women telling lies?

Question

girls please help my ex dumped me she said she see me walking down the road with this woman who i know and she did not like her the thing is it never happened so why would she lie like that ?

im not one to argue but saying she will brick my windows and hope i die is a bit harsh i think.

Answer 1

Sounds like she wanted to break it off and is using this as an excuse. Either that or she was blind drunk and really thought it was you.
At the end of the day, do you really want to be with someone like that?

Answer 2

She just sounds a bit crazy and reactionary to me. If she says things like she is going to brick your window then its not unlikely that she just caught a glimpse of this girl with some guy who looked like you from far away and just imagined a load of stuff in her mind. It sounds stupid but some people are just like that, they focus so much on a bad possibility that they start to make things up that just aren't there.

Its probably better that she is your ex since if you truly were talking to someone she didn't like, which is a silly reason for breaking up with someone, then she might get even worse. Its just good you got out of there without her doing anything to you or herself. I think its more a personal thing than a general person thing though, people sometimes exaggerate and presume things when they are upset but its not too usual to get so worked up that you just plain imagine things and then don't believe someone when they say it didn't happen, why would you lie if she said she saw you, you know?

Answer 3

Either she has made a genuine mistake or she just wants to dump u, and is looking for the flimsiest excuse. Even if she told lies, it means she is trying to show u the door. Accept the inevitable, and let there be no show-down.

Answer 4

Even if you really were walking down the road with the woman, that's a stupid reason for her to dump you.
She's either really, really insecure, or she wanted to dump you and used that as the excuse because she had no better reason.

Answer 5

Usual trouble I see.

Answer 6

maybe shes looking at some one else that's why she lied to you

Answer 7

Why do chicks dig jerks?

Copyright © 1996 Drew Mcpherson

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