2007-12-21 17:55:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it wont. How you react to it might.
2007-12-21 17:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Only if you let it. If both of you are wanting it then there shouldn't be a problem. Just set some rules down to follow so neither of you do something the other would hate and get a girl that neither of you would meet again, and there shouldn't be any problems. The reason you want a random girl is to ensure that neither of you can chase her down later for some one on one.
2007-12-22 14:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is meant to be for TWO people only who promise to be with each other for life, in good and (not or) bad times!
Anyone who comes in other the the two who made a promise, will surely ruin any marriage!
Three is a crowd!
Take care. Happy holiday.
2007-12-22 02:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Prof F 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to strongly disagree with all the answers I see so far.
I firmly believe that any sexual activity outside the marriage will severely hurt the marriage. It might not seem like that before, but it will - it has to. You're opening a door for your husband to love another woman the same way he loves you.
Sex is great; it's a beautiful thing. But, it's something to be respected. Sex is probably as powerful and influential as money.
Please don't do it. For your own sake, please don't mess around with it.
2007-12-22 02:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jon S 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
there is a high chance that it might ruin the marriage.
i would not do it..a marriage is for 2 people..and that also includes any sexual activities..bringing a 3rd person into it..doesnt make it a marriage at all.
i wouldnt recommend it..try finding something new to spice up your sex a life.. an other person isnt it.
2007-12-22 02:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those borders that once crossed there is no turning back.
Problems will occur 100% of the time.
The guy might get jealous if you are paying too much attention to the other girl. You will probably get jealous if he really gets off with the other girl. She might want to take one of you for herself, she may get you off like your husband can't...
I say go for it, as that is what I would do. But I would expect there to be consequences. Just saying that me personally...I am used to dealing with the consequences of my poor decisions, so I would go ahead and do it, fully expecting to have to deal with the bad later, and fully accept that risk.
Cheap thrills are expensive as hell.
2007-12-22 02:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to the marriage and you will never know until you try it out. Sorry but no one can give you an answer because every marriage is different. Some people are able to bond even stronger. Some marriages failed just because of it.
If I were you, I would never do that. I couldn't look into my guy's eyes ever the same.
2007-12-22 02:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It hasn't ruined our marriage it actually has made it more fun for my wife and I. She suprised me by inviting her best friend in with us and we all enjoyed ourselves and there were no ill feelings between any of us. I am looking forward to the next time she wants to invite her friend.
2007-12-22 08:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Happy hubby in Pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes.
I have kown several couples who have done this and they ALL ended in divorce. Give it a few months or a few years and it WILL happen.
Only in fantasy world can it help the marriage or keep you happy. FANTASY.
2007-12-22 02:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will always be one person who doesn't really want to do it, but does so, so as not to lose the one they care about.
2007-12-22 02:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it won't it is actually your only chance to have a happy marriage!!!
2007-12-22 11:09:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋