progress but it works in the end.
and dont worry your time will come when you meet someone(you probably hear that alot and it sux! but it's totally true"
good luck
xoxox
2007-12-22 00:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by mandyquinn20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dont ask them out YOU should be in control.
step 1. act like you dont care about them
step 2. make your self as attractive as you can so that way they will notice you and ask you out. building attraction is the secret.
or step 3. ask them out IF YOU MUST. because they might be intimidated by u.
2007-12-22 00:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask one of them out. It can go either way you know. You don't have to wait for a guy to ask you out anymore. If he likes you maybe he will say yes, if not try another.
2007-12-22 00:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are very nervous about asking girls out it takes courage to ask some 1 u dont know that well out
so thats why u ask them out
2007-12-22 00:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask them out for sure! it seems tacky and makes u sound desperate! dont be too flirty cuz it may scare them off, trust me! lol! just b urself and everything will fall into place :)
with love,
ash
2007-12-22 00:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ℓιℓмιѕѕρяιѕѕ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate more on yourself and your behaviors. Don't be too loud or show off. Always dress nice and most important show what a lady you are.. classy and always smile... If that doesn't work.... just be patient...
2007-12-22 00:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by ColleenLucky7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋