i cheated on my boyfriend but he doesnt belive that he kissed me first.
2007-12-21 14:17:35 · 30 answers · asked by jasmine.lewis09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hit yourself with a stick...
HARDER...
I SAID HARDER...
now, don't you feel better?
2007-12-21 14:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Phil McCracken 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all I don't think your boyfriend cares who kissed who first, the best advice I can give you is put yourself in his place. You know reverse the situation say it was a girl who kissed him and he told you about it. What would you believe? If you don't have any feelings for the guy you kissed your boyfriend needs to know this, but if you do have feelings for him be honest. All lying has ever done is make things worse. Then if he finds out you lied about something--it makes trusting you really hard, and sometimes impossible to do. Just remember you can't blame the guy that kissed you completely, you share some guilt. I am not sugar-coating anything it takes two. Now if the guy would have tried to kiss you and you pushed him away that would be different, but if you kissed him back your just as guilty. However it all depends on how your boyfriend reacts to this. I know if I did that and I'm in a two year relationship with a 8 month old baby. My man wouldn't stand for me kissing another man he would pack his things and be gone. Some men don't mind being messed around on, then again if I were you I would expect the worst. I would expect him to break up with you, or kiss another girl to show you how it feels. He could react in many ways. Expect the worst and hope for the best. If you love him try to let it show. If you are sincerely sorry about the whole thing tell him your sorry. Suck up your pride, you know you did wrong say so, that is if he means anything to you. If he don't keep your pride and walk away. Then you will always think about what might have been. It's your choice on how you act and show your love at this point. You are the one who has to live with it. All I can say is be truthful about everything. How the kiss made you feel? If you regret it? If you would ever do it again? If you feel you should have pushed him away say that, but whatever you do don't say anything you don't truly mean. It has to come from the heart. It is actually simple you either love him or you don't.
2007-12-21 22:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dopey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter who kissed who first... once you get over trying to place the blame on someone else... then you'll be at a starting point for working things out with your bf! Stop blaming everyone else... take the blame and start showing your bf what you plan to do to make sure you don't end up in situations like this...
You've got to be stronger girl!
2007-12-21 22:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the "he"? The guy you cheated with? Well, I can certainly understand your boyfriend's feelings. After all, if you had sex with someone else, what difference does it make who kissed who first? The fact remains that you were unfaithful and he doesn't trust you. Simple as that.
2007-12-21 22:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated, then you should count your blessings that you still have your boyfriend. If my S.O. cheated on me, that would be the end of our relationship. You can't be in love with your boyfriend if you are cheating on him. What you shoud do is this: consider yourself damn lucky he still wants you, and make sure you don't ever do this again!
2007-12-21 22:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter who kissed who first. If you cheated, you cheated.
I don't really know what your question is. What should you do about what?
2007-12-21 22:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could have pushed the guy away, but no, you didn't because you did not care for your boyfriend's feelings at the time by not thinking about how hurt he will be.
I don't blame him... learn your lesson from this mistake.
2007-12-21 22:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by tisashell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Admit you were wrong to him and see if there is a way you can earn his trust back.If not then you know you did something really bad but if can't except your apology...move on...{and don't cheat no more!!}...good luck,{your gonna need it}
2007-12-21 22:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by babyboo2429 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang you're easy!
It only took a kiss to get in your pants?
Well, it dosen't matter, he'll even the score---he'll cheat too!
2007-12-21 22:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by dtown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend what happened...again.
hopefully that should ease your mind....despite that he doesn't believe that you were kissed by some one else first - which i am guessing that you kissed the other guy first.
2007-12-21 22:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter wo kissed who first you allowed it and there for you are wrong I always believe if you are interested in someone else end what you got going on before you dive in ...........
2007-12-21 22:21:56 · answer #11 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋