Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

Seems every woman i encounter and get interested with nowadays has at least one, if not two children. Anybody know of any websites that deal with single women with no children?

2007-12-21 14:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by PJ in Texas 1 in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my boyfriend but he doesnt belive that he kissed me first.

2007-12-21 14:17:35 · 30 answers · asked by jasmine.lewis09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i noe u cant make someone love u but what if that person already loves u what tern guys on what can i do to make a mans life flip up side down i need a way 2 to make him reails iam here i wont to make us work i noe hes playing games i just wont to make him see hes gots somethan speaicl pls dnt b rood

2007-12-21 14:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by L 2 in Singles & Dating

im 9 wks pregnant and i wanted to beak up with the father before i found out i was pregnant only my grandparents think that bc im pregnant i should try and work it out. the only problem is that he is severely bi polar (he takes medicine for it) and since he found out i was pregnant he tends to scare me. he blows up at the weirdest moments has started drinking and partying and i think cheating on me. His temper and partying ways didn't start till i told him that 3 pregnancy test all come out positive. start so my question is how do you break up with a severely bipolar man who has a short fuse? also does this happen a lot do men freak when they find out they are going g to be a parent?

2007-12-21 14:15:02 · 16 answers · asked by slushpuppie86 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 14:14:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is not an easy situation. I have been married to my husband for 5 years now, and there have been several occasions where he has drinked to excess throughout our marriage. It has caused problems in the past, yet I managed to get past it when he stopped drinking. He was recently gone for a year, and there were a few occasions when he drank to excess where he was. He even got into some trouble at work as a result (he is in the military). I was very upset, as it seemed that it did not matter whether he was with me or not when this happened. He did try to blame his drinking on me, and I almost left him for it a few years ago. We talked things out and I told him that I loved him, and I also let him know that If it ever started up again, I would not stay with him. Well, last month I found a bottle hidden under the couch cushions. Today, he came home from work and within about an hour or so of his being home, I smelled liquor on his breathe. He denied it of course.

2007-12-21 14:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay...me and ex have been broken up for a year. Well, during that year he was not treating me right. he would only use me for sex and always called me when he wanted something. He was basically using me. But since that year i always believed he still had feelings for me. Well, later on, he had to leave for college. During that time , i was going on his myspace page and he had all these song love songs on there. I kind of thought that they had something to do with me. However, today i went on his profile and i saw another girl he use to to talk to on his top friends and it kind of threw me off a bit. hoever, i still feel like he still loves me. so i just have to ask does he still love me.....?

2007-12-21 14:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by bam07 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in an abusive relationship, and he and I started being friends...then it led to more...It was our secret, on my choice. My ex (now ex), worked for him...He wanted me to get a restraining order on him and I did not, until a year later...we have since reaquainted but do not talk about love, we just have sex. I do know he cares, I feel it but do not tell him how I feel...I prayed for this guy for a year, and now he is in the town I moved to and am scared to death of him so I sort of hide...go to work then go to bed...etc...what do i do

2007-12-21 14:10:05 · 11 answers · asked by alicat 2 in Singles & Dating

my son has gone to spend Christmas with his dad, the problem is he did not want to go, I did not want him to go either however the judge says he has to and his dad told him that he had to even though my son sat there are cried his little heart out.... My son called me when he got back to his dad's and was still cring 2 hours later. This is hard for me to sit here and do nothing while i know my son hurts so much..... How do I keep my sanity so that I do what I am supposed to and make sure that I get my son back.. The judge said that if I kept him during his dad's visitation that I the court would change custody. I have never been without my kids on christmas and that was bad enough but to sit there and watch him cry and then to find out that he is still crying 2 hours later just rips my heart out.

2007-12-21 14:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by mickeybettyboop 3 in Family

This year for christmas my mother, father, and I were gonna go to see my fathers side of the family. So far nobody has planned anything to do with my mothers mother (my grandmother) who lives next door to me. My grandma has 4 kids. None of them have invited her yet for christmas. Shes a sweet lady not hard to get along with by any means. My father took it upon himself to ask his brother (my uncle) if theres room for one more person, my grandmother. Now my Mom is pissed that my father did that without talking to her about it first. Usually im taking my moms side when they argue and she never tells me to mind my own business but now suddenly when i agree with him she tells me to go away. She said to me i have 3 other siblings. why doesnt she call one of them? why do i have to be responsible for her? She's pissed at my father for calling his brother and asking him without talking to my mother about it first.

2007-12-21 14:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by phriday321 1 in Family

okay, so i went out with this guy that a barely new- you know it's not gonna last when he asks you out over msn- but we didn't talk that much and every time i asked him to hangout he have an excuse... so he broke up with me before the long weekend. i was going to anyways, but now i try to talk and flirt by making jokes, but he COMPLETELY ignores me! he would be a good friend too! he's gone out with 4 of my friends - is he worth the effort of trying to be friends?

2007-12-21 14:06:31 · 1 answers · asked by jdm-ox 2 in Friends

there is this girl i really like and i told her that i like her by buying her a gift and telling her that i liked her but she didn't answer back when i told her that i liked her.(the gift giving and the telling her that i like her were at different times) how can i win her heart.
PS. she's rich and has everything she wants and i'm not a bank here if you know what i mean.

2007-12-21 14:06:04 · 15 answers · asked by mac 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend who is way more than a friend because we are always all over each other. He means so much to me and i know I mean something to him but we arent going out because of problems with his parents. Today was our last day to see each other before winter break and we didnt get to say goodbye or hug or anything and then he calls me telling me that i didnt care or i didnt say anything when he left but i knew he was kidding but now im crying and all depressed because i wont be able to see him or hang out with him for 3 whole weeks. Is this normal or does it mean something??

2007-12-21 14:04:07 · 4 answers · asked by babybellz14 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 14:02:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i found the apartments where my baby daddy lives at... but i don't know which apartment i tried to find that out by looking at the mailboxes but theres no last name.... i really do want to see my son... but this little guy was looking out the window and saw me... but he didn't say a word.. what should i have done... should i have yelled my baby daddy name or what

2007-12-21 14:01:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that in the middle of one of our recent fights he started to really like this other girl!!! weve been having alot of fights latley that hes been starting and i dont know what to do!! i mean why the hell would he tell me that??? my friends say hes taking advantage of my feelings.........please i really need some advice!

2007-12-21 14:00:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in-love with one of my guy friends.
We've been friends for 6 years, and I have liked him for all those years.
But lately, I got tired of hoping and decided to get over him.
Then I thought...I'm stupid 'cause I was hoping for nothing.
For those 6 years I never told him I loved him, and now I think I should tell him.
I wasn't being fair to myself expecting him to know how I feel without telling him.
But at the same time I'm scared....scared of being rejected by the guy who I loved for 6 years...
Will telling him be good for me?
If he rejects me....will it help me get over him?
and stop me from hoping?

2007-12-21 13:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've known her a little over a year. My first impression of her when I met her was well good. She seemed nice even though she wore very black makeup. Some people thought she was gothic or emo any of that sick stuff but I wasn't going to judge her because she was very nice to me.

Anyhow, that was a year ago. She recently started hanging out with my friends and they've becaome best friends now. As I hung out with her more I noticed she always said things like she hated life and wished she wasn't born (she was adopted) and that she hated her parents and things like that...

I thought it was just typical teen stuff (she's almost fourteen, she failed a grade) so I didn't say anything about it. That is until I saw her myspace background. To say the least is was disturbing and very violent and that wasn't the first time I saw something like that from her. My mom thinks she's disturbed and thinks I should stop hanging out with her...what should I do?

2007-12-21 13:57:16 · 26 answers · asked by Love.to.Laugh 3 in Friends

Ok, I have a friend and He isnt flamboyant and hes never had a boyfriend. What makes a guy gay? I mean im starting to think maybe hes just confused. I asked him if he thinks of men in a sexual way and he said no. I asked the same question about women and he said yes. But He goes to gay bars and has alot of gay friends. and he says hes gay but we were at a bar the other night and i watched him check out a girl. Also when hes drunk he tends to be more lovey towards women. So is he gay or just confused?

2007-12-21 13:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lisey<3<3 2 in Friends

There is this girl in my class that I think likes me. She use to sit all the way on the otherside of the room now she moved behind me. Every time I see her she ways and smiles at me. She always talks to me when the teacher lets us talk. She always plays with my hair when she can. She will always tell everybody in our class that we are going out. But today made me think. She was talking to this kid and she started playing with my hair then he asked if we were going out. She said yea and so did I then he said prove it by giving her a kiss. So she says aren't you going to turn around and give me a kiss.

I don't think she likes me because today was our last day before winter break and she didn't even ask for my phone number or anything. But she always kids about going to see this movie together. I can drive so she asked when we are going to go somewhere and stuff like that.

Does she like me? Please help!

2007-12-21 13:57:03 · 5 answers · asked by Eaglesfan19 3 in Singles & Dating

In the past i have had roomies and i have lived with friends and i have went thru alot of bs...Im 23 now and i was kind of living on my own but my Dad's wife passed away in Nov-07 and since im really close to my Dad i thought i would leave Texas and go to florida and stay with him so he wont have to be alone ... My Dad is in his 60's and i worry about him ... RIght now i am soooo broke its not even funny ...I plan on getting a job here in florida and stay with my Dad for awhile ... Sometimes i feel worthless because im 23 and im staying with my Dad ....Do you think thats bad ????

2007-12-21 13:55:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-21 13:55:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 13:54:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend was such a sweet girl, so innocent few years ago. but now she has a boyfriend. i like the guy but i'm afraid they will have sex because of.... and we're ONLY SOPHOMORE IN HIGHSCHOOL. i feel like its soo bad and i'm so against it. i cry at times because i worry about them. i seriously cry because i don't ever want to think about it.


is having sex now... at my age.. bad?

2007-12-21 13:53:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was w/ my bf for 2 months when he broke up w/ me. It has been almost 2 weeks since the breakup. I know 2 months isn't a very long time but I am heartbroken and miss him so much. The reason he wanted to end things was b/c things were moving very quickly and our feelings for each other were very strong in such a short amount of time. He said this really scares & overwhelms him. He is also in school ful time and works part time. Things were working great but I think it all just got too much for him and he freaked out and got scared. Before me, he had been single for over 2 years and I think being w/ me took him out of his comfort zone. He also has issues w/ women and really has his guard up (his mom is mentally ill & is very needy of him, his dad is on his 3rd marriage and they have all been gold-diggers, his ex gf of over 2.5 years cheated on him and left him for an older rich guy). So I do understand why his defenses are up.
PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW....)

2007-12-21 13:52:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have never met her in person, yet she has made such a profound impact on me.
she has made me a different person. a better person.
an impact that i havent felt, even coming from anyone im related to or have known for my whole life.

WHAT DO YOU DO?

2007-12-21 13:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by the questioner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay he annoys me constonally uhm he grabs me in the hallways and man handles me he makes me mad on a daily bases. or do you think he jus enjoys pissin me off. but then on the other hand he real nice to me




and what do you think about this guy he dosent really talk to anybody that much. but he talks to me he really nice and i think hes all rite lookin

2007-12-21 13:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by </3 3 in Singles & Dating

I was crazy about my ex the whole time we were together(almost 2 years). he broke up with me when he went away to college, but we still hung out when he came home because we are so close. we kissed a while ago, and then i told him it was hard for me to just be friends with him and not talk to him without having "other" feelings. he admitted he still had feelings, but then after he went back to school for a while got mad and told me to "suck it up" and that we just needed to be friends, we would never kiss again, he was over me, and that it made him uncomfortable when i told him i had feelings. but then this past week he was home, and he started tickling and kissing me again. when he left, he said he wanted to hang out and kiss but didn't want things to get "weird". does he still like me, or is he just unsure of what he wants? should i hold out for him in hopes that it may work out, or should i stop talking to him completely? i'm still so attracted to him and i know he is to me, too.

2007-12-21 13:46:09 · 2 answers · asked by lkh 2 in Singles & Dating

His emotional state used to be very well under control. I still love him so much, and even me leaving him would send me to the psych ward. I've been with him for 7 years, he's all i got. And most of the time he's a really sweet guy, but lately he's been flying off the handle so easily. He assumes things about me and then gets angry at me for it all the time. And once he's angry nothing can calm him down, i tried talking calmly to him, i tried to just not talk, i tried to avoid him but anything i did would make him angrier. i feel so trapped because i usually only associate with him i have no friends, no family, no car. Plus i really don't want to leave him, he's my husband, i love him so much it would tear my heart to shreds to have to leave him.

2007-12-21 13:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by ИΦĬςΩҐҐļº² 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am only 14 and this girl put my picture on the internet with out asking me and the reason i dont want my picture up is because i dont want people to know what i look like and a protection from pedifiles i was wondering on how would i say i dont want my picture on the internet but in a nice way

2007-12-21 13:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating