I have not been dating anyone since September. At first, I would rather go on and prepare myself for college in the coming month, but lately old urges have been creeping up on me. I have..."access" I'll say, to an acquaintance who has no problem having sex with someone and not attaching any strings. I know that if I were to do this, I'd have no problem continuing other things...but I wonder if I should just wait for that next person to come into my life or go on and have a little fun?
2007-12-21 20:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by C.o.l.d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life is about having fun, go for it.
2007-12-21 20:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Abstain. Anything could happen if you have this sexual venture. One night stands are never as good as they sound, either for you or the other person. Build a relationship with someone you really like, so that the intercourse will be meaningful. It is sad the world we live in today where sex is just as mundane as holding hands, when it is the closest physical connection we could ever have with someone. So find someone special to do it with, not just with someone who can.
2007-12-21 20:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by SH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait for the next person to come into your life. You do not want to tell your next boyfriend that you went out and just had sex to have sex. Birth control and condoms are not 100 percent. What happens if you get pregnant by this guy and then you have to tell him that you not only had sex with another guy but got pregnant. Or something else happened. Leave it alone. Leave the guy alone as well. Wait. If you wait the sex with your new boyfriend will feel better as well.. You should abstain and not have sex with him.
2007-12-21 20:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can go for fun for the present and since there is no attachment you will roll continuing but what about the exams. You have to workout which part of your life at this stage is important, having sex and sitting exams. Choice is yours
2007-12-21 20:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
since u have waited a bit, u cud wait a bit more; these urges come and go, but it's not nice for someone to point at you and say look at that b****, unless the someone u wanna be with is a friend and u made a mutual agreement.. my opinion at least!!
2007-12-21 20:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. The thing with sexual relationships with "no strings attached" is that strings nearly always form.
When you have sex with some you start to feel attached to them. You feel a special bond. What if you start to really like him and he gets a girlfriend and didn't want to do it with you anymore? You might get jealous, and feel betrayed.
Plus what if you accidentally get pregnant with this guy? The guy that will do it with anyone won't really be there to help you with the baby.
I'd abstain. Masturbate if you have to. You have a lot to focus on right now. The last thing you need is to worry about is babies, and STDs .
2007-12-21 20:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use common sense, there is no harm in a little fun as long as he is clean.
2007-12-21 20:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heheh, omg im a bad girl to say this, but go for it girl..hehe.
the most important things are, u're happy, u won't regret it, u both "clean", and u both arent hurting anyone's feeling.
have fun lady, but beware!
2007-12-21 20:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by aleea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstain!
2007-12-21 20:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your position before. I chose having a little fun. Trust me you won't regret it. Whats wrong with a little fun between relationships? hmmm I'll have to submit that for a question
2007-12-21 20:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go have fun! you have the rest of your life to be tied down!
2007-12-21 20:06:34 · answer #11 · answered by kenj53 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋