Today i'm having my first sex with my boyfriend but i don't know who should make the first move in bed,what to wear,how long do we do "it" and should i be excited,proud or nervous?
2007-12-21 12:47:01 · 41 answers · asked by Isadora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both together, i think both would jump in excitement
2007-12-21 12:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your not ready. Either one of you can make the first move. Wear whatever you like. It don't matter because you will be taking it off. If you need to ask how to do it. Than your to young to do "it". To be excited and nervous is normal. Be ready to perhaps be disappointed. Because it doesn't sound like it will be a good experience. Your here asking things you should know. Even if you are a virgin.
2007-12-21 12:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I say he should go for it first because he's the guy. And if you start he's going to think you have done it before. Wear something thats easy to get off like sweats or if you want to wear something sexy go for it! Do it as long as you want too!! lol but make sure you use protection k! I say you should feel excited and nervous at the same time.
2007-12-21 12:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.Unless your able to support yourself financially and any kids you "accidently make"(sex produces babies) then you BETTER use your HEAD hon.If you have dated this guy for a yr or so and are ready to have sex, then you are ready to be married, if he or you(or both) arent ready to make a commitment of marriage then youre not ready for sex, and the RESPONSIBILITIES that go with it.
WAY TOO many girls jump in bed with a guy they have only been out with a few times or for less than half a yr , jump in bed, get pregnant then realize he is an alcoholic, or a druggie, or lazy or allthe above.
2007-12-21 12:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage I'd recommend waiting as you may not be emotionally mature enough to handle the wave of emotion that comes with sex. If you choose to do it make sure you use protection to prevent unwanted pregnancy or disease. If you are emotionally mature and ready for the next step then don't worry about it. Just do what feels natural. Don't try to force or overthink it.
2007-12-21 12:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. PhD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your boy friend is putting you up for this as a{ if you love me you do this for me for a Christmas present sex}listen up i think your a naive little girl that doesn't know what your getting into with all the questions your NOT ready for this and besides how old is the guy if hes more than 3 years older than you give it a rest talk to some before you could make the biggest mistake of your life and if you go through with it DEMAND he wears PROTECTION don't get knocked up its not worth it
2007-12-21 12:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by big nickel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? The fact that you have to ask these questions just makes me think that maybe youre not ready for sex at all... sorry if that upsets you... but it should be a natural thing that both of you are ready for and dont have to ask anyone elses advice
2007-12-21 12:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are probably a teenager. First be sure this other person really cares about you and isn't out just to get a cherry. But what ever you do, USE PROTECTION or don't allow anything to happen.
2007-12-21 13:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Big E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you actually have no idea. Maybe you should put it off. It doesn't matter who makes the first move. He probably will though. Wear something sexy. You do it till he ejaculates, because afterwards he'll go flacid and he won't be able to do it anymore. Hopefully you'll be able to have an orgasm too before he does.
2007-12-21 12:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
hmm. Wear some lingerie, in bed and let him make the first move. Remember, the men lead, and the women follow, just like dance.
2007-12-21 12:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Justin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf? haha look dont over anylize that ****. first of all accept the fact now thats it will not be as good as your expecting. in fact it will prolly suck. once u accept that, your better off. besides that just do it and see what happens, dont worry bout what to wear, cuz it wont be on for long, and dont worry bout first move bullshit...thats all dumb stuff, just roll with it....and most inportantly do whatever he wants u to. and make sure he does whatever you want, cuz whatever u wont do for your partner, somebody else will....oh yeah and nomatter what happens ALWAYS use condoms...it aint no joke, its ur life, **** im 27 and never **** without one, oh yeah and stop lookin for sex advice online cuz its the worst place for it....be safe and have fun ..later
2007-12-21 12:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋