Ok, I have a friend and He isnt flamboyant and hes never had a boyfriend. What makes a guy gay? I mean im starting to think maybe hes just confused. I asked him if he thinks of men in a sexual way and he said no. I asked the same question about women and he said yes. But He goes to gay bars and has alot of gay friends. and he says hes gay but we were at a bar the other night and i watched him check out a girl. Also when hes drunk he tends to be more lovey towards women. So is he gay or just confused?
2007-12-21 13:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lisey<3<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He really was checking her out, he leaned over to me and said " she is hot i love girls with long legs" He definately wasnt looking at her jacket.
2007-12-21 14:05:28 · update #1
If he has not had sex with men, then he's not a homosexual. It's a behavior thing. Not an appearance thing. A homosexual is someone who has sex with people of the same gender as he is.
2007-12-21 14:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you, bars are full of drunks, and drunks get pushy. You might want to see if there are other places in your area that might be a better fit. In St. Louis we have a Coffeehouse that has a lesbian clientclientele a nice low pressure environment, we also have a large park that has a large LGBT presence. Always listen to your own inner voice, you are only 18, you have all the time in the world. Best of luck to you.
2016-05-25 09:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by madeleine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all the other my friends on the football team always grab each other when we're in the locker room after practice, but we all have or had girlfriends so that doesn't make us gay. Also, I say I'm gay to girls who I hate with a passion just so that they'll stop talking to me.
2007-12-21 14:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by mygirlfriendisateddybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty confused to me. I have a gay friend. And we been friends for many years. He is totally for men only. But he is a great friend.
2007-12-21 14:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick him into a date with a guy but have a hot girl with big breast and everything walk in and sit at the bar with him. have her flirt with your friend and if he pays more attention to the girl then he does to his guy date then he is not gay.
2007-12-21 14:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so when straight people get drunk, they get gay.. So that means gay people turn straight when drunk (trust me..) Just because he's looking at a girl doesn't mean he's checking her out, maybe he likes her outfit or something.. Unless he's bi.. Idk.. But I tend to look at girls jackets and stuff thinking to myself "that jacket looks good on her"..
2007-12-21 14:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he just wants the label of gay (god knows why) and all the attention that comes with it. Your friend is an attention seeker.
2007-12-21 13:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be straight and gay but trying to try both sides to see what its like. Sort of like that Tila Tequila chic.
2007-12-21 14:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by valerie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his soo not gay he just has the tittle of it your only condered gay when you actually have a boyfriend or something and he doesn't seem to be too sure that he even likez guyz like he sayz that he doez
2007-12-21 14:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to come out of the closet and be the straight man he is!
He could be bi.
2007-12-21 14:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tickle me emo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋