Someone just asked if it was common to have multiple orgasms well i want to know if it's normal to have none?
2007-12-25 12:30:27 · 16 answers · asked by Felicia *Proud Mommy Of 2* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It IS normal to have no orgasms....from vaginal sex alone.
Orgasms originate from the clitoris, which is OUTSIDE the vagina. Women who have orgasms from straight vaginal sex are lucky, but they are a minority. Most of us need extra clitoral stimulation to get off.
Honey, there is nothing wrong with getting a vibrating "toy" and experimenting when you are alone. It is the BEST way to help your sex life improve!
Good luck!
2007-12-25 12:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's unfortunate, but some women have a very hard time climaxing. There are medications available that can increase the sex drive and that in itself may help the situation. It simply could be your partner. That was the problem in my case. I'm happily remarried now and having multiple orgasms each and every time we make love.
2007-12-25 20:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on all sorts of things. Multiples may not be common, but it could be.
If your partner is not providing orgasm release, you are partly to blame. You must feel responsible for saying what stimulates you. Don't spend any time pleasing someone once you realize they cannot be concerned with pleasing you.
2007-12-25 20:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by kinsmed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not normal. the problem is that the partner is not hitting the right spots to give an orgasm. I have been people who have never had orgasm's until we become sexual, some oral and some during pennitration, and to there amazement they did not know there body was even capable of having them. It is all in reading each others body. allthough this is commonly talked about it is not normal.
2007-12-25 20:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to not be able to have an orgasm with intercourse but I was after I had the surgery called labioplasty. I was then able to have mutiple orgasms and had always thought it was normal for women to not have an orgasm with intercourse. You should look into having the surgery done but I warn you it is painful and taked time to recover.....but was worth it for me!
2007-12-25 20:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women have trouble having orgasms, you need to do some self exploration, relax, talk to your man and try a few new positions or techniques.
2007-12-25 20:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by grouch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. You just haven't discovered exactly what it takes to get you there. If you're 19 then I assume your husband is young also and neither of you may know enough about your body to hit the right buttons. I hate to be so blunt but, find your clitoris, stimulate it with fingers, oral, toys or all of the above. It's not about the penis. Good luck.
2007-12-25 20:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you and the person you are with. Ive known some women that couldnt have multiple no matter who they are with and others that seem to have them much easier.
2007-12-25 20:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by stangsearchin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on you. a lot also depends on how comfortable you are with you other half. Tell him what you like the best and get him to take his time in doing that. You need to return the favor though.
2007-12-25 21:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for me. If it's not normal for you and you can have orgasms.....keep trying.
2007-12-25 20:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋